My SO and I are interested in trying out anal sex but it hurts her... We've been looking at some kits to try to help ease her into it... Any suggestions or ideas?
My SO and I are interested in trying out anal sex but it hurts her... We've been looking at some kits to try to help ease her into it... Any suggestions or ideas?





Lots of lubricant.
Brand?





Organic coconut oil :-D





A Google search will yield dozens of not hundreds of discussion threads and even dedicated websites on this topic. You'll get a LOT more of what you say you're looking for that way than by posting on a Stripper board.
Touché. But this isn't the only message board I've posted this on... However, most other places I just got PIIHB, use lube and make sure she makes u a sammich after which isn't very helpful
I'm sure google dosen't ask you to make a sandwich?



I find that my boyfriend f***ing my vagina first for about five minutes helps me to relax. It's all about relaxation down there. Make sure you start very slow. I repeat, SLOW. Do not rush to shove it in. If you do, you can really hurt her if she isn't relaxed and your chance at it that time will be over. I'm speaking from experience. Start having sex normally then use a ton of lube all over your penis and more on her anus. I second the organic coconut oil but regular lube works fine. You can start by using your finger, but make sure your nails are short. This helps a lot, too.
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Ive posted recently on another thread .. the only way i can have anal sex is if i take a painkiller. Vicodin or percocet to be more exact. Regular over the counter pills never helped but who knows??
SOme people suggest a few glasse of wine, something to relax you.
That all being said, WITH a painkiller I enjoy it VERY much. But i still have to go thru all the motions, using fingers first, toys, lots of lube, to get me ready to actually have anal anyway.
You shouldnt NEED a painkiller to have anal sex, I understand that many women can enjoy it without but for me, its just painful.
I dont do it often though, so maybe if i did i would be able to eventually not need any "help" to be able to do it.
Anyways, thats just my 2 cents.
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