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    Default Do Ya'll "Talk Dirty"?

    My SO has been bugging me the whole time to master "Talking Dirty" during sex (with him) or at the club. I've tried it a little but just can't bring myself to do it with every customer. He says I'd super up my income if I did it with all my guys but...I dunno...its just wierd. I do know that if/when I do it with him it really increases his arousal, but with a stranger in the club? Its hard. (pun) From what I've seen in the club its not that common. Most girls stay silent almost, during lap dances. Do you guys think it'd really pump up my repeat dances or income, or VIP sales? How can I get over my shyness to try it?

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    Default Re: Do Ya'll "Talk Dirty"?

    If you're going to incorporate dirty talk in your dances, I recommend you're 100% comfortable with it or else it'll come off as forced and fake, and that'll hurt your income more than anything. Also, be careful to not say anything that could be taken the wrong way or misconstrued as propositioning. Check out your local laws!

    Personally, I don't think dirty talk is super necessary in dances. Lots of customers can be shy and it may make them uncomfortable (I've only encountered 2 who asked for it, and their dirty talk actually made ME uncomfortable!), and I think making eye contact, not looking bored, and being intuitive to the customer's interests (like lots of bending over of he's an ass man) are way more effective at selling repeat dances. Basically what I'm trying to say is, don't do something that makes you uncomfortable just because your boyfriend thinks it'll make you money.

    I've seen quite a few threads in Camming Connection about how to dirty talk, so I'd recommend searching for those if you still want to give it a shot! It certainly doesn't hurt to have another skill in your arsenal.

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    Default Re: Do Ya'll "Talk Dirty"?

    I don't talk dirty. I have a hard enough time working up the nerve to normal talk to strangers, let alone dirty talk. I do breathe like I'm turned on or moan softly sometimes. This has been pretty effective on more than one occasion.

    I don't think every guy would like it, but I've had a few customers who seemed like they would. If you think you can pull it off without sounding/feeling cheesy then give it a shot.

    Also, a little off topic, but I also take my boyfriend's suggestions with a grain of salt. Sometimes they are good, but sometimes he is just totally clueless!

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    Depends on the customer. I feel em out before and during the dance. Ones that are looking for dirty talk make that obvious pretty quick. I was uncomfortable with it at fist, but once I got convertible with it I was able to sell more dances to those customers.

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    I don't talk dirty during a dance, not that I'm against it but I don't even talk dirty to my longtime boyfriend. It feels weird either way for me, but if your good at it then go for it.

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    I'll make dirty jokes, but I can't talk dirty, and am still always one of the top earners.
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    I started talking dirty recently and it definately increased my repeat dances, no doubt about it. Start gently, maybe tell a little story about an encounter (relate it to him and you if possible).
    On another note, I was with a customer for nearly the whole night last week and I could not get him to shut up his face. He was uber explicit and it made me feel gross. He thought it was turning me on- told me I was going to go home and masturbate (and told me the position, which fingers, how deep etc) it was so foul.
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    I do and the customers love it. You just have to make sure they know you are role playing and not suggesting that you actually engage in whatever it is you are talking dirty about. You may feel silly at first but think of a screen actress who has to play the role of a person who is nothing like themselves. Do they refuse because they feel silly? Of course not, you just practice and go.


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    Default Re: Do Ya'll "Talk Dirty"?

    I'm a really shy person anyways, and I feel awkward enough just talking to customers, let alone dirty-talking to strangers lol! I don't do it at the club, and I rarely do during sex, but I would imagine that it would help my money, so I've been trying to read stuff on it and practice on my own. But if you're not comfortable, it will sound uncomfortable, and that will just be awkward. In the meantime, I just breathe in their ears like I'm turned on and make a lot of eye-contact. Most customers really dig the sensual eye-contact instead of getting the bored stripper who is just looking over his shoulder the whole time.
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    I wish I knew how to talk dirty.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    i had a guy like this last month. i was so irritated and so not into it and he was so sure that i....blah. gross.

    some guys will direct the dirty talk if they're that into it. i will indulge it if it's not too vulgar and if they're really spending. otherwise, i'll just smile and do my thing.

    better than dirty talk or forcing sexually explicit conversation is actual rapport where you can get the customer smiling or laughing sincerely. that is going to imprint you on his memory and build you a regular. the level of flirting that you would give to a hiring manager is a good base.
    Quote Originally Posted by Flickdreams View Post
    I started talking dirty recently and it definately increased my repeat dances, no doubt about it. Start gently, maybe tell a little story about an encounter (relate it to him and you if possible).
    On another note, I was with a customer for nearly the whole night last week and I could not get him to shut up his face. He was uber explicit and it made me feel gross. He thought it was turning me on- told me I was going to go home and masturbate (and told me the position, which fingers, how deep etc) it was so foul.

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    I talk dirty a lot. I have more benefits to doing it than not. Sure you'll get a guy who believes every word you say but I think it really helps repeat dances and VIP visits.

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    Default Re: Do Ya'll "Talk Dirty"?

    The bad part with dirty talk is it always leads to guys thinking you'll go OTC so watch what you say and try to use it on the right customers.

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    Default Re: Do Ya'll "Talk Dirty"?

    I dirty talk during sex, so for me personally, I find that dirty talking with customers feels a bit invasive. I'm just not comfortable doing it. I wish I could because I KNOW I'd make more, but I just feel really awkward about it.

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    Default Re: Do Ya'll "Talk Dirty"?

    If the guy is shy, I don't dirty talk (it'll just make him uncomfortable). I do have one "dirty talking" regular customer. We dirty talk with one another throughout our VIP, but we laugh about it too, which makes the whole situation more fun for him = more money for me. With the exception of him guy, I don't constantly dirty talk in dances, but I may throw out a naughty comment here/there to spice things up a little.

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    RAED THIS!!!!
    ok so my money was slowing down bad but last friday i said fuck it and ran around just being retarded and did all the nastiest dirty talking shit i could think of. the whole time im cracking up silently... then i get the dude to spend over $400 on me dirtiest thing i did was talk dirty hahahahaha try it randomlly like i did and see what happens
    and then.... last night i was on my bf and told him to "call me a bitch" while i was riding him... THIS is a shy guy lol and i was screamin "call me a bitch!!!" he's about to cum, i was almost here and he was about to go, so he screams "HURRY BITCH!"
    it was hilarous to me lol i wish i had taped it.....

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    Sophia_Starina - I used to wonder "how" to talk dirty too. All you do is verbalize everything happening in a sexual scene playing out in your head. Please don't think there is any trick to it other than that because then you are overthinking it. It's no different than a play by play done at a football game, which incidentally is what the men are expecting. "First I would....." "Then I would......" "And when you were nice and hard I would......" etc.

    Opening lines can be "Wanna know what I was just fantasizing about?" or "If we were alone right now, I would...." Remember, he's already turned on and no doubt fantasizing, you are taking it one step further and verbalizing it. It's like guided meditations, only sexual.

    Keep in mind that your opening line has to depend on your relationship with the customer. Some you will want to expressly say (in a flirty) way that this is just a fantasy to keep it understood that you are not available for OTC. Others already know that it's just a fantasy. If you are available for OTC then talking dirty or semi-dirty is often a way to open the lines of communication to explore outside arrangements.

    Remember girls, talking dirty is just another tool in your arsenal to aid in getting you closer to your nightly quota. You can choose to feel silly or you can choose to get comfortable with it and use it for what it is: a tool.


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    Default Re: Do Ya'll "Talk Dirty"?

    also, if you get a random dude into a dance, just try it. 3/5 times they get hooked and keep spending they usually (in my experience) weren't sure if talking nasty is allowed or how you will react or anything, and most of them love it and love that you initiated it, and are usually more comfortable.

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