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    GR'S ULTIMATE GUIDE TO SAFETY & PRIVACY & PREVENTING STALKERS:

    I'm paranoid. Maybe too paranoid. But I look at the precautions below as insurance on my life in case of potential disasters. It takes some time and money to do, but very worth it. No one will be able to fuck with you or find you, and therefore, will likely not be able to stalk you unless they follow you. Luckily most cam customers live all over, so this is very helpful. Though I think everyone should do this, this info mostly applies to cam girls and maybe porn stars. Strippers need to do a bunch of other stuff to ensure their privacy because they can be physically stalked from the club. Cam girls cannot obviously.


    BUSINESS / PERSONAL:
    - Create & register a random LLC. A random jumble or words or a phrase. Something not taken. We will call this LLC1
    - Create & register a second LLC in a pleasant-sounding random name. Then register a DBA under the real name of your business for this LLC. We will call this LLC2.

    - Never have anything mailed to your home address. Seriously, you don't need it. And it can be stolen anyway unless you live in a secured building. (See last bullet in this section)
    - Open a street-addressed PO box in the name of your business LLC or DBA (LLC2). ONLY have things shipped to you under the name of your LLC or DBA. Even if you purchase personal stuff or have magazine subscriptions. Make sure it, in NO way, is connected to your real name. You want to register this PO box at least a couple cities away from the one you actually live in (you'll see why under WISHLISTS & PAYMENTS). You are supposed to give the box place a valid address that you live at, but technically you could give a relative's address (if they'd let you), or the address on your ID if its expired. Or, something else, but I will tell you below under ***HELPFUL***.
    - Open a second PO box at a different street-addressed PO box place. Open it in the name of your random LLC1 name. Have ALL your junk mail and non-official mail go here, but ONLY shipped to the name of LLC1. You can also bypass this step completely, which I will tell you how to do below under ***HELPFUL***.
    - Open a third PO box at a postal service. Make sure its easily accessible. Have all your official & government mail go here.
    - How To Safely Stop Getting Mail At Home: Change your addresses on your important accounts to filter to your government & official mail PO box at the postal office, or to your business street-addressed PO box. Then, open a PO box at a postal service (NONE of the ones above!). Have all the rest of your current mail forwarded to this new PO box address... minus the important stuff since you've changed your addresses on those accounts by now, right? Have mail go to this PO box for a month or two. Then, look up the address of a random postal service mail drop box location in a random state (Alaska, Utah, Wyoming, anywhere out of your state!) and change your address to PERMANENTLY forward your mail here. You can call them for an address if you can't find one online. The mail will be safely returned to the sender, obviously. And it will have appeared to whomever writes you/mails you that you have moved out of state. Permanently close the PO box you used for forwarding temporarily.


    YOUR NAME:
    - Change your last name and GUARD it like you would guard your social security number. Don't even tell anyone you changed it. As for the newspaper you have to post the change in, pick something random in a random state like Wyoming or something. Some may argue this is too far, but I don't think it is. You can still put your current last name as your middle name and tell everyone its still your last name. Do you even realize how much info can be found out about you if someone gets ahold of your last name?? Birthdays are easy to figure out, and that's all a predator would need to get your address and more.
    - Set up google alerts for your name, the name of your business, etc.
    - Search for yourself on sites like intelius, white pages, peekyou, mylife, etc. GET IT ALL REMOVED! Contact them & harass them until they remove ALL your information! And keep tabs on it monthly to make sure it stays that way.


    ***HELPFUL***:
    * This is going to take a lot of work, but I believe it will be worth it. I am not to this point yet, but I will at some point:
    - Pay someone monthly or yearly to have your mail shipped to their place. You DO NOT want this person to be a friend or a relative! You want something with your own address preferably... so having them add 999A Smith Street and 999B Smith Street will work. You are going to probably have to search long & hard though to find somewhere you can do this at. This is IDEAL because you can use this as your home address forever (even though you don't live there which is a GOOD thing... a stalker will THINK you DO live there!), so no one will ever be able to trace it back to you. You can also use this for your car LLC (see below under PROPERTY). What if you accidently get mixed up in someone else's crime? What if someone took down your licence plate number and wants to find you? There's a million what-ifs, but random things like this happen all the time. If things trace back to an address like this, you'll never be found.


    CREDIT:
    - Pay cash whenever possible. The less of a paper trail you have, the better.
    - Use your card as "credit" rather than "debit" at non-reputable stores (aka anything other than a chain store). Pin numbers can be stolen pretty easily. http://www.creditcards.com/credit-ca...-card-1271.php
    - Have a permanent freeze placed on your credit reports. That means that you will no longer receive offers in the mail (since you were pre-screened). That's a good thing IMO. http://manvsdebt.com/how-to-freeze-c...eports-online/
    - Get a FREE copy of your credit report yearly (though I think you should look at it more often than that) through AnnualCreditReport.com. Make sure to have it mailed to your postal office PO box- the one you are using for your official and government mail.


    PROPERTY:
    - Create yet ANOTHER random LLC (LLC3) with some dumb name, and have its address trace back to a junk street-addressed PO box (preferably in another state) NOT under your name. Or, preferably, to the place you pay someone monthly/yearly in order to get mail at their address. Then, have the LLC (secretly you) purchase a car in cash so there is no record. That way, if you're ever in an accident or cut someone off and they want to seek revenge, your plate # will not trace back to you in any form.
    - Ideally, you'd want to do the same thing with a house, but that isn't possible in places like CA or NY unless you have a lot of cash. So this is where its handy to have changed your last name to something new that no one knows about. Then no one can search for your address on pages like intelius or whitepages because you won't come up AT ALL.


    SAFETY IN YOUR HOME:
    - Make sure you have strong, working locks on all your windows and doors. If you need to have the window or door replaced for a newer, stronger model, invest in it do it. Personally, I think it might also be a good idea to invest in those metal bar grids you can have places over your windows. Some of them are really pretty & dainty. Wrought iron. Personally, that's what I'd do if I lived in a house.
    - Live in a high-rise if you're afraid of being physically stalked. Obviously these don't exist everywhere, but I feel the safest in these.
    - Have a decoy safe sitting in the bottom of your closet or somewhere semi-visible to an intruder. Fill it with a couple hundred dollars & semi-important documents so it looks legit. Have a real safe somewhere really hidden, and make sure its heavy and bolted in tight. DO NOT TELL ANYONE WHERE IT IS. Tell 1 person, like maybe your mom or an older adult that can actually keep a secret, and that you trust with your life.
    - Get a diversion safe or two. This is the best option if you live in an apartment or don't own your home. Comet cleanser diversion safe, dictionary diversion book safe, surge protector diversion safe... there are a million of them. Just don't pick something that you think will be used a lot or of interest to people that come over.
    - Get a taser and pepper spray. Consensus is split on if you should get a gun or not. If you get one, do not tell ANYONE you have one or where you keep it. Keep it VERY hidden and locked away somewhere sneaky.
    - Have decoy weapons. Maybe a lamp that can double as a an assault weapon, your "child's" baseball bat in the garage... Look around at everything! What could be used as a weapon in case of a break-in emergency? Remember where they all are.


    TAXES:
    - Though nothing big would happen if you did, I'd suggest not filing taxes under your home address. Use your PO box postal service address.
    - Try to avoid filing your taxes as anything adult sounding. No porn star. No cam girl. No entertainer. Go for consultant, artist, marketer, etc. Something reputable, believable, and at least semi-true so it can never be used against you.
    - Pay extra and use an accountant. While if you only made a little bit of money or did not have any significant tax deductions you may not need to, if you did make a significant amount, the accountant can find a lot of random deductions for you and save you $$$ overall.
    - Claim ALL your money! There IS a paper trail regardless or not if they sent you a 1099. If it was once electronic (payoneer, checks, alertpay, direct deposit etc.), then it will be reported to the government. However, the same is not true about stripping. There is no paper trail, but you still *should* claim all the money you made.
    - Be 100% self-employed and stay that way. Just an opinion. That way, your wages can never be garnished or taken from you in ANY way.


    STALKERS:
    * Most of the good info has been stated already, so I'll just post links:
    - http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...reepy-neighbor
    - http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...uy-no-means-no


    WISHLISTS & PAYMENTS:
    - If you want your customer to buy you something off your wishlist, I suggest having him send you an Amazon e-giftcard instead and purchasing it yourself. Don't even list your address unless you live in a big city. Otherwise, he will see the city you live in, or if you followed my rules, he will see the city you have LLC2's street-addressed PO box registered at. And remember, guys can cancel those items at any time anyway. Amazon e-giftcards cannot be cancelled.
    - NEVER accept Paypal. Just never. Chargebacks. Customer seeing your name/information.


    CAMMING-SPECIFIC GENERAL SAFETY:
    - http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...sonal-Security
    - http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...k-in-progress)
    - http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/group.php?discussionid=421 (VERIFIED GIRLS MEMBERS ONLY CAN READ)


    ONLINE SAFETY: REMOVING YOUR NAME, ADDRESS, AND INFO FROM PUBLIC SEARCH DATABASES:
    - http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...nd-check-sites
    - http://www.privacyrights.org/online-...n-brokers-list
    You will actually have to keep doing this over & over again as they continually get added back. I personally think its just easier to legally change your last name and not tell it to anyone.

    Feel free to add to the list!
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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Wouldn't leading them to someone in your family be a good way to just lead them right to you?I mean... maybe it's just me. But, like, my entire extended family only has 3 other girls within 10 years of my age either way. If they could find my relative's info... I don't think it'd been too much harder to find me.
    Yep, but its not your current address. An old address with a forwarding to a PO box (that you close) and then to an Alaska (or random state) mail drop box is ideal. There's no way to get around it leading directly back to you unless you follow the info under "***HELPFUL***" and use someone's else you don't know's guest house or shack or little personal mail box as your own. A stalker probably wouldn't have access to that info anyway since they'd have to break in or be affiliated with the PO box company you're renting through. But at least with that, companies & stalkers would literally believe you lived there.

    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    I don't get this one. Are you supposed to never register the car or get insurance?
    You register it in the name of your random LLC. You put everything into the name of the LLC then a DBA on top of that. You give your tax identification # instead of your social. The reason you register the DBA is for extra privacy. So if you wanted to be really sneaky and seem legit, you could register your LLC as "Amy Smitherton" (or whatever real sounding name) and then put DBA whatever company name for an extra veil of privacy. Then add in the EIN and its not like you're withholding any info because they didn't ask for anything else. In many of these cases, you'd have to pay extra, but its worth your privacy. If you're interested, you can read more here: http://www.streetdirectory.com/trave...ownership.html You're not hiding yourself from the government, you're hiding yourself from stalkers.


    I didn't make up any of this info. I read it all in books and then did it. The most prominent book being How To Be Invisible.

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    Glamy- are there any books you can recommend reading?

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    I think this is crazy.


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    Quoted from: http://www.nolo.com/legal-encycloped...llc-30287.html

    Article: How to form an LLC

    "Required Information
    Articles of organization are short, simple documents. In fact, you can usually prepare your own in just a few minutes by filling in the blanks and checking the boxes on a form provided by your state's filing office. Typically, you must provide only your LLC's name, its address, and sometimes the names of all of the owners -- called members. Generally, all of the LLC owners may prepare and sign the articles, or they can appoint just one person to do so.
    Registered Agent
    You will probably also be required to list the name and address of a person -- usually one of the LLC members -- who will act as your LLC's "registered agent," or "agent for service of process." Your agent is the person designated to receive legal papers in any future lawsuit involving your LLC.
    Publication Requirements
    In a few states, you must take an additional step to make your company official: You must publish a simple notice in a local newspaper, stating that you intend to form an LLC. You are required to publish the notice several times over a period of weeks and then submit an "affidavit of publication" to the LLC filing office. Your local newspaper should be able to help you with this filing."

    Sounds like your name and information will be more out there after you create multiple LLC's than before.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    I was under the impression that LLCs had to be created with a legit name. ...And you can request information on who owns an LLC.Which is why I'm confused as to how buying something using your LLC/DBA name prevents people from finding you.Are you supposed to convince someone else to let you create your LLC under their name, too?Because DBA aside... wouldn't your real name be attached to the LLC somewhere down the line?
    lol you have it all wrong. You can create an LLC in any name you want. You could make it Slutlord Serpenthead if you wanted. As long as its not taken by someone else already. A DBA should be in the name of your business, but if your business only has 1 asset (a car) and no income then it doesn't really matter. No, you can create an LLC under someone's name if you'd like and its not taken if you want. That's creepy though. I was just suggesting you pick some random name if you wanted it to look like a name of a person on the record. It doesn't matter though. You can file under an organization to be an anonymous LLC if you're that worried. Here's an example: http://www.northwestregisteredagent....y-company.html But unless a stalker has access to private government records, I doubt it would even matter.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    Quoted from: http://www.nolo.com/legal-encycloped...llc-30287.html

    Article: How to form an LLC

    "Required Information
    Articles of organization are short, simple documents. In fact, you can usually prepare your own in just a few minutes by filling in the blanks and checking the boxes on a form provided by your state's filing office. Typically, you must provide only your LLC's name, its address, and sometimes the names of all of the owners -- called members. Generally, all of the LLC owners may prepare and sign the articles, or they can appoint just one person to do so.
    Registered Agent
    You will probably also be required to list the name and address of a person -- usually one of the LLC members -- who will act as your LLC's "registered agent," or "agent for service of process." Your agent is the person designated to receive legal papers in any future lawsuit involving your LLC.
    Publication Requirements
    In a few states, you must take an additional step to make your company official: You must publish a simple notice in a local newspaper, stating that you intend to form an LLC. You are required to publish the notice several times over a period of weeks and then submit an "affidavit of publication" to the LLC filing office. Your local newspaper should be able to help you with this filing."

    Sounds like your name and information will be more out there after you create multiple LLC's than before.
    You guys obviously did not read through my entire thing before commenting. I already wrote about this above.

    There is no set records on which newspaper you have to publish in. It does not have to be local. Local to what, anyway? You can open a PO box anywhere. The newspaper you'd choose would be a random one is a low key city and state that does not post on the internet. No one would find it. In addition, you can form the LLC in ANY state because you can open a PO box anywhere! So just don't choose a state that requires newspaper publishing if you're not interested in publishing in one.

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    ^I did read it. I just know that if it's published in a newspaper somewhere, then that makes it all the more googlable. Many newspapers publish just about everything online these days.

    I just googled my fathers LLC and found him in a jiffy, along with the newspaper posting from 2004 a few pages back.

    It just seems - to me - that you'd be making more footprints than you'd be erasing.


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    Very in depth. I'll be using a couple of these tips for privacy in general. Thanks, Glamour.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    Glamy- are there any books you can recommend reading?
    How To Be Invisible, Navigating The Legal Minefield of Private Investigations, How To Disappear, any booking on private investigation like The Private Investigator Handbook, books on how to protect your assets. If you want to go deeper: One Nation Under Surveillance


    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    I think this is crazy.
    Tell that to JJ Luna. I didn't make the rules. Like I said before, your goal should be to protect yourself from stalkers, not hide yourself from the government. The more digging one has to do, the more likely it is that they will have to crack open high security documents to do so. That's the goal.

    And although I suggest you buy his book, you can still see it here: http://markettorrent.com/community/5916 The information you are looking for would be found directly under chapters 15 & 16.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    ^I did read it. I just know that if it's published in a newspaper somewhere, then that makes it all the more googlable. Many newspapers publish just about everything online these days.

    I just googled my fathers LLC and found him in a jiffy, along with the newspaper posting from 2004 a few pages back.

    It just seems - to me - that you'd be making more footprints than you'd be erasing.
    You don't have to file in a state what requires that. And even if you do, it does not have to be a local newspaper. It would be anywhere. It would be one that does not ever post anything online. You can even give an LLC as a gift!

    "Might an LLC be used as a gift?

    If you wish to instill the concept of personal privacy into your children, I can think of no better high school or university graduation gift than an LLC. Think of the privacy that you would be enjoying today had you started working on it right after graduation! If you plan to present the actual documents, the LLC will have to have a name. Why not choose a geographical name from your area? For instance, if you live in San Pedro, California, one of these might work: Rolling Hills Associates LLC; Lomita Limited LLC; Point Fermin Enterprises LLC, or Harbor Lake Services LLC."

    Interested about LLC (chapter 15) and personal car registration & insurance under an LLC (chapter 16)? Control + F "LIMITED LIABILITY COMPANIES" or "PURCHASING A VEHICLE"
    http://markettorrent.com/community/5916

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    Wouldn't it just be easier to change your last name to GOTTI or something?

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    If you change your last name, wouldn't you have to change it with those cam sites? It's 3am which doesn't help right now



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    Quote Originally Posted by Frenchie View Post
    Wouldn't it just be easier to change your last name to GOTTI or something?
    Haaa!

    GlamourRouge, bless you for posting these things to be helpful, but it all strikes me as way too much trouble and in the end most people get outed because they tell someone close to them who tells someone else (usually a boyfriend or a jealous female friend).

    I honestly think it's all way overkill to do some of this. I disguise my appearance on cam and that has made me far more comfortable than anything else. As far as everyone in my personal life knows I do online customer service (which I have done in the past so it's not a big change). Only a few select people know what I do.



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    ^^ I've said several times that 100% of girls who become cam girls are outed even with geoblocking on. Just the people who come across you 1.) don't want to admit they were looking at porn, and 2.) don't want to admit they saw you because its an awkward situation for both parties. I've been camming a little over 6 months and I've already been outed by people (I have no idea who) that saw me on cam and stated personal info about me in my chat room. That's not the issue here though. No one should go into this industry expecting to have their identity kept under wraps because its not realistic.

    This has to do with stalkers finding your information and coming to your house. I have dealt with a few stalkers, and until someone personally does, they probably will not understand the value of this info. Especially when you live in a constant state of paranoia or fear. With this info (basically a compilation of cliff notes from these books: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...=1#post2279998), you can pretty much prevent stalkers from being able to find out your information and contact you. At least that has been my experience, and others listed in those books. Its a life saver really. Though for those who have not had a stalker before, its a great preventative measure.
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    Thank you for all this info but also for those of you who ship items do not go to you local post office or shipper near you home they stamp the zip code on the packages. Try to go as far as you can away from home multiple zip codes away.Defiantly get a PO box so you and your mail are more secure. But the government PO box is great for official items but limited as most of them do not accept private shipping companies like Ups FedEx so find a private PO box shipping company like UPS store some other type company similar to them,. They are good to have since they will accept and sign for Fed Ex UPS and other privates shipping companies just ask these private PO companies if they provide this service. That way you do not have anything delivered to your house and the security that your package is not left at your door for the world to take and also prevent questions about what you got from your online shopping adventures from parents roomies or others. And if you can get another Private store PO box in another part of state or other state they will ship your mail and other packages to your other PO Box. Our security is important to us so stop and think out everything.

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    Thank you, Glamour, for posting this. I am going to Amazon right now to order some books.

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    I actually downloaded "How to be Invisible" not too long ago. Can't wait to read it. I'm also planning not to show so much of my face in pics and on the cam, unless in private.



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    The only people who have my address are the cam companies I work for. And I have enough faith in them not to disclose my location to a stalker. I never have anything mailed to me. But for those of you who do, having a PO Box in a business name is the best way. And use a PO in a neighboring city.

    And...no Amazon wishlists. Really, they CAN get your city. It's easier to just ask for a gift card by e mail to your favorite retailer. I mean, if they REALLY have the money to pay for amazon, they can easily go to a retailer website and order you an e gift card.

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    I just believe in guns. LOTS of them! Along with a marine boyfriend and neighbors who are as gun crazy as meeee. Thank you U.S. army for teaching me how to sleep with my rifle, and be alert at allll times.

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    How to be Invisible is a GREAT book! I have it on my kindle.
    But I think the question someone was asking earlier is, even if you make an LLC called ButtSniffersofAmerica LLC, don't they require you to put the owners real name and show proof that you are who you are so its registered under you? So if I google ButtSniffersofAmerica LLC I'll see that Mary Jane is the registered owner. That's where I see the issue....I may be missing something though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondCupcakes View Post
    How to be Invisible is a GREAT book! I have it on my kindle.
    But I think the question someone was asking earlier is, even if you make an LLC called ButtSniffersofAmerica LLC, don't they require you to put the owners real name and show proof that you are who you are so its registered under you? So if I google ButtSniffersofAmerica LLC I'll see that Mary Jane is the registered owner. That's where I see the issue....I may be missing something though.

    P.S. Thank you for the amazing thread! =)
    The owner is officially listed as the name of the LLC. You can register your LLC in any state. There are also companies who anonymously register LLC's for you so your name would not be attached in any way if you used that company or one like them. Here's any example of one as posted above: http://www.northwestregisteredagent....y-company.html And that company only charges $50 per LLC that they register for you anonymously.

    "New Mexico does not require very much information on formations. New Mexico LLCs are under the New Mexico Code, Chapter 53, Article 19, Limited Liability Companies. It states that you must have a business name with an LLC ending, an organizer (Which doesn't have to be you), New Mexico Registered Agent, a principal office, the duration of the LLC."

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    My only obstacle to this is-- where do I get all my packages shipped to? I think I do more than half of my shopping online, including big ticket items.
    Is this where the ghost address comes in? I was going to buy a mailbox and put it in front of a condensed building, or use a church address in exchange for a donation, but something about having my packages dropped off at those locations creeps me out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPinkCupcake View Post
    My only obstacle to this is-- where do I get all my packages shipped to? I think I do more than half of my shopping online, including big ticket items.
    Is this where the ghost address comes in? I was going to buy a mailbox and put it in front of a condensed building, or use a church address in exchange for a donation, but something about having my packages dropped off at those locations creeps me out.
    If security is your concern, then a street-addressed P.O. box (private company PO boxes) that you sign up for in the name of your LLC. Or a ghost address. Either work. The safer option would be the private PO box.

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    I know in the US there are places that will be a "ghost address" for you. They receive your package, send you an email an then forward it to your address. A lot of people in the UK use it with some companies that do not ship outside the US. Great service. Also works to forward mail and packages within the US =)

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