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i think if you went out to dinner with someone after they bought a 30 minute cr and gave you a decent tip, you are underselling yourself.





But you're at work. You work for money. Dating customers is a bad idea. If you see him as a potential sugar daddy, then he better start coughing up more money.









Well, firstly - do you want to keep this person as a customer or date him? If he hasn't straight up offered a SD relationship, it may be too late to go down that road. And if you've already gone OTC with him, then the customer relationship will be hard to salvage at this point as well. It sounds like me that - in this specific situation - you jumped the gun a bit too soon. When you know you've hooked a whale, it's best to bleed him as dry as possible before resorting to OTC.
But to answer your question in a more general manner - respond to money like it's nothing new to you. Act grateful - but only to a point. Men like strippers partly becasue of their supposed status. They think we're all Princesses, raking in the dough, living the highlife of Champagne and cupcakes and that's part of our allure. So don't necessarily IGNORE their money; if they're flaunting how much they have, chances are they want to impress you.But be hard to impress. Order the top shelf liquor, and make yourself seem expensive. Money attracts money and men love a sexy woman who knows her worth. Act like you deserve every dime in their bank account and then some.
Read JD's posts here on SW. Act like her. Seriously. (Or Camille or Bobbia).
Good luck with the next big spender you land!





I know the feeling!
I actually find it harder and harder to put on that 'Princess persona' the older I get, because I'm caring about materialistic things less and less. And I don't mean that in that in a haughty way, I think I've just become desensitized to it all.
Still, bills need to be paid, right? Channel your inner diva, Babe! Think Beyonce!





Just like strippers hustle men for money, men in strip clubs who try to date strippers often try to hook up with a stripper or string them along as long as possible just for the ego boost. They drop the stripper the moment she fucks them, or the moment he feels like he has control over her. Meeting a quality, long-term guy in a strip club setting will likely end in disappointment and much more hassle than it was ever worth.





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