My BF and I had never visited a club together and have recently discussed inviting someone else into our sex life. I am/was not sure how I felt about this so we decided to visit a strip club first. Went to a reputable all nude establishment. Selected a beautiful girl and paid for 3 VIP dances. During the first 3 dances, she was very open to letting me touch her and often would guide my hands to do more. She kissed my neck a few times and finally at the end took out my nipple and full on sucked it for a few seconds. She was also very handsy with my man. I have to point out that we are both young, very attractive, well dressed, and clean. He also happens to have a very large penis which the stripper was very touchy with through his pants. She even commented to me on the size. At the end of the dances, she asked when we were leaving etc. We tipped her very well.
I was so turned on by this experience, we had her take us back again for 3 more dances. Well, during the second set, she kissed me very deeply while grinding on my man and also mouth my crotch and fingered me through my leggings. She allowed him to touch the outside of her pussy and suck her nipples, all the while deep tongue kissing me. We were both being very respectful and neither of us initiated, pushed or got aggressive with her. Everything she did was completely initiated by her. I am pretty certain (had I been more sober and thought of it) we could have pushed it further and at the very least, got her to give his giant penis a bit more attention. I have never experienced any bi activity nor have I had any experiences with strippers.
My question (this was not a seedy place at all), is whether this is normal during a couples lap dance? For strippers, what does it mean when you engage in this type of behavior? Could we have taken her home? I am still not certain I could take it to the next level but this experience was an extreme turn on and I would have spent alot more money with her if I was more prepared (and again, a bit more sober). My man was turned on for sure, but he has a lot more experience with strippers than I and doesnt seem as blown away by it as I am.
Your opinions are welcome!




I have to say that I've done some pretty risque' things with couples in the club but it means nothing. I just wanted a nice tip and multiple dances. Most and I mean 99.9% of dancers do not want to go home with the customers. We are just playing along with your fantasies...it's our jobs to do that. This dancer did go very far though. Like someone else said, she performed "extras". She did more than she was suppose to and got paid "extra" for doing so.




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