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    Default How to go about men wanting to meet?

    So just ran about thirty hours this weekend on mfc trying to raise rent for today. One if the most popular questions and comments I get are users trying to meet. Do you entertain this our shut it down. How do you deal with such requests? How bout guys who want you to view their cam? Thanks!!!!

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    I shut it down, esp. with MFC. "I don't meet. Ever." And I will tell them to stop being creepers
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    Default Re: How to go about men wanting to meet?

    It really depends on your personal preferences. Some camgirls DO escort, many do not. Some girls like to c2c, others prefer not to. I let customers know what my limits are, and if they excessively push for more I ban them.

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    Default Re: How to go about men wanting to meet?

    There are a lot of threads about this on here, youll find lots and lots of suggestions of what to say when you search...
    But definitely do not ever lead them on or give them hope that you'll meet them.

    ETA...though I am an escort, I would still not meet a cam customer for that. They are a completely different type of experience.
    Of course its totally up to an individual if they want to meet a customer, in any field, be it for work or personal reasons...
    I just would not mix two parts of the business together.
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    Default Re: How to go about men wanting to meet?

    Just tell them that you don't meet in person/you don't escort? (not sure what you're asking, it's not complicated)

    It's up to you if you want to view their cam or not...I don't know about MFC but on SM their cam window is so small that it's rarely bothersome. But if you really don't want to, just say you don't cam2cam (maybe put in your profile) although you might loose customers.

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    Just tell them no. I find that many guys that push for meeting in free chat aren't spenders anyway. I personally don't think it's a good idea to lead them on or lie , it usually ends badly and causes more stress then it's worth. I always tell guys we're never going to meet when they ask, and they usually either leave or spend money anyway. Like everyone else has said, it's ultimately up to you and what your "hustle" is. I hate the needy "girlfriend experience" guys, so my method works for me

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    Default Re: How to go about men wanting to meet?

    No! Absolutly not. We are a fantasy to them

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    Ok so I am the minority on this one too. I encourage it. Keep spending your dough on me I'll tell you whatever you want to hear. Often if I see a guy is from a certain state FloridaMan LABen NYCguy I'll pretend I'm from that state. "Yes, we should hang out sometime." And that time never comes. Or I get a serious boyfriend and can't now. Eventually they get the hint and I find more often than not they just like to entertain the thought of meeting with a local girl.

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    I`ve found 95% of men who ask this are just indulging a fantasy, so I usually play along asking what they would do with me, what would they like me to do, if you want to see me drop me a message in my inbox etc. I would put a line on your profile stating that you dont meet, then if they do mail you, you can direct them to it and say " oh, i thought you were indulging a fantasy, sorry but my profile does state I dont meet!"

    Ha ha more fool you stupid man, should`va read my details properly lol xxxxxxxxx

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    For me like what Marsey said its a 'fantasy'. And I have learned to play along with that fantasy because his cock is up in the air once hes cum he gone.

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    *Also, I'm very clear on not meeting and still do GFE, with quite a bit of success.
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    Default Re: How to go about men wanting to meet?

    Same here...I have to be firm on it that I wont meet, because I have come across way too many guys who seriously do want to take me to dinner, or meet for a tryst etc. Its easy to assume these guys stay within the realm of fantasy and have no intention of ever actually meeting up, or be under the impression that all these guys are rational people...but for many, thats not the case... Some of these guys have no concept of fantasy/reality and will get really upset when they find out that the special connection he felt was a lie.

    Then you end up with some guy who is stalking you all over the place online. Been there done that. Im not leading anyone on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by camgirl View Post
    One if the most popular questions and comments I get are users trying to meet. Do you entertain this our shut it down. How do you deal with such requests? How bout guys who want you to view their cam? Thanks!!!!

    I say something like "No, I don't meet up in person. Sorry." If they continue to harass me about it, I'll ban them. I'm tired of guys treating our chat rooms like it's Craigslist/Backpage/AdultFriendFinder. Go THERE if you're trying to get your fuck on. Don't waste a hard-working cam girl's time, fool!

    If they want me to view their cam, I ask them to tip 90 tokens (since 90+ token tips are automatically rated, which helps your cam score). And LOL at guys who say "Is my cam on, bb?"/"Can you check my cam, bb?" SMH. Stop trying to be slick. You know damn well your cam is on...word that differently. LOL. MOST of the guys who ask you to view their cam end up leaving when you ask them to tip first...haha. Silly boys...
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    A lot of the guys who ask me if I'll meet up with them are paying clients. I ALWAYS politely decline. But I always play along with their fantasies of "what we'd do to one another in person". I never block guys who ask me if I do escort work unless they're actually being abusive.




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    I tell them I don,t meet if I am asked. This is esp a PIA in free chat as they take up too much time.

    Cam 2 cam? Depends on my mood but now most guys want to do c2c, If I don't feel like looking, I don't even if it is c2c.

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    I just tell them it's not a dating site. Some ask, "Why not?" Lmao. Seriously?!



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    Default Re: How to go about men wanting to meet?

    Thank you guys, you've offered a lot of helpful advice. I feel like I come across as a girl next door so it probably would be best if I didn't lead on. I do like what was said about saying I don't, but what if.

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    Just curious, what do you girls do if you get a guy who wants GFE and wants you to tell them that you love them? Thankfully this only happened once and he left the room before I could say anything (maybe he was embarrassed) but my plan was to say how much I love his cock and his eyes etc lol. I'm guessing that this might come up in the future and it would be really awkward to deal with.

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    I tell him I love him.
    Words are just words, and if it doesnt have meaning to me, then it has no effect on me.

    Now when its someone I do love, I feel it everytime I say it. These guys are not that to me, so its not the same.
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    Quote Originally Posted by amberose View Post
    Just curious, what do you girls do if you get a guy who wants GFE and wants you to tell them that you love them? Thankfully this only happened once and he left the room before I could say anything (maybe he was embarrassed) but my plan was to say how much I love his cock and his eyes etc lol. I'm guessing that this might come up in the future and it would be really awkward to deal with.
    The guy normally tells me he loves me. LOL I just say really do ya? Goes back and forth never had a guy in the cam world ask me to tell them I love them, think I would die with laughter. Normally its i wanna be your boyfriend and that I love your tits/ass/lips/body

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberose View Post
    Just curious, what do you girls do if you get a guy who wants GFE and wants you to tell them that you love them? Thankfully this only happened once and he left the room before I could say anything (maybe he was embarrassed) but my plan was to say how much I love his cock and his eyes etc lol. I'm guessing that this might come up in the future and it would be really awkward to deal with.
    I never tell guys I love them, when they say they love me, I just say "thanks" or nothing. I will say, sometimes, nice or big cock but I really don't need stalkers or guys going crazy looking to love me in person.

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    Yeah I flat out tell them no. I have seen my room drop 30 people just because I'm straight up about it. I then think the same wtf is this?? an online backpage ad? I get the broke ass guys in free chat but it's much more annoying in a private. I find this to turn me off so bad that I can't even get off. Shit just ruins the mood. It's like a guy fucking some random pick up and hearing..." wow I can't wait until my pregnancy test comes back positive".!!!... huh??? Way to deflate my clit asshole! lol. One guy did this within 2 mins of a private and I just had to keep staring at that text the whole time. Another guy wanted to play and wouldn't stop asking questions. I had to say hey .... do you want to play or what? Stop asking me questions since I only have two hands. I should have realized he was "scunting" (scouting for available open vagina) after: the 5th where are you, him being ugly , having a small dick, but it was also soft. 4 Wrongs on that front. The private lasted all of 4mins since his only goal was to keep asking where I was.

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    Ohh "the love" wow yeah I can't do it. I got weirded out the first time it was said so I tried to play along and say it back. Let's just the guy started stalking my room daily. I mean popping in free chat calling me a dirty slut as if I was cheating on him. I blocked that guys whole fucking country. So lesson learned never again. There is a guy that does that now , he's creepy and I just do a strained smile , like milk has soured nearby and I'm smelling it. YOU ALL KNOW THAT FACE. lol I wouldn't dare say it back. He's another " wish we could meet" type.

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    I had a guy give me his number ina private, then asked if I'd let him fly me to where he was and he'd take care of me. I'm like, um hell no. And I'm not putting my job at risk. He's like "other girls have done it and how would they (the site) know?"....NO NO NO NO NO NO and NO!

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    There's this guy who visits my MFC public chat every once in a while, and he keeps bringing up the fact that he met up with a MFC model once, and that it was so awesome. It's annoying when he keeps bringing that up. And he MFC mailed me once asking me to e-mail him. What the fuck am I supposed to e-mail you for? NO.....
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