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    Default Re: crazy nervous about an urban club & still being a baby stripper

    Quote Originally Posted by Shade2 View Post
    Honestly I have jut started like two weekends ago and I was soo nervous that I felt sick the entire drive to the club and the whole month it took for me to decide. I'm the shyest girl ever and have low self confidence. Once you get there and get changed into your sexy gear you'll feel so different. I was comfortable after like an hr and then totally forgot I was walking around in my underwear lol. I worked one shift and since then have been fighting myself to go back tha hardest part at first is to keep going back. The key is to not think about it too much. I had planned everything to a T for weeks and every weekend kept bailing. The night I actually decided to go in was a a spur of the moment and I just said fuck it. It was a great night I had a blast, walked out making some good money for total newbie. You can do this=) girl go make your money!
    Omg yes u totally get me lol I feel like I've been planning everything to the exact detail and finding every reason why I cant do it this week smh. It's too crazy, I actually have a good reason this week but I really need to just suck it up and go. It's just a lil intimidating which is crazy because towering at 5"11 u would think not much intimidates me . But that shit right there pulls my card everytine
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    Default Re: crazy nervous about an urban club & still being a baby stripper

    What do you think guys think about when they see a tall girl? A Supermodel!!!!

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    Default Re: crazy nervous about an urban club & still being a baby stripper

    op i feel your pain i am also a baby stripper and cant really dance like the top black strippers. now that everyone has ass shots a big booty isnt as impressive. its still better to have ass than not but you need to be able to put on a show if you want the big money. ive been debating about whether to go back before i learn the pole tricks and booty tricks because when i was dancing i made money but not alot. i was making like $300 a night which isnt bad but for black strippers its bad those girls made like 3 grand a week for 3 nights of work. I have seen girls two step and make money but ass shaking def goes a long way. i think im going to get my ass cheeks bouncing before i go up there because i dont want to go in there unconfident or scared becasue it never ends good when i feel that way.

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    Right well I have alot of Ass shaking practice now lol my male gay friend is like a stripper life coach I swear lol he's like" okay honey left cheek, right cheek , left cheek, right cheek now double time go go go !" it hilarious he's like I want u clapping everywhere even in the line for groceries lol. But anyway I just have this idea everyone has A++ skills and if u don't have that then you will make no money .I'm not trying to make 1000 a night that would be great but hell I'd be happy with 300 a night 3 times a week thats better then serving tables for only 5 dollar tips. Urban upscale clubs just seem so intimidating. I gotta get over these nerves because I'm messing up my money I know once I'm on the stage I'll be fine but just getting up there is hard
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    Default Re: crazy nervous about an urban club & still being a baby stripper

    Quote Originally Posted by Liv. View Post
    so im still just a baby stripper...learning & trying to figure out if im doing things right. In my quest for trying not look like im still new i need a new club. so i headed to the upscale club in my area filled out and application and they told me to come back on any tuesday from 6 to 8 .....why havent i been back yet ! well one is my stupid serving job is messing with my schedule and two im terrified !! ...my pole skills are basic as [email protected]#k!! and the only thing i really have going for me is the fact that ive been blessed with phat cheeks and mile long legs. I can dance thank god for that but being 5'11 with 5in platforms (jeeezus thats like 6'4) kinda makes me think maybe im not a good match for a more urban club ...but damn the money is great there but idk how customers will respond to the worlds tallest phat booty stripper. any advice to clear the nerves .??
    Sweetie first of all, I have NEVER seen a tall stripper be at a dis-advantage in a club. I'm 5'5 and wear 8+ heels for this exact reason. Men and women often comment that I look like a statue. Who doesn't want to see/feel mile long legs??

    Secondly, personality and confidence will carry you far in a black club. You WILL get better at stage shows/pole tricks the more you go in to work. Sitting at home scared isn't helping your body/mind mature and progress in this business. So what if you make $1 on stage the first time? If you continue to go, you will start making $$$ on stage because you will see what other girls do. You will practice on stage or at home. I practice RIGHT ON STAGE when it's slower and still make money. Sometimes even if it's packed and guys see me trying something new, suddenly there's a RAINSTORM of $$$. I do pretty simple booty clapping moves and make good money. Sure I'd like to know how to make each cheek bounce individually and other tricks, but it doesn't hurt my earnings that I don't. I'm sure it WILL increase my earnings when I do learn.

    People are right about not doing slow, sensual movements the whole time but interjecting those will make you even more erotic to the average club-goer REGARDLESS of race. I don't have fake implants anywhere, all natural, and no crazy moves either. Actually the reason I started working urban clubs too is because I got sick of moving so slow at white clubs, where I make $$$$$ out the ass. I love the high energetic dancing at urban clubs so be ready for that! They DO want to see their girls on stage having fun. Yeah the technical movements will get rained on, accept that. But it's soooooooooooo much more to making money than knowing how to pop each ass cheek. Stage shows are NOT just about crazy pole tricks or the ass implant chicks.

    In KOD, they are overrun with ass-plant girls and they are NOT all making money, I can assure you!

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    Default Re: crazy nervous about an urban club & still being a baby stripper

    Quote Originally Posted by Liv. View Post
    right and i probably should mention that in this area Lap dances are against the law .... so they have "table dances'' which are not cheap at all. so basically majority of my money would have to be stage money.
    not necessarily true. at stadium, the majority of your money would be made on tables. unless you were exceptionally good on stage. like backflips into splits and shit. even then, there's a lot of money to be made off stage. girls that do good on stage also hustle on tables because in a lot of cases people have hundreds to thousands in their pockets at the tables. there's guys who don't wanna leave the VIP and tip the girls on stage..

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    $300 a night? pshhh youre good. I made that when I sat at the bar nursing my drink all night and not even going on stage. you can make 300 a night in a fulton industrial club.

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    lol yeah 300 would make me happy at the least. Its alot better then what im getting now. so i guess i should be okay...
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    Default Re: crazy nervous about an urban club & still being a baby stripper

    Quote Originally Posted by Addison View Post
    A lot of times in urban clubs, the real money isn't made in private dances. It's made on stage. Even dances on the floor are basically for tips instead of $20/song. A veteran urban club goer friend on mine once said, "I've been going to Onyx every weekend for a year, and I just learned that lap dances are supposed to be $20." Another said, "I thought lap dances were free, they come over, dance, and you give them whatever you give them!" lol

    Even that 'guy by himself with the grand in his pocket' is gonna get it broken down into a stack of singles and make it rain all night. Urban clubs are all about the show. It's a party. It's not about finding some sad PL in the corner and making him fall in love with you, it's about finding that guy who wants everyone to know he has the most money, so he's gonna throw it. Extravagance!

    The advice that some girls give here just doesn't translate into an urban club environment. They'll have you out there in bodyzone apparel moving 'slow, sexy, and sensual' on stage.... looking crazy.

    Learning the pole in this kind of environment definitely will not be a wasted investment. It'll help you.
    You, miss, have just solved the mystery as to why I havent made much money! I just started dancing (I have only danced two different days so far) and have been too nervous to get up on stage yet. I have tried to make money on the floor giving dances...didnt go so well. Also, I work in a VERY urban club. I guess I was applying tips girls from a different type of club gave. Thank you VERY much!

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    ***UPDATE*** WOOT! WOOT!
    so i made it back.... i came in last night and met with the club manager and the house mom. the CM was very blunt and funny... saying that they have an image to maintain so with that being said "get butt naked" lol they looked me over and i was OK'd ..there are 90 girls on the list and its been a little slow lately. He said that he will call me next week after he "cleans house'' . As i was leaving the guys that were already in the club were like "wait why is she not working tonight!!!". So the manger said he may bring me in sooner lol. Everyone was really nice even the girls that were already there everyone was just crowded around me talking to me telling how much fun ill have here. Im so glad i got over my nerves YOU GUYS WE'RE SUCH A BIG HELP!!
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