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    Hi ladies i have been working at strip clubs almost one and a half year.I was averaging 400-500 $ . Lately especially last 2 months i am having hard time. This month i did not make more than 300 $ including weekend shifts. I work thursday-sunday.This thursday i have made 150 after tip out-friday 300 -saturday 300 sunday 200... And mostly girls were complaining they did not make shit and they told me lucky. But some girls couple of them made money regardles i was middle of money makin couple girls and the girls did not make nearly anything... I am not sure how can i be happy with this amount of money? I feel horrible.

    Too many bills coming up also i am about to start school i need to save money. My goal is 1000$ for every week at least. I COULD make this money in 2 days before but... it seems not possible anymore. Here is the problem. I kinda waste time with people i guess. I cant ask u wanna dance really quick like a lot of girls do... They get dances , sometimes not but me.. i feel like they wont say yes unless i spend some time. A lot of times i dont know how to ask or mention about dances. Before i was more social and did not scared for asking dances now i even i know guy is gonna get dances i feel like idiot and cant ask. Or how can i do quick sale and take them back ?While i try to warm up time goes so quick. And yeah i just realize its 2 oclock and i dont have enough money. I wont be in money making mood unless 11-12.00 i dont know why!!!

    Another peoblem is Dj IS fucking my money lately. He is very nice guy but i know some girls dont go stage at all and when they dont go i have to cover their asses while they dance in the back. I tip him 20 dollar which only we have to tip 5 $ ...He plays music i like or waits for me and keep playin whenever i have customer at the end of the night, But i figured it out other girls dont go stage pay him only 20 bucks to get off stage. I felt like idiot i tip him same amount even more sometimes why does he do to me? I remember days i would get of 3 th stage and i would get maybe break for 1 song or 2 and i would go back to rotation again. I told him i dont like it and this is not fear to me cause cant make money due to rotatiton he keeps sayin he doesnt have girls. I even ask him how much he wants for me to take off stage he said he can only skip me if enough girls....

    Also one of the waitress girl sits with customers almost like hours while we have 10 custy and 15 girls at the club. He was getting dances but why would he get dances while she sits for free? One night it was really bad and same girl were sitting there forever none of the girls could not aproch him because of her.i WAS mad and aproach him even though they sat together. She did not like it try to get rid of me but did not leave so she left. After that i complained about her to manager. I told him to take his waitresses away from customers while we have only 1o guys at the club otherwise i wont pay tipout.Did i do wrong? Now some waitresses think i am super bitch and they seem like hating me... But its my job and i pay house fee i had to do that.

    I am so uncomfy, how can i get quick dances without wasting my time .... and any solutions for dj??? i work beetween 9 to 2 ...
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    January tends to be a fairly slow month in most areas because people realize they need to start saving some of their money after the holidays. I'm not entirely certain if I understood you correctly, but it seems that a lot of the other girls aren't doing as well as you, so it seems like the dip in your average could partially be attributed to a slower club - especially if you have less customers than girls for such long periods of time!

    The best way to push yourself to close the sale early is to remind yourself that time is money! The longer you're sitting with someone who isn't paying you, the more you're hurting your chances of landing a whale. So, set yourself a time limit. Personally, I give it 2-3 songs: 2 when it's busy and the customer seems ready, 3 if it's a bit quieter and the customer seems to need a bit more attention before going for dances. It's best if you can naturally segue the conversation to dances by the end of your time limit, but while you're conditioning yourself to a shorter hustle, it's okay if it's not a perfect segue. Just keep the conversation light and always bring it back to dances/strip clubs/hot girls/etc., so that way you popping the dance question doesn't come out of left field.

    Have you ever asked your DJ if he'd skip you on stage? Next time you tip him 20$, ask. If he says no or doesn't do it, stop tipping him so much. Stop giving away money to people who don't do anything to earn it.

    If a waitress is sitting with a customer for such an extended period of time, I definitely consider him fair game to be hustled. I understand that waitresses live off their tips too, but that doesn't mean they can monopolize customers and detract them from the dancers. That said, it's best to not get on their bad side's because sometimes they can help you out with customers. Good call on going to management, and from now on, just try and be cordial with the waitresses. Encourage your customers to tip them when they buy drinks around you, smile, ask how they're doing, just play nice.

    Best of luck!

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    Club was not like that... It was busy we did not have problem about making money. Yes u understood me right, Sorry about my English still havin hard time when i need write something. But i understand whatever i read at least thats why mostly i read here and try to learn somethin. I USE TO do great without doin bad things. I try but its to overwhelming.

    Dj yes i asked him how much he want to take me off stage he keeps sayin he doesnt have girls! Of course cause already he takes half them of anyways. Sad thing i heard from one of my friends she would give him 20$ and he would take her off... Such a sad... i would tip him same amount to play for me nice music or waiting for me for extra...

    About waitress problem manager was my side and talked with girls after i complained about how we cant make money and if he doesnt do anything we cant pay house fee...And yes he solved problem ASAP thank God. About DJ he said he should not take girls off if he does and he doest support me my manager said to cut his tips off. Thats what i knoe. I cutted once and he stopped playing music early while i was back he mumbled somethin like it was managers orders. I asked to our manager why he wanted to close club while we work... He said he did not say such a thing lol.... Hard to deal with staff sometimes... siriously..


    Thx for help hopefull it gets better soon. I dont sit people dont pay so long but i sit with guys used to get dances before and my regulars i dont know what to tell them adn mention about dances and qucikly move on..

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    Are there any other clubs you can check out nearby? Perhaps they're busier or have more cooperative staff (although that manager sounds decent!). I'm not saying to full-out switch clubs, but maybe give it a shot with a shift a week and see if that club is better.

    Hopefully you keep in touch with your regulars and can move them with you, but if not, perhaps you can even consolidate them to one shift a week at our home club. I did this last year when the money was slowing at my home club. I kept my most profitable shift, made sure all my regulars knew that was when they could come see me, and moved on to a better club. It was win-win since I made better money at the new club but also had an almost guaranteed profitable shift once a week at my home club.

    Sometimes all it takes is switching things up!

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    I thought about it but the place i live mostly clubs located in same street. Also managers are so strict about workin other clubs. They suspend people who works back and forth if they figure out .I dont have driving licence dont know how to drive. I cant go another city or state. I live in NORTH Carolina right now.Once i worked at SOUTH Carolina Mrtyle beach at Gentelmans Club. I felt so stupid and uncomfy. I only made 60 $ and club was so weird. Everything was so fancy but people did not even wanna pay 30 dollar dance also we only keep 20 plus pay house fee and have to tip eveyone else too. It seem like not really profitable for me.Club get cuts from everything. Also vip, CR and jakuzi room host told me if i wanna do somethin ... u know bad things i should take customers to most expensive one jakuzi room that way nooone would check me and he would help me to hustle etc.. I felt gross.Mostly people were doctors ... business man etc.. bragg about money.. but they would so scared about spending more than 2-3 couch dance and they would ask for if i wanna join to their next busines trip. I dance for soldiers nearby base and even they spend more money easily .... Gentlemans club failed for me... The club i work is not best but very busy in town also shady place... Next door club is fancier but more catty girls nor really laid back and better lookin girls and dancers dont know how to compete with them... i am not a great dancer on stage honestly... I feel so nervouse whenever i go new club. Especially girls always give me so much hard time... i m not sure if i am ready for this or not. i wanna try new club but what if i even do worst lol and be totally broke...i have been workin at this club almost a year.... i am thinking maybe i am not new girl anymore thats why harder to make money?

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    I know what club your at and those girls are paying $20 each set they are skipped. Also, keep in mind deployments. Money comes in cycles in that town. I worked at that club for almost 2 years. There will always be favoritism towards girls. You may want to just try another club for a while. Also I think they are black listed right now so that could be a lot to do with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kris7272 View Post
    I know what club your at and those girls are paying $20 each set they are skipped. Also, keep in mind deployments. Money comes in cycles in that town. I worked at that club for almost 2 years. There will always be favoritism towards girls. You may want to just try another club for a while. Also I think they are black listed right now so that could be a lot to do with it.
    I have moved another state i dont work there anymore.This place was in fayetteville NC

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    1) set yourself hourly goals. If I find myself lagging I set myself an achievable goal: "It's 10:07 right now, by 11:00 I want 5 lap dances!" It's not that big of a deal when you look at it like that and giving yourself less than an hour to power hard makes it less likely that you'll freak yourself out.

    2) Quick lap dance sales usually come from being gimmicky. I used to get a ton of quick lap dances by dressing up as twins with my friend and all we had to do was wanna dance people. Now I just dress very young and innocent and bat my eyes like a little girl. You already have a gimmick-your accent! So play that up! Girls with accents always charm guys much faster than American girls, if you flirt a ton, bat your eyes, and giggle, your accent will be so alluring to the guys that it won't be difficult to convince them to get a dance. Just flirt a little, giggle, and then tell them you want to dance for them in a really thick, cute accent.
    Thank u for advise, however thread itself is lil bit old, i moved PA now i work at a club with no hustle.Only stage dances and tips i am not allowed be on the floor after my stage set is done, i have to be back to DR and wait for next stage set... Sirisously thats even harder ... pretty much i cant talk with people, chat or ask for dances. Only customers can purchase and pick girls from stage if they wanna do dances. Very overwhelming. I live in state college , PA now. I found hustle clubs were much easier it was more money going on. Since i moved PA i have tried 3 different clubs . I Never broked more than 250... i had 20 dances from 15 $ i have worked one of the clubs i mentioned i only paid from those dances 170$ . It was not fair ! Every club i tried around here only let me keep 10 dollar from each dance.Which i cant make money.

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