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    Default Re: Do you feel that gay is a choice???

    Yep, totally! I woke up this morning and decided to be gay (I had decorating to do). Problem was, I didn't get any of it done as I spent the entire morning thinking about penises instead. So around lunchtime I went back to being straight, and then sent myself a derogatory e-mail. This weekend I'm going for bisexual; we'll see how it goes.
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    Default Re: Do you feel that gay is a choice???

    I think our sexuality is wired to an orientation and further shaped with experiences over time. I know at my core I am lesbian and have experimented in all sorts of ways sexually. But in the end, its about finding someone (girl or guy) that cares about you and you feel happy with. At this point, I know I am mostly oriented to women, but I keep an open mind. Living in a city (Seattle) that is sexually open and accepting for the most part also helps.

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    Default Re: Do you feel that gay is a choice???

    I don't think of it as a choice. Its like when people ask why you don't like something, food, a color, whatever. You simply like something or you don't and it is not a choice but part of who you just are and asking why is really annoying/stupid. I don't care for a label.

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    Default Re: Do you feel that gay is a choice???

    I don't really think it matters. We should respect someones choices just as much as someones genetic predisposition as long as it's not causing harm to themselves or others.



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    Default Re: Do you feel that gay is a choice???

    No, it's not a choice, but that doesn't matter anyway.

    If someone is gay, who cares?

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    Default Re: Do you feel that gay is a choice???

    Is she really trying to say she is bisexual and chooses women over men. I think Im bisexual but choose to be in a straight relationship. Just as I could choose to be in a gay one. But I think if you are only attracted to one sex you are not "choosing".

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    Default Re: Do you feel that gay is a choice???

    If being gay is a choice, then so is being straight.
    Personally I never 'chose' either way, I just happened to fall in love with a man. My mum happened to fall in love with a woman. No biggie
    Theres no sense crying over every mistake,
    you just keep on trying till you run out of cake

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    Default Re: Do you feel that gay is a choice???

    Who chooses who one is sexually attracted to ? Nobody I know of. So the overwhelming majority of gays and lesbians were BORN that way.

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