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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    i think if you went out to dinner with someone after they bought a 30 minute cr and gave you a decent tip, you are underselling yourself.

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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    I went to dinner with him because I like him.
    I don't date men because of their money. What I'm saying is I don't really know how to handle that he's being quite full on with it.
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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    But you're at work. You work for money. Dating customers is a bad idea. If you see him as a potential sugar daddy, then he better start coughing up more money.

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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Dating customers is a bad idea.
    Agreed. But that's not really what I'm asking.
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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    Quote Originally Posted by mariesgame View Post
    What is the best way to react when someone offers you a lot of money?
    ITC when they tip you a couple of hundred or buy an hour VIP or offer you expensive champagne?
    Or, I'm starting up a relationship at the moment with a guy that can only really be described as a sugar daddy. I met him ITC (silly me) and he bought a half hour sit down from me, (he would have bought more I'm sure but we both started doing other things) got me a massage, drinks and tipped me £100 at the end of the night.
    He took me out for dinner and paid, standard, but he's texting me saying he wants to take me to Miami, and in a hot air balloon, and shit like that. Which sounds amazing. And it makes me want to jump up and down. But my natural reaction to both this AND when lots of money is flashed ITC is to be very wary until stuff actually happens, at which point I'll be very polite and grateful and careful not to milk it.... But by being wary it comes across as just kind of ignoring it. Not good for a sale or reassurance.
    Like wtf do I say to that? Does "omg that would be so fun" do it justice??
    is this guy a customer, a sugar daddy, or a potential boyfriend. After you have done ANYTHING for free, he can only be a potential boyfriend.

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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    Well, firstly - do you want to keep this person as a customer or date him? If he hasn't straight up offered a SD relationship, it may be too late to go down that road. And if you've already gone OTC with him, then the customer relationship will be hard to salvage at this point as well. It sounds like me that - in this specific situation - you jumped the gun a bit too soon. When you know you've hooked a whale, it's best to bleed him as dry as possible before resorting to OTC.

    But to answer your question in a more general manner - respond to money like it's nothing new to you. Act grateful - but only to a point. Men like strippers partly becasue of their supposed status. They think we're all Princesses, raking in the dough, living the highlife of Champagne and cupcakes and that's part of our allure. So don't necessarily IGNORE their money; if they're flaunting how much they have, chances are they want to impress you.But be hard to impress. Order the top shelf liquor, and make yourself seem expensive. Money attracts money and men love a sexy woman who knows her worth. Act like you deserve every dime in their bank account and then some.

    Read JD's posts here on SW. Act like her. Seriously. (Or Camille or Bobbia).

    Good luck with the next big spender you land!



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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    thanks @4everresolutions. some great tips I'll deffo get some reading done and use the 'expensive lifestyle' mind frame. was about to lol!
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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    I know the feeling!

    I actually find it harder and harder to put on that 'Princess persona' the older I get, because I'm caring about materialistic things less and less. And I don't mean that in that in a haughty way, I think I've just become desensitized to it all.

    Still, bills need to be paid, right? Channel your inner diva, Babe! Think Beyonce!



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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    Quote Originally Posted by mariesgame View Post
    I went to dinner with him because I like him.
    I don't date men because of their money. What I'm saying is I don't really know how to handle that he's being quite full on with it.
    Just like strippers hustle men for money, men in strip clubs who try to date strippers often try to hook up with a stripper or string them along as long as possible just for the ego boost. They drop the stripper the moment she fucks them, or the moment he feels like he has control over her. Meeting a quality, long-term guy in a strip club setting will likely end in disappointment and much more hassle than it was ever worth.

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    Default Re: How To React When Someone Offers You Lots of Money

    yes. when in doubt, just do whatever jd would do.

    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    Read JD's posts here on SW. Act like her. Seriously. (Or Camille or Bobbia).

    Good luck with the next big spender you land!

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