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    My BF and I had never visited a club together and have recently discussed inviting someone else into our sex life. I am/was not sure how I felt about this so we decided to visit a strip club first. Went to a reputable all nude establishment. Selected a beautiful girl and paid for 3 VIP dances. During the first 3 dances, she was very open to letting me touch her and often would guide my hands to do more. She kissed my neck a few times and finally at the end took out my nipple and full on sucked it for a few seconds. She was also very handsy with my man. I have to point out that we are both young, very attractive, well dressed, and clean. He also happens to have a very large penis which the stripper was very touchy with through his pants. She even commented to me on the size. At the end of the dances, she asked when we were leaving etc. We tipped her very well.

    I was so turned on by this experience, we had her take us back again for 3 more dances. Well, during the second set, she kissed me very deeply while grinding on my man and also mouth my crotch and fingered me through my leggings. She allowed him to touch the outside of her pussy and suck her nipples, all the while deep tongue kissing me. We were both being very respectful and neither of us initiated, pushed or got aggressive with her. Everything she did was completely initiated by her. I am pretty certain (had I been more sober and thought of it) we could have pushed it further and at the very least, got her to give his giant penis a bit more attention. I have never experienced any bi activity nor have I had any experiences with strippers.

    My question (this was not a seedy place at all), is whether this is normal during a couples lap dance? For strippers, what does it mean when you engage in this type of behavior? Could we have taken her home? I am still not certain I could take it to the next level but this experience was an extreme turn on and I would have spent alot more money with her if I was more prepared (and again, a bit more sober). My man was turned on for sure, but he has a lot more experience with strippers than I and doesnt seem as blown away by it as I am.

    Your opinions are welcome!

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    Default Re: Amazing experience, is it normal?

    First NO, it's not normal...Does it happen? Yes. What you experienced was a stripper that was doing extras....& its kind of strange you pointed out your mans cock a few times..you could have gotten a answer without that.

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    I know that ANY form of contact discussed in pink is like preaching satanic verses in church, so technically it is illegal in almost most strip clubs. In practice, i honestly do not believe his to be normal. I have never been to a strip club where there was absolutely no contact in VIP rooms. The "tease" and companionship of hips rooms would take an extremely high level of imagination, super erogenous skills of the dancer to accomplish the task enough to get multiple sessions from the customer. After his experience, I doubt the op is willing to revert to a non contact VIP room experience. Just my $.02.

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    It's not an average occurance but yes it does happen. Does it mean she wanted to go home with you? Doubt it. Did she do her job well and convince you? Absolutely I have to say that I've done some pretty risque' things with couples in the club but it means nothing. I just wanted a nice tip and multiple dances. Most and I mean 99.9% of dancers do not want to go home with the customers. We are just playing along with your fantasies...it's our jobs to do that. This dancer did go very far though. Like someone else said, she performed "extras". She did more than she was suppose to and got paid "extra" for doing so.

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    Default Re: Amazing experience, is it normal?

    Like mentioned this happens but not common. Personally I would have been fired for most of the things she did.

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    no, she does not want to go home with you. sounds like she went the extra mile to make sure you were a satisfied female customer. you tipped well, she did her job, got a little carried away...now put your ad on craigslist like everyone else.

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    Default Re: Amazing experience, is it normal?

    I agree. She went beyond the norm in most clubs (in my area extras are standard, so that's almost tame for some girls) but probably NOT an indication she wanted to go home with you (for free anyway)...but go back again, maybe we're wrong!

    Just remember, her pushing the boundaries (while still illegal if it is) is OK. You pushing the line (which you didn't do) is bad. Stay a good customer LOL!

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    Gross.

    PS. That's not a stripper, that's a prostitute.

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    Strip clubs are just economic indicators. There's nothing normal about them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by momossu View Post
    My man was turned on for sure, but he has a lot more experience with strippers than I and doesnt seem as blown away by it as I am.

    Your opinions are welcome!
    My opinion is your man had already seen that stripper, spent time and money on her, and had prepaid her to do those things to you. He had you drinking so you'd be more open to let things happen. His intent was to simply push you over the edge so you would allow adding someone else into your sex life.

    So with an extras girl, when payment was already received that would a very normal experience.
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    Why would you go to a strip club as a precursor to a 3-some??
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    Maybe once as a stripper when the couple was uber sexy and we were having fun drinking fancy wine on a chill sunday night in ViP...some fooling around may have occurred and no I don't feel guilty for it. Thousands of other times I've danced for couples and nothing out of the ordinary has happened.

    And maybe a few times as a couple of customers....but I generally don't feel comfortable getting raunchy in the club and its also NOT a good place to pickup a girl for a threesome.

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    Default Re: Amazing experience, is it normal?

    I really think a dude wrote this. over and out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lokikola View Post
    I really think a dude wrote this. over and out.
    I concur.

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