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    I'm sorry to hear that girl, but somehow relieved to know it's not just me who's dealing with it. Lmao the amount of guys who honestly think I want to meet them in person cracks me up, especially because it's always the guys who've never spent a dime. So of course they feel entitled

    Oh, I've been getting those "let's meet up for sex" messages since day one, now the new thing is the guys will post their phone numbers IN PARTY CHAT for me to call him. Lmfao!!!! Homeboy, ain't no way in hell I'm going to be calling you now or ever, but since you just gave out your shit to a couple dozen horny guys on a sex site, let's see what surprises you end up with! Smh.

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    we can date in.... private

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    I just think I'm less willing to deal with the bullshit when I'm not banking. In the previous months, I still got annoyed but for the most part not much bothered me. Now, since it's been slower and I've been spending more time in free chat hell, I wanna fucking disembowel over half my chat room.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlakeDahlia View Post
    I just think I'm less willing to deal with the bullshit when I'm not banking. In the previous months, I still got annoyed but for the most part not much bothered me. Now, since it's been slower and I've been spending more time in free chat hell, I wanna fucking disembowel over half my chat room.
    YES!!!! Amen girl, that is exactly how I feel! I've been on SM for an hour this morning and made a whopping $4.80. All I can say is, thank God for back up sites! I did three private shows this morning but all for quick wankers. One guy at least rated me a 5 so I know I'm doing something right. My last guy I had to block and end the private because he was Waayyyy too rude. "your my bitch now." Lmao I have never ended a private show before today but I'm not ANYBODY'S bitch for the little amount you are paying me!

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    I had someone come into my room yesterday with the opener, "Hey bitch!"

    Usually I would just brush it off and warn them but this time I pushed the ban button. It was easier to just let it roll off my back when this behavior seemed to be fewer and far in between but in these slow days I am not in the mood to 'educate' custies how to respect other human beings on the off chance that they take me pvt.
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    Some guy recently goes, "How does a 40 year old come to be doing webcam shows?" It was one of those questions that gets you thinking, and let's just say it was a bit of a bummer. I wish I would have said,"How does a 35 year old come to be WATCHING webcam shows?" but I wasn't quick enough, alas.

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    Also, how could I neglect to mention this? A guy just recently said, "I love jacking off to hot white sluts like you." in free chat. I was right about to get my period too and I was irritable like hell. The top of my head almost blew off on that one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shywebcamgirl View Post
    I had someone come into my room yesterday with the opener, "Hey bitch!"

    Usually I would just brush it off and warn them but this time I pushed the ban button. It was easier to just let it roll off my back when this behavior seemed to be fewer and far in between but in these slow days I am not in the mood to 'educate' custies how to respect other human beings on the off chance that they take me pvt.
    I block those and the "hi mommy" immediately. In my opinion you should ask upfront for mommy/son roleplay or degradation fetishes. It's just common sense. But we all know most of these people lack common sense.


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    I think thats a great response. I just say 'no' and 'were not allowed' and they still dont' get a fucking clue.



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    There's a beautiful Black model on SM right now who's ranting/crying about guys paying for her pics and then posting them online for others to see. I understand her frustration (it's one of the sucky things about being a cam girl), but cam girls shouldn't be on cam crying about this stuff. It's not good to let these guys see you "lose it" and cry on cam, and many of them will laugh at you and probably even record you crying (they find it amusing).
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    There's a beautiful Black model on SM right now who's ranting/crying about guys paying for her pics and then posting them online for others to see. I understand her frustration (it's one of the sucky things about being a cam girl), but cam girls shouldn't be on cam crying about this stuff. It's not good to let these guys see you "lose it" and cry on cam, and many of them will laugh at you and probably even record you crying (they find it amusing).
    Also ranting and crying in your chat room to the men who may be recording you does nothing more than tell the other guys who AREN'T, "Hey theres pics and videos of me out there for free, I bet if you search hard enough you can find them."
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    Quote Originally Posted by TM1975 View Post
    Also ranting and crying in your chat room to the men who may be recording you does nothing more than tell the other guys who AREN'T, "Hey theres pics and videos of me out there for free, I bet if you search hard enough you can find them."

    Yup. The word FREE makes them feel like a bunch of 5-year olds in a Toys R Us store. It's best to just log off the cam site and cry away from a bunch of watching guys. One guy had even said to her "You should log off. You've been going on about this for a while, and I don't like it. You're missing out on money." His comment pissed her off, and when other guys suggested she log off to calm herself down, she flipped out on them. Even though I can't stand it when guys say "Calm down," in this case they were right. A public chat room is no place for a model to be when she's crying (not tears of joy) over something a cam site jerk has done.
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    yes they are rude...if you take what they say personally.
    but.
    think about it....
    u dont really know who is the person who says what they say.
    maybe they r too young and dont get shit..
    maybe they r drunk
    maybe they r high
    maybe they r really..... slow............
    maybe they r frustrated with their own life...

    U know how in real life, when u meet someone face to face.. a complete stranger...
    your instinct tells you if their are insecure with themselves or.. not so much..
    Same here..
    they can tell by just looking at you.
    Its in your face, your body language, your words, your everything.
    I think thats part of the problem.
    So if thats the case,,, try to not show it.
    2nd part of the problem is what I said above..


    Someone can tell me till their blue in the face that Im ugly, stupid, fat and so on.
    If I dont believe it, their efforts of putting me down are useless.

    Self confidence should be a religion on its own..

    Ok.

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    I can't tell you how many times this week I've had to log out and take a quick ten minute break because I just get so frustrated and I don't want to blow up on cam. Sometimes I still do flip, and sometimes it works to my advantage (like if I have a nice regular in my room, he'll usually take me private to tell me what an asshole members in free chat are and remind me how beautiful and awesome I am and we will do a nice show together). But I know I should just try to log out, smoke a cig, and take a few minutes to recharge if I feel myself getting frustrated. The problem is this past week has been so frustrating, I feel like I'd be spending more time off cam than on! I hope these guys are just all on their periods and cranky about having a shitty Valentine's Day, and things should go back to "normal" soon.

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    fuck i know what the hell is up l8ly? I had a lot of assholes last night, pushed the block button a couple times. Also short of my goal and on cam longer....retarded.

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    I had one last night saying "Ewww "Your" fat & ugly you shouldn't cam on sites like this it's "degrating" LOL!! If you're going to insult me please know about the use of proper grammar and spelling. :/ I just yawned & banned...seems to be a common trend lately, I push that ban button a lot more than I think that I should have to. They think they are going to get under my skin and get me angry but the truth of the matter is, it's just become boring. Got to love trolling fails.

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    I ignore them. Its the best option, finding out who is seeking "attention" and who are the trolls can be difficult. The past few weeks it has been up and down with jerks coming in and out. Some I banned some I left alone.
    Last night one guy that has not bought a show from me but comes in my chat and stares at me, he actually bought a show. THIS IS WHAT FLARED A DEMON IN ME...he said he didnt buy previous shows because there was always a person in there talking trash, my mood would change, it STOPPED him from purchasing.
    We had a private last night that lasted a hour (block session) had fun then he just wanted to talk. I asked him if I could grab a glass of wine while we talked and I did. We chatted from how he found me, the hours I work and a reasonable dating question. I was so relaxed to know he was not a lurker. He kept begging for a date. No, Im in a relationship and he understands plus its not safe to date from the site. He found me through a dating service. There must be a label that advertises we date.
    I minimize time and get a lot less drama and get a lot more $$.

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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    I ignore them. Its the best option, finding out who is seeking "attention" and who are the trolls can be difficult. The past few weeks it has been up and down with jerks coming in and out. Some I banned some I left alone.
    Last night one guy that has not bought a show from me but comes in my chat and stares at me, he actually bought a show. THIS IS WHAT FLARED A DEMON IN ME...he said he didnt buy previous shows because there was always a person in there talking trash, my mood would change, it STOPPED him from purchasing.
    We had a private last night that lasted a hour (block session) had fun then he just wanted to talk. I asked him if I could grab a glass of wine while we talked and I did. We chatted from how he found me, the hours I work and a reasonable dating question. I was so relaxed to know he was not a lurker. He kept begging for a date. No, Im in a relationship and he understands plus its not safe to date from the site. He found me through a dating service. There must be a label that advertises we date.
    I minimize time and get a lot less drama and get a lot more $$.
    Congrats on the 60 minute block! Don't you love those? I haven't had a block session in probably about three weeks, whereas I used to have one on average about every 3 days. In addition to more rude guys and more cheap guys, I've noticed that I haven't seen as many of my regulars this week. Boo!

    But really, he found you through a dating service? bdjfwieuf,nfk.h
    Why does Streamate think it is a Good Thing to advertise free sex? I know my earnings are down, and it seems like other (Not all) girls are also reporting lower earnings recently, or at least a lower hourly. I'd be really curious to see how SM's net revenue has fluctuated now that they're doing this type of advertising. I can't imagine how this can possibly be good for their bottom line.

    If someone offered me something for free, and then when I went there told me I had to pay a high price for it, I'd be pissed, too. In fact, even if it was something I may have initially considered purchasing, I probably wouldn't once I found out the actual price because I'd feel I was being lied to by the company. However, my momma raised me right and I certainly wouldn't use that as a reason to personally attack someone who works there.

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    I find one time of the day is REALLY bad for me and FULL of mom's basement retards. If I am sitting in free chat for more than 5 minutes I just tell them when I come back then free wankers better be gone and real men better be ready to play. Then I go into break mode for 1-2 minutes before I pound my head on my coffee table and/or log off and lose money.

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    ...he said he didnt buy previous shows because there was always a person in there talking trash, my mood would change, it STOPPED him from purchasing.
    That's a good point, which also got me thinking, even if I try extra hard to moderate my mood no matter what, I do notice that when one rude guy starts up I'm more likely to receive a bunch of nasty comments in a row. This is in party chat, where everyone can see what other members are typing. I guess it's the mob mentality? Guys just like to jump on whatever bandwagon is rolling through? I also notice it when it comes to actual shows. I may wait a long ass time for someone to take me private, but when someone finally does, a Bunch of guys will join that private so it just kind of balances out. I think some of these guys only believe you're valuable when they see other guys treating you like you are valuable.

    I think I will run a little experiment next week and go back to broadcasting only in classic chat. Now that I think of it, when I only broadcasted in classic as opposed to party mode I used to have a LOT more respectful guys even though my rate hasn't changed. I also think that it will be easier for me to ignore the mean guys. If a guy comes out with something like "you're an ugly whore" it makes me more upset when I know a dozen other guys have seen that comment; I feel like some of them may start silently judging me and I have to go out of my way to justify why I am a great cam girl. Whereas if I'm the only one who sees it? I'm much less likely to give a damn.

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    Yeah, the whole insult = mood change has definitely got to be a boner killer for most. Part of the reason why I just ban right away usually.

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    @SweetPinkCupcake Oh my God, girl... "mom's basement retards..." Lmfao you just made me laugh out loud! I know I shouldn't laugh because I can relate to every single word you said but holy hell, what a great way to phrase it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    Congrats on the 60 minute block! Don't you love those? I haven't had a block session in probably about three weeks, whereas I used to have one on average about every 3 days. In addition to more rude guys and more cheap guys, I've noticed that I haven't seen as many of my regulars this week. Boo!

    [B]But really, he found you through a dating service? bdjfwieuf,nfk.h
    Why does Streamate think it is a Good Thing to advertise free sex?[/B
    ] I know my earnings are down, and it seems like other (Not all) girls are also reporting lower earnings recently, or at least a lower hourly. I'd be really curious to see how SM's net revenue has fluctuated now that they're doing this type of advertising. I can't imagine how this can possibly be good for their bottom line.

    If someone offered me something for free, and then when I went there told me I had to pay a high price for it, I'd be pissed, too. In fact, even if it was something I may have initially considered purchasing, I probably wouldn't once I found out the actual price because I'd feel I was being lied to by the company. However, my momma raised me right and I certainly wouldn't use that as a reason to personally attack someone who works there.
    The other day I had someone in my free chat room say that he stumbled upon me via a dating site which is very popular in which he told me the name of it but I wish to have the name remain anonymous. I was surprised and said something like " that's where they put us huh"? I just hope they don't put our hometowns our profiles. It's misleading to advertise us in that avenue because it gives these guys false hope of meeting and dating us. I explained to him that Streamate is an adult site not a dating one. He said he knew that but he was lead there when he was the date site.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    That's a good point, which also got me thinking, even if I try extra hard to moderate my mood no matter what, I do notice that when one rude guy starts up I'm more likely to receive a bunch of nasty comments in a row. This is in party chat, where everyone can see what other members are typing. I guess it's the mob mentality? Guys just like to jump on whatever bandwagon is rolling through? I also notice it when it comes to actual shows. I may wait a long ass time for someone to take me private, but when someone finally does, a Bunch of guys will join that private so it just kind of balances out. I think some of these guys only believe you're valuable when they see other guys treating you like you are valuable.

    [SIZE=3[B]]I think I will run a little experiment next week and go back to broadcasting only in classic chat. Now that I think of it, when I only broadcasted in classic as opposed to party mode I used to have a LOT more respectful guys even though my rate hasn't changed. I also think that it will be easier for me to ignore the mean guys. If a guy comes out with something like "you're an ugly whore" it makes me more upset when I know a dozen other guys have seen that comment; I feel like some of them may start silently judging me and I have to go out of my way to justify why I am a great cam girl. Whereas if I'm the only one who sees it? I'm much less likely to give a damn[/B[/SIZE]].

    That's the primary reason why I broadcast in classic chat as opposed to party chat because I don't want anyone reading my or everyone else's responses. Some men might be too embarrass to admit or ask for private requests if they know everyone will be reading everything. Plus, like you said it party chat would be most likely to attract buttholes because their intended purpose is to embarrass you openly or to start some drama and become trolls. Usually it's these same individuals you would encounter in real life who like to insult and put people on blast as long as there's an audience around; but then they straight, boneless, head-hanging cowards when they're alone. It might make my room seem dead and boring but I prefer it that way than having no private messages which invites hell-raisers. That's what I hated about LiveJasmin evrything was typed openly.

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