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    Confidence is key, it MUST exude from the inside, smile, strut eye contact. change up the line 'have you had a dance yet?" to "ohh you look like you are so ready for a dance! come on.." and stand up and grab his hands like your bursting to start "it's only $20!!" grin. I don't say sexy things either its just reading their personality and mirroring it slightly, by taking parts of his info and using it to your advantage, acting like you both have these great similarities. Getting them to stay longer...the same eagerness "nooo! our time is up, I have to much fun naked, $20?" hold out hand! You'd be surprised at how asking is receiving, Think of it as the sexy spoilt sex bomb hustle (no dirty talk needed!) x

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    To save a lot of typing here is the "getting those multiple dances thread.
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...iple-lapdances

    Read as many treads in this section as you can. I do a checklist/post work check on how well the tips I tried worked.

    Check out the other girls in your club, Do you stand out in anyway, good or bad, and be honest with yourself when doing it. If bad what can you do to correct it. Do you wear more or less on the floor than the other girls? Does your stipper look match what you look like, bombshell, sweet spinner, girl next door, bikini bunny?

    If dirty talk doesn't sound right comming off your tongue.....Learn how to sound like an insatible nympho! Try signing up to a phone sex site like NF hell keep your rates low and just use it as a practice line, it will help you talking to custies.

    A creative solution which i'm about to try is get yourself some strong pheramone perfume. Chemical warefare bitch! haha hope it works.

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    Default Re: Help me hustle better!

    Your club is basically identical to where I work- it's all about the $20 high contact lap dance, baby.
    The longest dance streak I've ever sold was 35, and I do 10 songs fairly frequently.

    I can't do the dirty talk either, but I don't have to, and neither do you. It always sounds ridiculous and I end up giggling any time I attempt it. Read the guy, copy his body language. The most important part is be bursting with confidence. You are a badass, sexy bitch. These dudes want to give you money, and you are going to take it. Shoulders back, chin up, killer smile, sexy strut. Eye contact.

    When you have the guy in the back, strip slow. Teasing is the name of the game. Don't be grindy. Grindy chicks get a couple dances, ones that seduce keep guys all night. This is what you're aiming for.

    Show off your body- run your hand up your leg, flip your hair, etc. And smile. You love giving dances (taking their money), you love spending time with them (getting their money), and you're sad when they're done (cause no more money).

    In a high contact club, it's all about the glow. If you don't show up to work ready to knock everybody dead with your awesomeness, it's gonna be a crappy night. Figure out a pre-work ritual that leaves you with that feeling. For me, I always listen to "On to the Next One" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WM1RChZk1EU before I leave. And keep that mantra in my head at work. If a dude says no or only gets a couple of dances, on to the next one.

    Good luck and happy hustling

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    Ask less questions with your intro. Don't ask him if he got dances already. He is not done yet. ;-) Tell him you're ready to dance for him and show him a good time, with the infamous head nod.

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    ^^^ Wisdom! yesss...
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    A line that always seems to help me with about a 75% success rate is even when he tries to end the dances, I just say "oohhhhh just ONE more??!!" while I keep dancing. 3 out of 4 times he agrees. I love the phrase "one more?" after every dance cause you're only asking him to commit to just one more. It seems to work really well.

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    My natural self is very hands on. I'm touchy-feely. This can work against me in dances because if I don't catch myself it becomes too much too soon. Really limit contact in the first dance or two if you want to exteeeeeeeend your dance count. There really is something to less is more because as each song ends he won't have had enough of you yet.

    In Tucson there was this dancer who got lots of dances in a row - like ten at a time. I watched her once and aside from being very slow, seductive, and sexy, she only gave a little contact during the first dance, a little bit more the second, tiny bit more the third, etc. Men couldn't get enough! We think all there is in this biz in being naked, but in the art of seduction that is but just a small element.


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    This is brilliant, I wrote "You love giving dances (taking their money), you love spending time with them (getting their money), and you're sad when they're done (cause no more money)" on a bit of paper and kept it in my purse at work and it kept me super motivated/focused and had a fantastic night!
    I really recommend keeping a bit of paper on you with like a 'line of the day' or something on it every shift i found it really helps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aperfectseal View Post
    A line that always seems to help me with about a 75% success rate is even when he tries to end the dances, I just say "oohhhhh just ONE more??!!" while I keep dancing. 3 out of 4 times he agrees. I love the phrase "one more?" after every dance cause you're only asking him to commit to just one more. It seems to work really well.
    Yep, I've been using "one more?" lately and it definitely works. I've been getting bigger strings of dances than anticipated with the guy saying "ok, just ONE more..." after each one. Haha. Even if I only do get "one more" from each guy I dance for, that greatly improves my earnings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kissykins View Post
    To save a lot of typing here is the "getting those multiple dances thread.



    A creative solution which i'm about to try is get yourself some strong pheramone perfume. Chemical warefare bitch! haha hope it works.
    Be sure to let everyone know if that works!

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    Favorite lines from SW: "Keep going?", "Let's do another" or "I'm not ready to stop".

    I agree with escalating contact for dances ... awesome tip. Or I would say escalating intensity. Sometimes you can't increase contact but you can give more and more eye contact, body language and feedback.

    But do get verbal confirmation "Let's do a third", "OK let's go for five". Don't get ripped off by stacking dances. That will really knock you off your game for the night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by calicokitten View Post
    Favorite lines from SW: "Keep going?", "Let's do another" or "I'm not ready to stop".

    I agree with escalating contact for dances ... awesome tip. Or I would say escalating intensity. Sometimes you can't increase contact but you can give more and more eye contact, body language and feedback.

    But do get verbal confirmation "Let's do a third", "OK let's go for five". Don't get ripped off by stacking dances. That will really knock you off your game for the night.
    I usually do that try to do verbal confirmation but last time i have failed! Customer said i wanted and i agreed he did not want it and did not say anything so he refused to pay. Another customer said i told him lets go to dance room and he did not have money... i took him over there he did not know blah blah... He said he doesnt have money. I had hard time his friend only paid for one song which i gave 2 dances when i ask him about money he said that he did not want dance i told him lets go ... and he thought i give him free dances... he did not know it costs money blah blah ... Also bouncers dont really back up us they just say get your money upfront especilly in front of customers! Again i got ripped of cause another douche bag customer kept sayin yeah i ll give your money i ll pay u, after i gave a dance yet he did not gave me anything. He just returned his friends and kept drinkin while i ask my money he kept sayin i ll give it to u blah blah... Of course they called me stage i could not get my money he left . I m so sick of this...Lately i am havin hard time... maybe demanding or verbal confirmation is wrong... i m not really sure...

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    Default Re: Help me hustle better!

    So how have you been going?

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    Wow a great thread, thanks! Miss P, your club should back you up! That sucks!

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    My club is full of cheap ass dudes too. In my club we always always ALWAYS get the money upfront. You will get ripped off otherwise. There has been so many times when a guy has wanted to carry on, reached into his wallet and he is out of money. (sometimes is is a honest mistake) if that happens, tell him where he can get cash. If they really do want another dance, they will go and get the money out. (with a bit of help!) always walk them to the cash machine or whatever.

    When getting the cash upfront, first get them to confirm that they want another dance. Then say, ok, so its another £--- to carry on. Then say something like 'i have to get the money upfront' 'lets get the money out of the way then we can relax' or 'lets sort out the business then we can focus on the pleasure!'

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    Default Re: Help me hustle better!

    I sit on their laps 80% of the time due to the clamped space, touched their shoulder or put my arms around them when asking for a dance.
    Take it from a 30 second hustler and try not sitting on their lap and see if that helps. There's lots of good advice in this thread.

    I can't do the dirty talk either, but I don't have to, and neither do you.
    Ex$ellent point!




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