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    Has this ever happened to anyone? Or has anyone heard any stories for escorts meeting their BF, or S/O through their "work"?

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    It deff happens..... Not with me..... But I know of at least three instances.
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    If a lady is screening, I dont see how it could happen..

    I guess if she doesnt check a guy out at all, and does everything through email/text and hes using a different email/phone that she wont recognize...

    Even if any guy I knew used a hobby name/phone/email that passed my screening and he has references...
    I always do a voice call to confirm our date before meeting...I would recognize his voice.
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    It's possible I misunderstood the OP..... I thought the point was meeting and then becomming BF/SO....... Not OMG my husband is outside my hotel door.
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    I know of 3 friends that meet there partners whilst escorting all went terribly wrong for them,because all 3 of the men none off them know each other,all went down the same track,saying your nothing but a whore,slag,you get payed for it,slapper,how do i know you are not doing it behind my back,they all got.......paranoid set in,checking up on them all of the time,it just tunred ugaly for them,and there all single now,just my say hope this helps

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    Actually I think Im the one who misunderstood lol

    Yeah in my local community, there are people who met each other through this, and like Rosie said, it did not end well. There are a couple of guys who are bent on dating and marrying an escort and use this as a dating service...one who is always moving escorts in with him to take care of his sick mother. Another friend of mine dated a guy she met, but that didnt end well either.

    I wont say its not possible, I know a husband & wife team who work together, and Ive heard of ladies who met their guy this way, but both of them quit working, but still talked to people in the community. I dont want to date anyone at all, and dont want to mix business/my money with pleasure so Ill never find out personally.
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    Julia Roberts :-)

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    This happend to me! I met my soon to be ex husband as an escort when he hired me, I also met the current guy I am with through the escort industry as well, he worked as an agency owner for a long time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    Actually I think Im the one who misunderstood lol

    one who is always moving escorts in with him to take care of his sick mother.
    HAHAHAHAHAHA ROFLMAO There are agencies for such things - Not escort agencies for christ sake , that's so funny..... His poor mom ! Someone shoot me if there comes a day my son introduces me to my new lady of the night /home help ! :-)

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    My ATF escort's best friend is a former escort who met her husband through work. Now, to be fair, she stopped working as an escort once she and the guy became serious. There are not many men out there who can handle being a husband or SO of a working escort.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ukmissy View Post
    HAHAHAHAHAHA ROFLMAO There are agencies for such things - Not escort agencies for christ sake , that's so funny..... His poor mom ! Someone shoot me if there comes a day my son introduces me to my new lady of the night /home help ! :-)
    It gets fresher... After a few months, I guess they had a falling out, so he wrote a bad review of her, saying she stole stuff from his house. It only took about 10m before there was a flood of replies from people who knew his drill, and said that you cant review relationships, just dates. But along with the list of stuff he said she stole, he said hes missing sneakers and a brand new pack of socks he ordered off ebay.

    Everyone wanted to know if the sneakers were hi-tops, and started writing reviews about her, complimenting her on her new socks and saying shes so gentle and sweet, she could be a home nurse aid. Its a huge running joke (among all the other running jokes on there...) and the guy is very annoyed and offended... cant understand why everyone thinks its so funny.
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    Default Re: Meeting your husband as an escort

    To me this sounds a little far fetched in most cases. I'm not an escort but when I've done parties, I've met guys interested in dating me but it just gave bad vibes. I can't imagine wanting to date or marry that you were sexually involved with before that. To me it changes the dynamic quite a bit and I don't think I could handle it. Then again I did date a former customer but that ended badly so that might have made me cynical.

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    It definitely happens. Maybe part of it is because some ladies find escorting to be very isolating and have a tough time meeting and dating people outside of the "hobby". Then there are the guys who are "looking for love in all the wrong places" also.

    I know of about a dozen provider/client relationships that started professional and turned personal. Only one of those dozen or so relationships has lasted more than a year or so.

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    Even though I know the odds arent so good, I can really see the allure..it would be tempting. (Not that I can even think of any current clients Id want to go for..lol) But youre right Jannisary, though I dont feel isolated, I dont feel like I can date at all while I do this because I cant imagine any guy being able to understand or accept it...and even if I did, Id be really cynical and distrustful of him, kind of like..why is he so accepting, what is *he* doing? Yes, a real damned if you do, damned if you dont for the guy.

    But if I met someone already in the hobby, then I guess in a way, Id figure he doesnt see what I do as out of the norm as somoene who isnt in the hobby. I dont really see anything last that long though, and Id still be afraid of what would happen if things didnt work out, and he decided to turn on me and out me or something.

    Okay, I just mused and then talked myself out of that as an option Im going to be alone for awhile....
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    <snip> he wrote a bad review of her, saying she stole stuff from his house. ... he said he's missing sneakers and a brand new pack of socks he ordered off ebay. ...

    Everyone wanted to know if the sneakers were hi-tops, and started writing reviews about her, complimenting her on her new socks and saying she's so gentle and sweet, she could be a home nurse aid. Its a huge running joke <snip>
    So, so funny! I don't know what I find more humorous, a bad review accusing an escort of stealing your new sneakers, or the image of an escort showing up dressed in sexy lingerie and high-tops!

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    I met my husband at "work", its not the norm but happens on occaison

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    Quote Originally Posted by BelleIsabelle View Post
    This happend to me! I met my soon to be ex husband as an escort when he hired me, I also met the current guy I am with through the escort industry as well, he worked as an agency owner for a long time.
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    This made me think of the guys who hide their wallet under the mattress - I guess when your friend comes over they shoud stuff their socks under there too - lol

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    It has been known to happen but it is VERY RARE.

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