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    Default Entertaining needy MFC guys when you're naturally shy???

    In one month of returning to cam I brought my score from 600 to 1,400, but now it's stuck at 1,400 since the beginning of the month and I can't help than to think it's because most successful models on MFC are the bubbly chatty types while I'm more cute sweet and shy or mysterious/edgy/bitchy/quiet. Either way..quiet. I just don't know what to say to the computer screen when it usually just keeps saying the same thing under different names...like "skype shows hun?" "you're beautiful/sexy/etc!" "you wet?" "show tits!" "where are you from"

    I have to keep somewhat quiet at the moment because I have annoying nosy roomies, but how do I entertain the needy men of MFC with such an introverted personality? Saturday night I tried something new and spent an hour doing body painting because that's something I'm actually good at and just got tons of compliments and a single 50tk tip the entire time! So no more of that...then I did 1k in tips til nude (first time going nude in free) then when i met that I played nude sexy dice with great prizes and still only came out with maybe a couple dollars above my hourly average, which is not worth that much effort IMHO.

    Usually, I respond to questions by typing, smile, or blow a kiss and thank people verbally for low tips, dance a little and tease when I get a good enough tip, offer content/panties/certain shows and whatnot for different tip amounts, advertise my blog and monthly goals, and bore the hell out of myself. I hate being this honest..but I need professional advice. How can I make my room "fun" when I'm shy? I came up with a few ideas for when I move into my new house in a week (currently renting a room), body painting was one of them, but that was an epic fail...

    -Bubble bath shows (lots of bubbles so everything is still covered)
    -Cooking shows
    -Workout shows (yoga can be sexy lol)
    -Make myself into a sundae (whipped cream, cherries, chocholate, etc) after certain goal amount is met

    ...?
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    Default Re: Entertaining needy MFC guys when you're naturally shy???

    PS I have read the entire MFC thread as well as many other posts on the subject, but would really love some advice on getting more money camming when you're the shy type from somone who also has/had social anxiety..

    The random urges I get while camming and going insane with boredom on a slow day consist of things that'd put me under the category of suffering mental breakdown than "loads of fun." lol

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    Default Re: Entertaining needy MFC guys when you're naturally shy???

    I never noticed anything working until I got a higher camscore. It's hard to get up there. Once you have the exposure though, people flock to you. If you have a good regular, or a good set or regulars, tell them your plan, and have them all massively tip you offline around the same time. Your camscore will boom up, and you will have more exposure.
    Not like I can say anything, because I haven't been giving a fuck and only log on there when I'm bored, so I'm back in the 2500s, lol, but it really, really did work for me for awhile.

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    Great question! Im not shy but very introverted if that makes sense. Like chatting and small talk especially when Im not into it is super draining for me and I get annoyed. So site likes SM were awesome bc I could just sit there and wait until taken private BUT MFC! A whole different world, now I do get pvts and from that alone I make at least 200 and up but I hardly ever get any tokens anymore unless its from someone after theyve taken me pvt. So my score is stuck at 1700 and wont go any higher and Im just now realizing that the score is based off tokens. Im not a big gamer but I can use something to keep me entertained while sitting there (they never seemed turned on when I start reading a book lol)so Im gonna try to play video games or something while sitting there maybe do wii on camera idk maybe itll be a good conversation starter? QUESTION So is 2500 the minimum of when you start attracting a whole bunch of guys to your room?

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    I didn't notice until I was 3500-4000ish. But it also helped me to get on at weird hours, when the aussies and non-americans that spend are on and the top, top girls weren't. More exposure to be on when those girls weren't, in my opinion. That is how I got the regular guys who were willing to offline tip enough to raise my camscore.

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    good info! Thanks!
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    Default Re: Entertaining needy MFC guys when you're naturally shy???

    how .. humm
    u suck it up and pretend you are not shy.
    After a while it grows on you and ur good to go

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    how .. humm
    u suck it up and pretend you are not shy.
    After a while it grows on you and ur good to go
    I did this but it comes off fake and I don't have the best conversation skills when I'm genuinely uninterested...and honestly I'd rather just be myself and do what I enjoy doing on cam...just looking for tips on how to have a fun show for everyone that will MAKE MONEY that dosn't involve being chatty/bubbly/fake when I don't want to be...such as the little list I created. I can easily fake not being an introvert, because I analyze other people and certain personalities such as the typical bubbly; loves to cater to losers attitude, but it honestly sickens me to do so. I'm not going to go about changing my persona when it's much easier to change my atmosphere first. ;}

    Every girl is different, and I'm just trying to make it work for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPinkCupcake View Post
    I didn't notice until I was 3500-4000ish. But it also helped me to get on at weird hours, when the aussies and non-americans that spend are on and the top, top girls weren't. More exposure to be on when those girls weren't, in my opinion. That is how I got the regular guys who were willing to offline tip enough to raise my camscore.
    Wow, what hours did you work if you don't mind me asking? I raised my low score by working mornings/afternoon instead of nights, but now I'm stuck so will be changing my schedule again soon.

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    I realise mfc caters to kind of a guy that likes a nerdy, bubble head kind of girl, but maybe you can market yourself as a kind of domme? Stoic, to the point, and ready to mock some small peens, etc. EVERY girl cant be the same on mfc right?
    I dont know if this helps but it is worth a try.

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    Quote Originally Posted by robotron View Post
    In one month of returning to cam I brought my score from 600 to 1,400, but now it's stuck at 1,400 since the beginning of the month and I can't help than to think it's because most successful models on MFC are the bubbly chatty types while I'm more cute sweet and shy or mysterious/edgy/bitchy/quiet. Either way..quiet. I just don't know what to say to the computer screen when it usually just keeps saying the same thing under different names...like "skype shows hun?" "you're beautiful/sexy/etc!" "you wet?" "show tits!" "where are you from"

    I have to keep somewhat quiet at the moment because I have annoying nosy roomies, but how do I entertain the needy men of MFC with such an introverted personality? Saturday night I tried something new and spent an hour doing body painting because that's something I'm actually good at and just got tons of compliments and a single 50tk tip the entire time! So no more of that...then I did 1k in tips til nude (first time going nude in free) then when i met that I played nude sexy dice with great prizes and still only came out with maybe a couple dollars above my hourly average, which is not worth that much effort IMHO.

    Usually, I respond to questions by typing, smile, or blow a kiss and thank people verbally for low tips, dance a little and tease when I get a good enough tip, offer content/panties/certain shows and whatnot for different tip amounts, advertise my blog and monthly goals, and bore the hell out of myself. I hate being this honest..but I need professional advice. How can I make my room "fun" when I'm shy? I came up with a few ideas for when I move into my new house in a week (currently renting a room), body painting was one of them, but that was an epic fail...

    -Bubble bath shows (lots of bubbles so everything is still covered)
    -Cooking shows
    -Workout shows (yoga can be sexy lol)
    -Make myself into a sundae (whipped cream, cherries, chocholate, etc) after certain goal amount is met

    ...?
    :}

    From what you've posted, you sound like you're definitely a good cam girl who puts in the effort. And congrats on the cam score jump within a one-month period...wow!

    You mentioned that you do raffles and games. Do you ever do 90-token raffles? I used to ask guys to tip their tips of 90+ tokens, but now that MFC automatically rates 90+ token tips, models don't have to keep asking guys to do it. But I bet you could do wonders for your cam score by having future raffles be 90 tokens or more. Also, give yourself a reasonable amount of time on cam (for example, a quick 15 minutes shift on MFC is NOT long enough) before you log off. Even if it STARTS OFF really slow, it's still not cool to give up after only being on there for 15 minutes. I've made a rule for myself that no matter how slow it seems, I will always stay on cam on MFC for at least 2 hours straight. Usually, that ends up working out well for me, and it makes me feel good about not giving up too soon.

    Also, remember that every premium that comes in the room and types "hi bb" MAY just end up tipping you. As retarded as they sound putting 'bb' at the end of every sentence, there's actually a lot of those 'bb' guys carrying around tokens, and many of them hide their token amount. Some models HATE being called 'bb' and some have also said that they instantly ban guys who say it. I'm not gonna ban anyone just for calling me 'bb', but I will damn sure ban guys who call me the 'n' word or a 'dirty whore', etc...and I don't care if these mouthy guys have 10,000 tokens. You will NOT badmouth me in my chat while you've got your baby-sized dick in one hand...lmao. You'll get banned, and then you can talk shit about me all you want in the lounge with the rest of the miserable fucks...

    I also ban the idiots who do nothing but post stupid cock emotes back to back...LAME. It would really be nice if people contributed more to the chat rooms they frequent. If you're not contributing with tokens and/or good conversation, why the fuck would you even bother logging into your premium account? Yeah, yeah, yeah, you want everyone to know that you paid the initial $19.99 to go premium, so you feel like you MUST make your presence known everyday, even if you're not gonna say hi...*rolls eyes* Whatever...

    As for me...I would be ashamed to be in a hardworking model's room for SEVERAL minutes and not even greet her or tip. I just feel like if guys aren't gonna do either of those things, they should just perv as guests. And I'm not gonna lie...seeing members with names like 'ITIPVERYWELL' sitting in my room for an hour (in complete silence the whole time) annoys the fuck outta me. Oh, and if you're in my chat for that long, and you've got 900 tokens, yet wouldn't help tip to get me topless or fully naked, I'm gonna have a problem with that, sorry.

    My posts on here lately have been sooo damn long...sorry. LOL.
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    Good idea, pink bunny. If there's one thing I'm great at it's insulting and dominating men. lmao. Have yet to see a top row domme on MFC though...if you know of some, pm their names please...need to do some research. :}

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    oops. Double post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    ...but I will damn sure ban guys who call me the 'n' word or a 'dirty whore', etc...and I don't care if this mouthy guys have 10,000 tokens. You will NOT badmouth me in my chat while you've got your baby-sized dick in one hand...lmao.
    lmao. I LOVE the long posts. lol Thanks! Will definitely up the cost of a roll to 90tk, had no idea about that... bb dosn't annoy me for some reason, I find it kind of amusing; a novelty, because it's not as common as some of the girls make it sound...atleast for me.

    I was doing really good about staying on when things were slow because they usually pick up, but lately I havn't had the patience for that and log off after 30min-an hour. :{ Dumb idea, because an hour is about how long it takes for my room to pick up.

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    I think if you wanna reach a lot of success you have to almost exaggerate and turn it into a character. MFC is where personalities, looks of course too, and what kind of shows you do make you succeed. I've seen gorgeous girls who do horribly on there cuz honestly, they're boring. If you're boring, they're not going to like you. If there isn't really anything that stands out about you and your shows you won't have traffic. MFC has enough superstars for the guys to flock to, to get a better show, probably on the expense of someone else's dollar. Being shy, reserved, quiet doesn't mean you can't be successful though. By exaggerating and turning it into a character I mean if that's how you want to be, shy and introverted, you have to really play it up. There's a model on there who always has like 800 people in her room, while she's fully clothed, doesn't really talk much, she dresses like a little girl, makes cute faces and noises and the guys adore her. I've never seen her break that character and she knows how to make that whole innocent thing make money with out really having to do shit. I'm just saying you could be shy and quiet, but make it so you're that shy, sweet girl.....not that boring girl who doesn't talk to the customers. Make it a feature about you, not a flaw. It'll be hard, especially with how competitive MFC is...but its possible.
    Other than that, like friday said...suck it up. It's a job. Everyone wants to be true to themselves but if you want to make money...you have to please the crowd. Just find the balance of what you're okay with, and what they want. I'm pretty introverted myself, but I know I'm in this line of work i need to socialize and and entertain. Be you, just AMP it up a bit. It may seem like cute, bubbly, ditzy is what works on MFC and i'm sure not everyone is really like that...but they know that's what makes money. That's what makes guys horny and want to spend. So you gotta follow the trend (that's porn though), or offer something different but just as interesting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by robotron View Post
    I did this but it comes off fake and I don't have the best conversation skills when I'm genuinely uninterested.............I can easily fake not being an introvert, because I analyze other people and certain personalities such as the typical bubbly; loves to cater to losers attitude, but. I'm not going to go about changing my persona when it's much easier to change my atmosphere first. ;}
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    It all comes down to how bad do you want to make this money.
    If you want it badly ( which you should lol, we all do ). then you do what you gotta do! thats all there is to it.
    so.......
    If you can easily fake not being an introvert, than do it!

    but this " it honestly sickens me to do so" attitude has to go.
    Not every member on the site is a looser, crazy, stupid or lame. Some guys are really into watching us perform and they are not loosers. They are just normal men with a bit of extra cash to spare and that is more than fine, that is great!!!

    No job is easy and this is deff. not easy at all.
    Grow a thicker skin and try harder.

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    I'm very shy and I do well on MFC. Some days I talk, some days I type. You will still get customers even if you don't talk - there are lots of guys with wives/girlfriends/children/roommates who don't turn their sound on.

    If you have any cool hobbies that guys would be into (ie gaming) talk about it with them! Say you have a WII and ask for game recommendations and stuff.

    When I was just starting out, I could only get small tips too. So I would advertise 50 tokens for a flash or group/private. No big countdowns or anything intimidating.

    Now my camscore is much higher, but I found that around 2300 I would get good traffic & high tips. Your camscore doesn't have to be super high to be successful.

    Good luck!

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