I have been going through a lot of stuff lately. Just got out of a bad relationship with a con-artist who only had bad intentions and left me broke. I am so close to getting kicked out of my house. I owe my mom and my friends money and everyone is hunting me down, trying to get paid. I am trying to get my life back together and get back on my feet. I wanna leave my ex and this nightmare behind! I was desperate and decided to work with an escort agency. I have a hard time finding an upscale escort agency in my city/state so i decided to go on the east coast and try this upscale, female owned/operated agency that seemed promising. She told me I would have a minimum of 4 clients a day and the rates were a lot higher to benefit me. I could easily make $1000 a day with only 4 clients a day. At least that's what she said. Only problem is, I had to purchase my flight and hotel. She would reimburse me on 100% of it at the end of my trip. I never escorted before and have no idea how it works. But I couldn't even afford the plane ticket or hotel stay at first. She told me she would cover my flight and I had to come up with money for the hotel. She purchased a round trip ticket and I asked my mom (she doesn't know what I was doing) to cover the hotel stay and I told my mom I would pay her back when I come back. I am a little naive and was expecting to make $1000 a day.
I get to the airport and she told me to check into my hotel. I took a shuttle there since it was so close to the airport and the next morning I was ready to work. I was very nervous since I never done anything like that before. I look great and didn't think I would have problems getting clients, but after the first day, I didn't have a single client that entire day. I started to get worried, thinking I got myself into a bad situation. My mom only covered the hotel for one night. The next day, the agency dropped my rates quite a bit. That morning, I was lucky to get a client. Things went well, but I only made $200 for the entire session. She also put me up in a hotel room that cost $179 per night, so that money all went to my hotel for the next night and food for the day. I did not have any more clients the entire day.
I spent three more days waiting around, doing nothing. I only had one client each day and pretty much paid for my hotel and food for the day. I wasn't getting any work at all. So I ended up freaking out and had a nervous breakdown. I decided this wasn't the job for me and I wanted out of there fast. I was afraid to tell my mom anything that happened because nobody knows what I'm doing out there. On my last day, I was lucky enough to get 2 clients. Instead of booking my hotel room at a different hotel (they wanted me to switch hotels), I decided to take that money and go home. When I got home, I still have $0 and I am worse off because I owe my mom so much more money for the room and incidentals on the first night. I did not tell the agency I was leaving. I just made a horrible decision and I feel this whole experience was quite traumatizing. I can't get over the idea of what I did. I don't judge anyone for doing this but its not for me.
Anyway, I left unexpectantly and just got home. I live in the mid-west and the agency is on the east coast. Since arriving home, the agency just realized that I'm gone. She has been texting me and calling me all day but I won't answer. I just wanna forget anything happened and I wanted to avoid confrontation because I know that she would be upset that I didn't tell her I was leaving.
Anyway, she is now changing everything we talked about before. She says she pays hotel and flights 100%, but since she is so busy, its my responsibility to book the hotels and the flights. I get reimbursed at the end of the trip, but since I wasn't making any money, she wasn't gonna reimburse me. Instead, she thinks I owe her close to $1000 because she covered my round trip flight which was $600. Plus, I never paid her the splits because the money I was supposed to give to her, was a lot less than my hotel stay. Then she wanted me to pay a fee for not staying for my entire trip. I was supposed to stay till the 16th but I left early so I am being penalized because it makes me (and the agency) look bad to the clients.
Well, she sent me a text that said, "You have within the next 24 hrs to pay me $970 or I will send someone to your house to collect my money". I haven't even made that much money. I only made about $500 in 3 days which covered my hotel for all those days I didn't work and I purchased my flight home. So now she's threatening to send someone over to my house to collect my money. She doesn't have my address but she has my parents address since its on my ID. I would pay her but I don't have any money. I am so broke and I need to look after myself first. How likely is it that she will send someone to my house to get my money? What would happen to me or my family? I have a feeling that she is just threatening me and it won't happen but I am really freaking out right now that it might. I realize that she would have to go out of her way and fly someone to my house and back just to get money. That wouldn't make sense because it would cost close to what I owe her to get a round trip flight here, possibly pay for their hotel room and it would be a huge waste of time.
Would she actually do this? I would think she might write me a letter and mail it to me. My mom would get it but she doesn't know the address is my parents house, so she wouldn't know to tattle on me. I mean she's not gonna write me a letter just to say I owe her money, because that won't get her anywhere. She doesn't know its my parents house so she isn't gonna write a letter telling them what I did. Plus, my parents have a different last name than me so even if she knew it wasn't my house, she wouldn't have enough proof to know its my parents. What is she capable of? Is it likely someone may come to my house?
Sorry so long and I hope you can make sense from this. I'm just really freaking out and I don't know what to do. I don't want to call her to explain things because she wasn't honest to me in the beginning and I feel I don't owe anything since she was gonna reimburse me. She's mad because I didn't make her any money while I was there. I made so little money that she didn't even feel the need to pick up her share at the end of the night.
I am just really scared and if anyone knows anything about escorts and agencies, can you please tell me what I should expect from all this? I can't let my family and friends know what I did. I have no money to give her. What should I do and what should I expect?
I am also very disappointed in myself because of the 'companionship' I provided just so I could afford a hotel room. It's not like I'm on vacation in Hawaii escorting my way through my vacation. I was in a city I didn't want to be in, bored and cooped up in the hotel room all day, providing services just for that. If that's the case, I'd rather be home sleeping with strangers for no pay... At least I would be at my own house and not bored. And I wouldn't even do that. What should I do? I am not gonna call her because its not gonna get me anywhere. Should I really be worried about this? This isn't a pimp or anything but I feel like I got pimped out to the max. =(


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