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    so, i work in a two way contact. basically my main sell is my sensuality. i'm naturally a sensual person and if i'm touched properly i get really turned on and i really get wet no matter what the person looks like. male or female, if they know how to touch me, i go crazy.anyway, the reason men take me for longer periods of time in the VIP is i actually enjoy being touched. not the grabby, rough ones just the normal soft touches. when i do get wet, i show it to men and they love it. obviously they will try to turn me on and get more dances. of course they never really get to touch me down there. i just grind more on their lap, moaning and loving the rub.i usually moan gently when they touch my breasts and ass. they love it! they think i'm enjoying it. one very helpful tip: when you actually pretend you are enjoying yourself, you start to actually enjoy yourself. then men will enjoy themselves too and get more dances. i'm also a very affectionate person. everytime i finish my dances, all customers will get a kiss on the cheek and a thank you from me. except the grabby ones and the overly drunk ones though. anyway, i just wanted to share about my hustle. when you are actually enjoying yourself, men will get more dances. i usually do my dances really slow with lots of touching and kissing them softly on their neck and breathing down on their ear and face. i pretend that i'm going to kiss them on their lips when i'm only breathing on their face.also, i never take anything off on my first dance. my first dance, i touch them a lot. my second dance, i take my top off and my third i take my undies. so usually i get at least three dances from all the custies
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    I know for some girls this is too much, but I work in a high contact city and this is excellent advice. It is very true that if you play it well and pretend to enjoy it as much as the customer is he will stay. This is part of stroking his ego. Think about it, you're a smoking hot stripper and could have any guy you want, and he thinks HE can get you off. Pretending that you're feeling orgasmic while dancing on him WILL keep him back there much longer.
    Also, touch THEM, I like to ask guys to flex their arms and I tell them that I find it very attractive, I massage their arms or chest or run my hands through their hair, they want touching too! Just don't grab their dicks ladies!

    I totally second everything you said, especially about not doing this with the grabby or drunk guys. They're obviously the very stupid ones and will think you want them to pull their dick out or some shit.

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    I work at high contact club too. But i do not like it when they touch me and actually i like it. I remember one gross guy with missin teeth he was old black dude...Played with my nipples and i liked it but i hated it was gross. I kept pushing his hands and did not want him to keep going. Possibly i would get more dances but mentally that dude and whatever he did destroyed me. Still when my bf touches my boobs and play my nipples i remember his gross face.I wish it could never happened.He touched me he was gross and i liked it .... i just wanna cry siriously... thats all reminds me is shame and regret.

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    Missplayful, you should not ever do anything you're uncomfortable with. I do let guys touch my boobs, but not play with my nipples. They are too sensitive and thats just too much for me as well. So some guys really like that but it doesn't matter, I'm not comfortable and I will tell them to stop, if they keep going I will embarrass them or twist their own nipples (have done it) so they can understand that it is painful and I don't want it done.

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    i work in a NO contact club and this advice still applies...getting really close, breathing on their neck, ears, face, rubbing myself and getting myself turned on then showing them. it's more of the vibe itself and actually getting into it. always helps when it's a good, respectful customer though.

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    yes it's the sexual vibe. when i'm really turned on, i can feel the amuse on men's faces. it's funny. and i'm actually loving the grinding on their hard ons. lol. we both enjoy the grinding and they know i enjoy it too. also i make a lot of orgasmic faces. licking my lips, parting my lips like marilyn monroe http://www.uniquecustom.info/marilyn...e-wallpaper-6/ ................. i also get a lot of compliments regarding my lips since i copy marilyn monroe pics. she looks like she is about to orgasm in her pics. also when you try to look sexy and act very sexual, you actually become turned on.whenever i do my stage shows and i do lapdances, it's funny how in the beginning, i act very turned on and my body starts to actually turn on. mind over body.
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    Although this is great advice, I just cannot get turned on at work. I cannot even fathom enjoying grinding on some nasty bastard's hard-on. The only thing that turns me on is the money. And that doesn't even happen until AFTER the dance when I got the cash in hand. But, whatever works for you, keep on doing it!

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    I guess I'm just a prude who happens to be a semi-good actress because even reading this thread gave me a case of the ickies. I can never moan whilst dancing for a guy, it would just come off as fake and would probably make me LOL so I usally bite my lip and giggle, which is more convincing for me. I also wouldn't feel comfortable with kissing a customer's neck as you mentioned. I agree with your general concept, "when you enjoy yourself you will get more dances" no one wants dances from an unhapppy stripper. I suppose I just go about seeming to enjoy myself in a different way than you do.

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    Being turned on by customer makes me feel so regret and also gross for me. I have a bf waiting at home. Also destroys me mentally. Sometimes assholes try to lick ma for a second. U guys know really quick sneaky thing till u do something its too late... it makes me so piss of or whenever i turn my back 50 percent of customers try to stick their finger ... till i lean back i am so late already they have been touched for a second or maybe two... i dont get it why they do that. They only do for a second really quicly sneaky way... i am so upset. How can i avoid those quick fingers and quick licks? i have learned a trick i cover my boobs and pretend like touchin myself while i dance that way they cant lick my boobs. but... cant really save my ass and croch sometimess boobs very rare.

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    Put deodorant or bitters (I think they sell it at pet stores for dogs...lol) on your nipples, neck, etc... Both taste horrible and will serve these pervs right. As for the fingers, tell them before the dance starts "to keep his hands to himself and you'll do all the dirty work.." wink. If he touches you after you tell him not to then do an airdance from that point on. YOU are in control.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Put deodorant or bitters (I think they sell it at pet stores for dogs...lol) on your nipples, neck, etc... Both taste horrible and will serve these pervs right. As for the fingers, tell them before the dance starts "to keep his hands to himself and you'll do all the dirty work.." wink. If he touches you after you tell him not to then do an airdance from that point on. YOU are in control.

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    yeah i know its threadjack so sorry again,I always tell them but they never seem like listening me... they keep saying nobodys gonna see etc.. blah blah bull shit. I am so burnt out lately about dealing that bull shit. I danced 6 songs for a mexican which he was nice first but he licked my ass when i was shakin my butt for him i told him dont .... than he tried to finger me again i pushed his finger, and again he tried to lick .... i cant remember how... but somehow i smacked him on the face... i could not even realized how happened. Customer paid and left. Cant believe i smacked a customer on face. Normally i am very veyr calm person i cant believe i lost my dignity and i did this. Luckily manager did not fire me for what i did . Nothing happened . I ll put tons of lotion and spray also i ll try to be calm and gather money before dances that way maybe i can walk away ... simply

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Although this is great advice, I just cannot get turned on at work. I cannot even fathom enjoying grinding on some nasty bastard's hard-on. The only thing that turns me on is the money. And that doesn't even happen until AFTER the dance when I got the cash in hand. But, whatever works for you, keep on doing it!
    I don't get turned on by a customer's hard-on. I get turned on every time I see my sexy ass in the mirrors in the dressing room, and occasionally by another dancer That's where my 'sensuality' comes from

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    Quote Originally Posted by missplayful View Post
    yeah i know its threadjack so sorry again,I always tell them but they never seem like listening me... they keep saying nobodys gonna see etc.. blah blah bull shit. I am so burnt out lately about dealing that bull shit. I danced 6 songs for a mexican which he was nice first but he licked my ass when i was shakin my butt for him i told him dont .... than he tried to finger me again i pushed his finger, and again he tried to lick .... i cant remember how... but somehow i smacked him on the face... i could not even realized how happened. Customer paid and left. Cant believe i smacked a customer on face. Normally i am very veyr calm person i cant believe i lost my dignity and i did this. Luckily manager did not fire me for what i did . Nothing happened . I ll put tons of lotion and spray also i ll try to be calm and gather money before dances that way maybe i can walk away ... simply
    I don't like it is reason enough. "No one seeing" is irrelevant. If you say no, stop, don't, etc and he continues it is a crime period. It's not okay and honestly he deserved to be slapped! He assaulted you, you defended yourself. You did nothing wrong!
    Bitch? Actually I'm an evil cunt. Slut? Try dirty little whore. Either way, you have to pay for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalypso View Post
    I don't like it is reason enough. "No one seeing" is irrelevant. If you say no, stop, don't, etc and he continues it is a crime period. It's not okay and honestly he deserved to be slapped! He assaulted you, you defended yourself. You did nothing wrong!
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    I sell my sensuality too, but I don't actually get turned on at work. I always pretend that I'm enjoying myself and that I find my customer so sexy and attractive, but I don't take it as far as kissing their necks. Aside from my moral aversion to it, I'm a total Germaphobe.

    I'm glad you've found a way that works well for you, but there's definitely more than on way to sell your sensuality. I wrap mine in a different package.



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    They say you should find a job that you love but I'm not so sure about mixing business with pleasure. I like the idea of faking it and feeling good because you convinced yourself you are having a good time = more $$$ because customer is into seeing you enjoy yourself. Actually getting wet, I guess it happens but something tells me I need to keep a part of me to myself or I become the act. Lots of mixed up feelings here and to everything there is a season, but not across the board, then again that is the whole idea behind this kind of work and why it is dangerous, because the temptation is always there to sell off parts of yourself, then again.. how bad is that? I guess it's a case by case sorta thing.

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    yea i love to mix business with pleasure... i do have a lot of self-control though. i can turn it on and turn it off anytime i want. i have the talent. but mostly if the man isn't too drunk and wasted, i enjoy myself well. i like to feel connected with the men i give lapdances to and make them feel special. i always say the right words like how we are compatible sexually and give them a lot of ego boost. it makes me feel good when they feel good.
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    ^Good for you. If that makes you happy, I guess that's all that matters; doing a job that makes you happy.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Kat w View Post
    I can never moan whilst dancing for a guy, it would just come off as fake and would probably make me LOL so I usally bite my lip and giggle, which is more convincing for me.
    You know I was just thinking the other day that stripping has actually taught me how to be verbally sexual. A friend of mine and I were talking about verbalizing desire and they were like, "yeh, guys just want someone to say something sexy to them in a soft voice." As lame and "porn-y" as we think talking dirty sounds, customers actually get really turned on by it. It doesn't even have to be super-explicit; "ooh yeh, that feels good. You like that too baby? Ooh I can tell you're excited!" can suffice, or even JUST moaning while grinding. Guys totally believe it, or at least WANT to believe it, which is more important. I mean, dudes pay for JUST verbal sexiness when they call a PSO line. I'm starting to get better at it.

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    This is key to sell. I do this too. Especially on stage by making eye contact, moving seductively. Guys love this, when they have they think that you are into them.

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    Guys wanna believe whatever you tell them which makes it really easy.lol Its all about getting them into your vibe and taking what you want from them which is Money and not let them turn it around on you...

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    If THAT fucked you up you need to get out of dancing ASAP before something else happens and you're REALLY messed up. This job requires a certain ability to either not care or blocking it out. Two things you seem to lack. Not a bad thing in real life but a real problem for the sc

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    Quote Originally Posted by Money_Worshipper View Post
    yea i love to mix business with pleasure... i do have a lot of self-control though. i can turn it on and turn it off anytime i want. i have the talent. but mostly if the man isn't too drunk and wasted, i enjoy myself well. i like to feel connected with the men i give lapdances to and make them feel special. i always say the right words like how we are compatible sexually and give them a lot of ego boost. it makes me feel good when they feel good.
    Dont bother I got flamed in another thread for saying I enjoyed some of my lap dances. I honesty have no idea why, fuck me what an asshole for not being the miserable "I hate my life" trash that makes up most of the strip club staff

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    Dont bother I got flamed in another thread for saying I enjoyed some of my lap dances. I honesty have no idea why, fuck me what an asshole for not being the miserable "I hate my life" trash that makes up most of the strip club staff
    Hahahaha sooo true.... Dnt listen to anyone.. If thats what you like no one has the right to tell you other wise... Just be careful in all you do...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dddallas View Post
    Dont bother I got flamed in another thread for saying I enjoyed some of my lap dances. I honesty have no idea why, fuck me what an asshole for not being the miserable "I hate my life" trash that makes up most of the strip club staff
    It's one thing to enjoy your job but some girls take it to the next level by letting guys touch them inappropriately, making out with customers, letting customers kiss, lick and suck on them all in the name of "enjoying themselves". There are boundaries and I don't care how much it turns you on, don't bring it in the club. It's a job.

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