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    Comrades, my SO likes to come into the club and watch me, discreetly. Now I don't mean up in VIP, just on stage, or if possible grinding on some dick on main floor. I am usually OK with it unless he obviously follows me around, tho I am uncomfortable if he stares too much, or watches me sit and visit with a guy a long time. I do enjoy him tipping me on stage. But here at my new club management found out about us and banned him from entering. He is freaking out, since we are traveling/ have no life here other than stripping thru winter/ live in a hotel. I recently started dancing in a nude afterhours club just so he could enter and enjoy seeing me "work". (they haven't caught on yet) But every nite I feel so bad for him, all alone in our room worrying, wondering. He's not the jealous type at all and knows all what goes on each nite, but still it is killing him now that he's banned. (from our hotel he can see the club 200 yards away) I so wish the jerk managers would realize he's not some jealous young kid whos gonna fite someone for grabbing my ass or something. From what we've read on here most girls absolutely don't want their man in the club. But at the same time don't ya think not knowing/seeing adds to the stress of our wierd situations? He loves to know. (see my dirty talk post in HH) I tell him all the juicey details after every nite, and this new club is very high contact. I'm so worried that the stress of this goldmine is gonna destroy our relationship. On another subject; how many of you girls have been in a LONG term relationship with one guy during your stripping careers? From what I've seen very few of our men/women can handle us doing this job for long and it usually leads to a split. Any statistics?

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    Default Re: Is it wierd my SO likes to watch me?

    I don't think its normal and once got another girls annoying rude man banned from a place i worked.
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    I think your boyfriend should get a job and a life. Sorry.

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    I think thats invasive and weird...I mean if I worked at an office or restaurant, I wouldn't want my man following me around. Same with a strip club. He should def get some hobbies or a job

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    ^ I agree w/ M

    Why isnt your boyfriend working? hes following you around like a creep 24/7... Id be weirded out.

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    No I get it my husband likes to think about me with other guys too. You're not weird.

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    Default Re: Is it wierd my SO likes to watch me?

    it's cool if her husband likes to think about her with other guys, thats actually pretty common. I think the weird part is him constantly hanging out at her workplace. No reason why he can't just listen to her stories after work...

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    Default Re: Is it wierd my SO likes to watch me?

    That's weird and not normal. I've been with the same guy for 6 years and I've been dancing for 2.5 years and he's been the only guy. He has never wanted to come to my club unless I really wanted him to. Otherwise he didn't care. He always had things to do.

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    Default Re: Is it wierd my SO likes to watch me?

    I don't think it's at all weird that he likes to hear about it. But that he would have such a reaction to not being able to watch is a warning sign. If you are worried that this could end your relationship then you need to sit and have a serious talk with him about what your relationship is built on.
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    I think it is a little bit odd. My SO has watched me at work once or twice, after I asked him to because it was kinky for us later. Usually we both agree that he should not be in the club watching me because honestly I would rather hang out with him then work and he would be a huge distraction. I understand that you guys are travelling and he might not have any friends in the area but go see some movies, play pool, he can find stuff to do and maybe he can make a bro friend, haha.

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    My SO enjoys hearing about it... I feel dirty when I tell him about it though. Only part about it is, once you start sharing he will expect it all the time... It gets anoying at times honestly. If he was watching me it would throw me off my game.

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    Pimp much?

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    Default Re: Is it wierd my SO likes to watch me?

    Does he have any control over your money, ask you how much you're making, ask for special "gifts," or anything of that nature? It kind of sounds like he's tracking how much money you're making. And unless you're paying taxes on all of your money, remember that anyone who knows about your money can steal it from you with zero repercussions (since you can't report it).

    I'm not saying that this is for sure the case with him, but red flags are going up in my head from your story. And you told it in a way that shows that you are seeing red flags too. Be careful!

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    Default Re: Is it wierd my SO likes to watch me?

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Does he have any control over your money, ask you how much you're making, ask for special "gifts," or anything of that nature? It kind of sounds like he's tracking how much money you're making. And unless you're paying taxes on all of your money, remember that anyone who knows about your money can steal it from you with zero repercussions (since you can't report it).

    I'm not saying that this is for sure the case with him, but red flags are going up in my head from your story. And you told it in a way that shows that you are seeing red flags too. Be careful!
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