The times I've done this, there was no reason to worry about stability. My ex and I would crash on someone's couch or a motel, or the trip was paid for by the band and there really wasn't anything about which to worry. This time it's different. The bf and daughter would be coming and I'd obviously need a better plan than just winging it. Not to mention, when we'd "move" it was never on a permanent basis. We drifted a lot, helped by the fact that he was a touring musician, and I could work pretty much anywhere. Details did not matter. So I'm at a total loss at the moment about how to even start looking into moving. This would be a permanent move. This does need planning... so if you've ever moved to a new place, where did you begin? Did you have savings before you did it? And if you're not from the area, how did you know where to rent/buy? Did you take a trip down first and look around before deciding on a spot?? I want out of NY... soooooo.... help! LoL






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