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    I haven't danced in a long time. But I need the cash, I lost 35 lbs. out of 60 that I gained after having a baby. I NEED TO LOSE THE REST. I am a size 14. (yuck) I have a pic BUT NOT too familiar how to upload it on here. My question is, should I try and start dancing now or get another 20 lbs off first? I really need the cash asap, but not sure if I can do it at this weight. Anybody ever dealt with this before and what did you do? ALSO, I JUST RELOCATED TO CHARLOTTE AND DO NOT KNOW WHICH CLUBS WOULD TAKE BIGGER GIRLS. Any info would really be helpful.......Thanks.
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    Default Re: Uncomfortable with weight gain....

    Depends on the area... sorry I don't know much about that area. The club I currently work at would say no but certainly other clubs Ive worked would say yes and you could probably do ok. What if you gave yourself a smaller goal first ie. half of 25lbs you want to lose before you start to increase chances of success.

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    i know your looking to dance , but i would suggest camming whilst you lose the weight you wanna lose then moving to dancing. you look good to me and im surprised your a size 14 you look a bit smaller to me camming is easy to get into and you can have cash fairly quickish depending on where you work or if you sign up for daily pay.

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    Default Re: Uncomfortable with weight gain....

    I'm not going to sugarcoat it: The skinnier you are the more options you have. I'm glad you're taking the initiative to do something about it instead of whining "Woe is me, I'm too fat to dance wah wah".

    For now try to find a dive bar where you can get your feet wet and make some cash. You don't look like you're morbidly obese. You should be able to find a club that will let you work. They may confine you to dayshift and impose other restrictions on you. Be prepared for that. Meanwhile eat right, get a gym membership, and keep working out.

    I gained a bit of weight after my BA due to not being able to exercise for 3 months and now I'm working it off by dieting and hitting the gym 5x a week. I cut out carbonated beverages and alcohol out of my diet, when I get the urge to snack I have carrot sticks or celery stalks.

    This is a looks based industry to a certain extent. As strippers we are held to a higher standard than most women. We sell fantasies. If a man wants to see a woman who looks like his wife he can stay home. However if you don't have sales skills you really won't succeed in this industry.
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    I worked at your size, BUT I had danced before and knew how to move in a flattering way, plus could hustle for dances rather than rely on stage (or Id buy myself off the stage)
    Id give it a go though!
    Theres no sense crying over every mistake,
    you just keep on trying till you run out of cake

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    Thanks ladies. Im going to try the camming out. Now, I just have one question.....will many sites allow me to sign up for daily pay? I had NO IDEA that this was an option for cam girls. Thanks for the input!

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    Default Re: Uncomfortable with weight gain....

    Dailypay is currently available to myfreecams, streamate, adultwork, and I think livejasmin. Check out camming connection the owner of dailypay (Princess Jenny) Posts there a lot and she's great about anwsering questions and being helpful in general

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    cam bb! sign up through sm directly by contact vanessa. pm if you want her email. she can get you paid within a week and you wont pay and crazy fees.

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    Thanks so much ladies...I'm signing up with streamate and will check out camming connection. I will sign up for several more. Are there any sites that I should avoid? Sorry, but I dont know much about this industry and am trying to learn as much as possible.

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    Default Re: Uncomfortable with weight gain....

    We have several girls your size at my club and they make okay money from what I can tell. Plus it seems like a lot of your weight is in your boobs so that's a plus. Just get out there and find any club/shift that can take you, so you can at least start saving a bit of money and you'll probably start to lose weight in the process anyway!

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    Default Re: Uncomfortable with weight gain....

    Besides cam (because of the money making potential), some clubs hire girls that are losing their post pregnancy weight for day time. This can work in your favor to shed the weight quicker, especially if you do a lot of pole work.
    Contrary to popular belief, there is good money to be made both in day time and with extra weight.

    Also (since you mentioned Charlotte) try to commute to counties nearby Charlotte that have smaller clubs; I'm pretty familiar with NC.





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