It's frustrating enough that we have to deal with freeloaders on cam, but to have to deal with freeloaders in real life is where I cross the line. I am glad you decided to block him. He is toxic.
It's frustrating enough that we have to deal with freeloaders on cam, but to have to deal with freeloaders in real life is where I cross the line. I am glad you decided to block him. He is toxic.
I don't need people like him in my life. I'm a really nice person, so sometimes people have tried to take advantage, but I know better now.
No I have guy friends who know what I do, asked what site I was on, and when I was going to be on, and paid to see me. They may be a friend, but they also need to be realistic. If we are camming for money, it's most likely because we NEED the money, not for our health. Granted there are models who may do this just for fun. I love what I do, but I want to be paid for it, because it's how I pay my bills. I think if your friend likes you enough he will also pay, otherwise he can go jerk off to your picture....
He must be out of his damn mind
I hate when guys who know you cam (not bf or hubby) expect to get free shows. You're supposed to be my friend, why not support what I am doing by becoming a paying member? And if he's going to be a jerk about it then he is not a friend, at least not the kind you would want to have around...
Unless you love a person and you guys are intimate, if you're not getting paid, don't ever do a show. I made that mistake once. I did a free show for my friend because we were both bored and horny and I thought it would be fun. We were interrupted before we even took our clothes off so he asked if we could do it at a later time. I said sure. Then, he wouldn't accommodate me. He came into my chat room in the middle of camming and asked me to take a ten minute break so I could cam with him. I told him no, it would have to be later.
Finally, I got off after an eight hour shift. He begged for a show and finally I relented (Most of this was my fault for repeatedly giving in and not telling him where to shove it. So be gentle when you chastise me, I've already done most of the work. XD) I asked for nothing longer than a quick five minute show because I was tired and didn't have anything left in me.
Once we got on, he wouldn't shut up and get down to the sexytimes even though I told him I going to bed directly after. I sat there in a daze as I listened to him rattle on about how beautiful I was and how cool I was for doing this. Finally clothes were taken off, dirty talk was exchanged, and I was really starting to get into it. I'm having fun when suddenly he starts making demands. I tell him that that is stuff I only do as a cam girl, here, and right now I only I wanted to have fun. In response he said "But you are a cam girl, so you have to do whatever I want." Needless to say, I immediately left skype and haven't spoken to him since.
That guys sounds like a complete asshole from the way he spoke to you. Exactly the type of guy who'd get the ban button immediately.
"You don't want to work today?? I get paid 9 dollars an hour to move boxes around, so go fuck yourself. No really, go fuck yourself right now"




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First off...I never said I considered doing it. I just wanted feedback from other cam girls. Of course I wasn't gonna do it, hence why I said no. He's not a stranger, he's someone I've been semi cool with for 9 years. I was offended that he would expect something like that. Also, I have plenty of respect for myself.




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See posts 25 n 28. That's all
I only had to look at the topic before I said "helllll nah." He clearly lacks respect for you and your job, and sounds like a total shetbag.
That's why I wouldn't tell my guy friends. I would be like, "No, I don't like freeloaders."![]()





1. He isn't your friend, nor was he ever.
2. You used to like him but he decided to date someone else. So you were never truly dating material to him. Just a possible girl on the side.
3. Men do not even go into friendships with females without thinking what's in it for me. Every first date, he is thinking am i getting laid for the amount of money I am spending tonight?
Want to get rid of him, start asking him for money. Money for bills, money for hair to get done, you need work on the car. See then how fast he gets off the phone or computer. He will not want to invest time or money in listening to you unless it is about sex & him getting off for free.
Either he can pony up the money you need for bills, or get off line & let you cam & make that money.
Fastest way to get rid of a man is to be needy & desperate for money.
Smooches,
Sam



Heck no! What does he do for a living? Then ask if he'd do it for free
Ex. he's a computer salesman "would you give me a computer for free?"
he's a waiter "would you give me my meals for free?"
ummm no ahaha
InnesX
He doesn't know what site I work on. He said it over Skype (which I don't use for shows) and text. I know he's worthless and doesn't give a fuck about me obviously after suggesting a free show. I deleted his number and blocked him on Skype and Facebook.
Also, I was never considering doing it. My feelings were hurt that someone I thought I was cool with would treat me like that, and wanted to talk about it.
I wouldnt do it for free or for money(well DEPENDS on how much lol). Never ever do something that makes you uncomfortable! Once I gave a guy who used to like me in RL(but I turned down) dances in the club. It was a really slow night and I did this bc I needed the money even though I wasn't comfortable with it. He was moaning and acting like he was getting off to my lapdance it seriously creeped me out!!! Yeah I got my money, and it was gone tommarow. And now i have this memory of him that will be with me for a long while. If it was any other customer I wouldnt remember or care but bc it was HIM...brrr....Im still trying to shake off those douchechills!




I read a blog from a camgirl a year ago, and it was also like this. The girl and guy had each others phone number and they occasionally hanged out, so this guy was apparently watching her show for like 3 weeks and bought privates from her, then he revealed who he was through chat one day and the girl logged off and freaked out. 15 mins later he texts her if he could come over to fuck.. She immediatly broke off contact after that. >.<





I've actually lost a guy friend because I refused to tell him the name of the cam sites I work on. It's a shame, but it's a decision that I'm glad I made. I'm not comfortable with my "real life" peeps visiting my chat room...after all, we're talking about people who know our real names, address, phone number, etc. And there's always the chance that a 'real life' person will accidentally call you by your real name in chat. THAT would suck...especially when you've tried so hard to avoid revealing your real name.
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No I would not do it. I have a friend now that I would cam with it, but that is only because I cammed with him before I actually started this as a job. Hes the only one I would do this with, plus I actually enjoy camming with him. For anyone else noooooo.
if its a friend in real life , go have sex with him, if u want to LOL
Free cam shows? No.

Someone I know asked me for a free show too, when I said no he then started asking me for graphic details of my privates, like wtf? I just said 'aww I'm sorry bb, what happens in private stays in private.'
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