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    i'm a newly mom. my son is almost 3 months. i'm trying to finish beauty school but at this time i'm staying home with my son.

    i'm thinking of becoming a cam girl. i just honestly am worried. i don't know why. i'm not tight and i shouldn't be stressing over money, but it'd be so much easier having it on the side. i don't think i'm too shy for the job, for some reason i'd just feel like i'm a bad mom?
    i'm not trying to insult any mothers that do it, obviously, because i'm thinking of doing it... i just feel that way, personally, about myself. i don't know why? did anyone else feel this way? did you ever get over it?

    thanks so much!

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    Default Re: any moms?

    im a dancer but not a mom, but most of my friends are, and most of them are dancers and cam girls.
    you sound like your morals just aren't good with it. so why are you bothering to ask? you don't sound like you'd feel comfortable with doing it, so don't.

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    I'm not a camgirl. I've been a dancer for years though and I have a 3mos old as well. IMO, you're only a bad mother if you stop taking care of your child. Making money in order to provide for your family or better your circumstances not only doesn't make you a bad mom, it makes you a better one.

    At the same time, don't compromise yourself for money you don't need. If you can't look yourself in the mirror it's not worth it.
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    I have a two-year-old boy.

    I started stripping when he was 6-months-old. I was a cam girl briefly (about 3 months) with my fiance at home--couples camming.

    Stripping and camming has given me MORE time with my son than a 'normal' job would have, and it's enabled us to have nice things like a luxurious condo, a newer SUV, the best clothes, the best toys, food in our bellies, and ample family time during the week. The best thing you can do is participate in webcamming if YOU want to, but trust me that it will not make you a bad mother.

    I have personally never webcammed when my son was home at night because it felt strange to me, but as long as he/she was in their own room and sleeping I see no issue with others doing it. Make sure you can hear them if they wake up, but try not to be too loud. Also, create a reasonable schedule and try not to stay up too late because the lack of sleep can affect your patience in the morning. That's one of the biggest challenges, especially for single parents (or Moms whose SO has work early in the morning). Balancing a 'night' job and being alert and happy in the morning is a constant struggle for me.

    I don't know if your child is sleeping through the night but it would be best to wait until they have a consistent night time routine before you webcam if you are alone in the house with your child. If your little one wakes up at night it will be harder to webcam and you may lose money.
    If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.


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    I wouldn't feel bad in the slightest. I have 2 kids and about to give birth again here in 9 weeks and I feel great about it. I have been camming for 8 years and I have been able to stay at home with each one of my kids and never stick them in daycares unless I wanted to. Plus I make great money and they have everything they could ever want, plus more. What's there to feel bad about? I would feel worse about being on foodstamps and welfare to be honest.

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