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    Even as im writing this im crying because i dont know what to do. I recently met a guy at a club i was working at. He was tall handsome and had a sexy australian accent and when he asked me out i said yes. After going out with him on a date and talking to him via text i realized he was well...a complete asshole. He called me a whore because i strip, he tells me mean and hurtful things and even after i asked him to stop he still continued so i stppetalking to him. I ignored his text and his calls and was doing well for a couple of days until today. I recently got into the club of my dreams where there are no extras. He knows this so he threatend me saying that if i dont talk to him and continue to ignore him and not apologize then he will get one of his friends that work in the club to get me fired. Im brand new t the club and im afraid the manager will belive this friend over me. Hes going to get his friend to tell the manager a previous club i worked at which has a bad reputation and also say i do extras which i do not. I have a text of him threatening me but i dont know if its enough to convince the namager hes lying. Im also scared to approach the manager and i dont even know what i will say. Please help me with some ideas to handle the situation. I love this club and i dont want to get fired.
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    Do your job, make money, follow the rules, and be generally friendly to the whole staff. Ignore this douche, he can't do shit to you. Block his number if you can. Don't see men outside the club, it is pretty much always a bad idea. Take their money, find a man elsewhere.

    Much love and support. You'll do great at this new club.
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    .... "I'd pork you till you turned into a pig then feed you nothing but bacon you cannibalistic whore".

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    I think you should calm down and take a deep breath...woosa, lol. You're doing a great job of avoiding him which is why he's talking all this bullshit to you and trying to scare you. I don't think you'd get fired. I'd think most SC managers would want to catch you in the act of doing something before firing you. This industry has alot of shit-talking and defamation, that you KNOW you can't just believe everything you hear. Don't let this guy get the best of you. Let this also be a lesson that dating customers that come into SC isn't always a good idea..

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    Ive learned my lesson thats for sure. Im never seeing a custy outside the club.
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    Did he text you that threat? or say it? If he text it to you walk up to your manager and show them, if he called and said that just show them the other messages and tell them what he said. Don't let this scare you, he is just an ass.

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    He texted me everything. Im glad i can use his txt as proof. Maybe even get his friend fired for slandering me.
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    I wouldn't mention anything to the manager UNLESS something happens, then show him the texts. Most likely the crazy piece of shit wont do squat anyway.

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    ^I agree with the advice above, also, if he causes you anymore trouble, alert the manager & you may even be able to get him banned from the club.

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    Lol the hot Australian I met at work tried to abduct me back to his home country. Consider yourself lucky lol (:

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    I'm sorry that this is happening to you, you are definitely learning a lesson, I guess. I mean I can see how it could be hard to resist a hot Australian. Anyway, just fly under the radar and if the manager pulls you aside show him the text and explain the situation as calmly as possible. Don't worry too much, you should be fine!

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