



Knowing my provider its really untelling what they would do. I doubt they would take me serious, because I say stupid things like that all the time to get to through to people that its really none of your business what I'm doing. And I've found out the people I talk to there really have no clue what they are doing trust me on that one. Google knows their job better than them.
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHH I don't know what's going on but it looks like I'm back to the beginningI've had exactly one customer today! People login and immediately log out of my room. My upload speed is high, when I check myself out on SM my video looks smooth. WHAT THE HELL! I've gotten in trouble on here fopr my morbid sense of humor so I will refrain from my urges to say anything vulgar but this is just not my freaking week.
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I've definitely felt like I've been more talkative and entertaining in free chat lately--mostly just because I have to be since I've been spending more time in free chat than before. I even had a guy ask me about a private then spend 10+ mins talking to me about music before actually taking me private. He's not purposely a time waster or anything, it's like he was actually worried about interrupting the conversation (there were several other guys involved). It's just recently that this has become a problem. It made me think I really need to try to keep my mouth shut and rethink my game plan a bit.
"If I can't dance, I don't want to be part of your revolution." ~ Emma Goldman
Yes, like BlakeDahlia said..
My Husband & I do couples on LJ, SM, Cams.com and the (when all else fails for the night Chaturbate) lol We are a VERY energetic couple. We have never just sat there since we started back in October of last year. I know were still newbies.But lately we get the same group of folks esp on livejasmin that always come to see us. But they never take us pvt! Well, most of them. It's started to make us re-think our game a little. But it's hard because we are very talkative period. lol But it seems they are just there for the enertainment. We even have guests that come in and use their nicknames for us since the 1st week we started. And dont even get us started on the dang encoder. I can't get it work properly for us. We would love the GOLD SHOW. Only because in REAL life a MAN can only cum so many times in 4-6 hrs. lol But Im w/ Blake on that. I feel I need to keep my mouth shut more! I don't know, camming is SOOOO confusing to me! Esp on MFC. Its like one min I see a girl FULLY clothed, not even saying a word and a guy tipped her 25,000 tks! ANd then, she didnt even do anything for it. lol And then, in the next TOP girl's rm I see her doing a full hitachi show!
I just get confused.. Stay clothed, get nude, play a game, keep quiet, I mean what? lol My cam score got to 2000 once. lol But I have only cammed on there like maybe 7 times. Now its like 937 or something. lol I dunno!
MeganElise I work on SM and I agree that at least for me it has been harder on there lately. I dunno why. Don't give up camming altogether. Be persistent and also keep trying different things. It will work out. Be creative and also stick to the schedule. Try other sites too of course and keep working to build regulars. Stay happy and positive.
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I thought camming was EZ breazy...





Those arent ment to be connected to a computer tho right? When I got into camming I was thinking about getting a video recorder or something but had no clue where to start on the research on that was old they were expensive and overkill for what was needed so I ended up getting the logic-tech 9000 and I'm happy with it but considering it for an "upgrade" when I start seeing results in my bank account lol .






I'd say just keep trying and if all else fails, try another site. The encoder should do the trick. I used the encoder from day one and I'm always placed on the first page & get decent traffic, but it has been slow lately. Act really happy & act like you dn't need their money.
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This is key. I saw a girl last night, crying about how stressed out she was about money ... I did feel bad for her, but when I feel like that, that's when I know it's time to log off and take a break. I act like I don't have a care in the world when I'm on cam ... I've occasionally had "moments" where I say something bitchy, but it's very few and far in between. If someone pisses you off, I've learned the best thing is to just "kick" or "ban" them and not say anything. I've noticed the few times I've said something bitchy, many guys left my room.
Sorry for going off-topic. I just thought someone brought up a really good point.


Never argue with anyone. If somebody is very rude then ban or act very opposite. Even more rude, then more happy and more super friendly. Sometimes it´s works, if customer complain or just being rude, then act more supersuper friendly. I had a guy in my freechat, he complains ´cause he want some free flashes, so I told him, I cannot flash in free and instead of ban him I act and answear super friendly. He probably wanted to just arque with somebody.





Bear in mind that lots of girls make this EXACT thing work very well for them. If you have regulars, it is a freaking GOLDMINE. As a general rule, yes, acting like you are just doing it for fun is great. But when you see a girl going into full blown tears, usually they are working an angle.
Heck, I do it! Only when I actually need to, but when I needed my dental surgery, I did some weepy stuff, and customers (mostly regs) covered the cost.
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Oh wow, congrats!! I'm sure the weeping thing can work in some girls favors. I have regulars that have tipped me when I've been in bad moods to help me feel better ... but at the same time, my guys know me for my friendly happy personality, so it turns them off when I'm in a negative mood. A bitchy personality just doesn't fit my girl-next-door style. I used to be a bitch on cam, but I've recently changed my persona to more bubbly and happy, and the guys LOVE it. I earn more money on cam now that I ever have.
I wouldn't cry on cam, but if you can pull it off, that's great!! I'm so glad you were able to get your dental work covered by your custies. It's one of the many things that makes me realize how much I love camming.





I'm totally a bubbly gnd too- that is why it works so well! If they are completely unused to seeing you less than perky and happy, they know it is "real" and "not a scam" and want to help...I don't think it would work if you were just constantly bitching about money...at least, not for 99% of us!!
But yeah, the original point was that there is a big difference between acting desperate every day, and using the "oh no poor me" every once in a while. I find that so many girls appear desperate without being aware of it...it is in the little things - the slightly bored, wooden facial expression, glazed eyes...etc.
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I'm having a similar issue on both SM and AW. I'm pretty new to both, and while I did have one really awesome custie since I started, I've not made as much as I'd hoped (about 12 bucks over a combined 6 hours at SM, and 136 pounds at AW over the course of a week, before fees.) Any money is awesome, of course, but I figure there HAS to be something I can do better to get more custies in!
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