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    Question question about "faults"

    Hi

    I've been preparing myself for camming, and feel I am very ready to start in the next month or so when I've moved into my own place. I have a few months background in escorting, and I honestly think this will be less stressful! Having said that, I have one thing that I'm not necessarily sure about... I have keloid scars that are quite obvious on my chest and arms. They can be covered with make-up to take away the redness, but they stick out and may show up on camera. I don't think they will really deter customers from pulling me into private or favoriting me, but I'm wondering if I should cover them in free chat with garments, just to be safe? I never had a problem escorting with them, and not one person even mentioned them, though they are very obvious, especially in person. I personally am comfortable with them, but don't want to send people away because of them, if that makes sense... I know to some these could be considered "faults", hence the title. Do any of you have things similar to this that you hide in chat but will rock out in paid shows? For example, a boob that is clearly bigger than the other, a gap, one less body part, etc.? Should I be thinking/worrying less about them? Thank you in advance

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    Default Re: question about "faults"

    i figure you're better off leaving them on show in free chat. if you're confident with your body then show that confidence. coz remember, nothing's more sexy than a confident woman



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    Default Re: question about "faults"

    Thank you! You are so very right...

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    Default Re: question about "faults"

    I have a few scars/marks that I cover up, but that being said, a few times I've forgotten and nobody has ever said anything. I cover them up more for my own peace of mind than anything else, because I personally am not very comfortable with them... but to be honest I don't think the guys care much about small things like that, especially when you're getting naked If you're comfortable I think your custies will be too, and anybody that isn't... well, that's what the banhammer is for and I loooove using my banhammer.




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    Be prepared for some asshole comments about your scars. But everyone gets asshole comments about something. You will get customers who don't care and will take you private, I promise.

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    Thank you all!!!

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    What cam you use can make some difference to..If I get my settings and lighting done a certain way my complexion looks awesome! smooths me right out and doesnt show any blotches

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    I have some scars, stretch marks from having my son, breast lift scars, and the occasional right in the middle of my forehead pimple. No one has ever said anything to me. Act like its not there, do your thing. Work on your lighting and camoflage if it makes you feel like it would be bugging you and hinder your confidence. I even broadcast in HD. Who is anyone to call out anyone's flaws, when they are surely not perfect themselves. You do want to look your best because you are selling yourself. Play up the features that you love, and those little flaws go unnoticed.

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    Default Re: question about "faults"

    There's probably even a category on Clips4Sale for scars, if you're interested in recording videos.

    Now that I think of it, I have stretch marks on my ass (from giving birth), so maybe I should record a video where I'm zooming in on my ass. If I can make money off of my imperfection, why not?

    EDIT: I just checked, and I don't see a category for stretch marks or scars, surprisingly.
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    Nah don't worry about it... i bet you not one person will notice, and if they do they probably into it in a fetish way hahaha! I have massive keloid scars from my boob job and no one says a thing, just like spotty bums, hairy armpits, fat bits....

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    I'm gonna have a big scar on my face soon (surgery), but I'm not all that worried about the scar. Some people love scars. I actually love scars... Maybe it's because I'm weird, but when men have scars, it's a huge turn on for me. I'm gonna show my scar with pride.

    You shouldn't worry what people say. People who insult others have huge issues with themselves, which is why they take it out on other people. Psychology proves this to be true. Just ban the shit-talkers.

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    I have an ex bf, that actually loved all my scars. He said, "They make you seem real." I ride a motorcycle, and I've fallen 2x. Scars make for a good story. Please don't harp on the scars, bc if people aren't taking you private there is another problem, that you aren't addressing.

    If someone does bring it up, tell them where the scars came from, (if you are comfy with that), or make up a witty or CORNY comeback.


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    For me, I have 4 round scars smack-dab in the middle of my chest above my breasts. They sprouted about my teens, and I've had a few since then that have been from just scratching harshly. A lot of lotion and a lot of love seems to keep them to a minimum, lol. I do find that people recognize me more because they are so obvious, but sometimes I do dislike that they are so obvious. Loving your body is so important, and accepting those flaws (I feel) can make or break your business. Thank you, ladies
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    I know I've said it on here before, but Tamanu oil works wonders for scars, It makes my fresh scars and bruises (my cats like to scratch me sometimes, and I'm just clumsy too lol) disappear, and it has really faded my old scars. That being said, every human has scarring and imperfections. I've got a pretty noticeable birthmark, and only one guy has ever said anything about it. And he still went private with me

    The guys that say rude things will do that to every girl, doesn't matter if she's perfect with no scars at all, so who cares about them anyway? Oh and just a side note, if you're allergic to nuts, don't use Tamanu oil. It's a nut extract. Otherwise, it's great for sensitive skin

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    And the best thing is....if someone is totally awful..... *BAN*! Best. Job. Ever. Good luck to you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlotteslut View Post
    Be prepared for some asshole comments about your scars. But everyone gets asshole comments about something. You will get customers who don't care and will take you private, I promise.
    Pretty much this
    Everyone has faults. And most people will be made fun of for them. You've gotta have a tough skin.
    BUT having faults like that CAN have its advantages. The customers that like YOU (for your personality and other features and everything) could get defensive and take you to private because of that :p
    I'm sure you've got a tough skin and you're confident so you'll be fine
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