The attitude of many of the night shift girls at my club really annoys me. Does anyone else notice this at their club? I work day shift mostly and one of the reasons is because many of the night shift girls are so snobby and rude. What's the deal with that? Isn't the job hard enough already without all of us being bitchy to one other? At my club many of the girls on day shift have been there for years and we're all very friendly and supportive, even to new girls. We're not cliquey. I really like how well the management and dancers get along...they're kind of like a second family in a way. I'm not saying all the night girls need to be be best friends and hold hands, but is a smile and a little friendly small talk sometimes too much to ask? Its just nice to know someone has your back...even if its just in a small way. Customers can be disrespectful and demanding. Outsiders often judge and belittle us.
For instance, tonight as I was getting dressed to leave I made eye contact with a night girl and smiled, she gave me this look of disgust like "how dare you look at me". Maybe she was having a bad day, but its happened before. Even with the girls do occasionally say hi...you still get the sense that they would totally pull one over on you if the opportunity arose. It's every man for himself and it doesn't matter how you get the money...just get as much out of the men as you can. Its such a harsh environment compared to our "friendly neighborhood" strip club during the day if that makes any sense.
I'm really nervous, too, because I'm moving soon and I've been working days at my club for five years. The change will be hard enough for me already. What if the girls are all extremely catty and aggressive? I've toughened up considerably since I started dancing, but I'm still more thin-skinned than most and I'm not competitive at all. Just curious to hear how other dancers feel about the girls on their shift...Do you all get along, mind your own business, or are fights always breaking out? I'm holding out hope that I can find a nice club like mine in my new town. I'm wondering how common/uncommon it is. Thanks!



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