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    So I moved my 2 girls and I from California, to Idaho to be closer to Family and a new life! I have been here at my moms for 4 months now, and have been doing camming for almost a year now! I am not working any other job at the moment, but plan on going back to school! I get a phone call saying I can come in and fill out some paperwork to get into this really nice 3 bedroom townhouse that is HUD based ( low income ), so I go in and fill out everything, and soon I am approved! they wanted to know what income I was bringing in, and said I am self employed! So they wanted to know where, the phone number, what type of buisness it is, and Ect..... So I didnt want to lie about it and said I am a adult webcam model, and gave the info, and the managers boss called him back and said we cant approve her because she can not operate porn out of her house in a family apartment complex...So now I am thinking about telling them that I will quit, and have family help me out until I find something else, but was going to try and still do it when I move in! When I have to say I am working again, do I lie about? Give them different info? Will they find out that I am camming still? I need some help ladies on this situation!! What would you do? I really need my own place, and I cant afford regular rent right now! Thanks

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    Default Re: Can anything else go wrong??

    I would apply for a different place not affiliated with the other place, and this time tell them that you're a self-employed independent contractor with several clients, or that you do affiliate marketing (and give them the # to like moneytree or something), or that you are a freelance graphic & web designer with lots of different repeat clientele.

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    In this business you have to lie about what you. I repeat never tell what you do when you are trying to get into school or housing it will bite you in the ass. Apply for a different place because they won't believe you.

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    That is so awful and unfair! I always just say that I am an at home telemarketer. They are independent contractors as well so I generally don't get asked too many questions.

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    Ugh. Sorry to hear this, chica. I agree that you should apply for a new place. I say that I am a freelance writer/editor--I have a journalism degree so that works for me. Online customer service is a good generic descriptor for camming.

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    Thanks ladies for the advice!! If I say I work as a customer service rep or something they wil want phone numbers, and info on the place and then find out I am not working for them, and then they will say I lied about it! I dont know what do you guys think?

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    Ugh, hearing stories like this pisses me off!

    It's none of their damn business what you do. It's not like you're selling illegal drugs to little kids. All they should really care about is whether or not you can afford to pay.

    I wouldn't have even used the terms 'adult' or 'webcam'. Maybe just 'model' or 'chat host' or 'text chat host' or something...I don't know. Too many people have a stick up their ass when it comes to nudity and sex. Sorry to hear that you have to deal with this nonsense.
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    Get a friend to vouch for you or set up a googlevoice and vouch for yourself. I have several numbers that I always keep handy for these types of situations. I'm getting my mom's hairstylist to say I work for her and I'm going to type a letter and forge her signature. I bought a receipt book for receipts. The reason I'm going to forge her signature is so I won't have to keep going back to her asking her to sign things if I need it.

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    I say I'm a stripper or a bartender.

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    Wow. That's just ridiculous. At least your doing something to try to get some income for your household. Apparently they'd rather have you completely unemployed. Gotta love the system

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    First of all that is an awful and ridiculous rule. Now how to get around it sign up for something like Odesk, and say that you freelance. Or say that you are an advertising affiliate. I hope you can get a place. It is awful and unfair the way we are discriminated against. *rage* Could you possibly say you're an Ebay seller?
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    I always said I worked as a therapist in a behavioral group and had bestie be my work reference/'Boss" give her your "employment start date,title,duties, and pay rate"written down I would even buy her a trac phone just for that purpose that she answers as a business if you want to be super covered.
    They have red flagged you though,apply somewhere else.
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    I would say I'm a nanny

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    Default Re: Can anything else go wrong??

    You can say you work clean up on a construction site if you have any male friends that work on construction sites. That would justify the odd hours and since many construction sites pay for clean up "off the books" the income can't be verified other then by say bank statements or letter from your "supervisor" (ie your male friend).

    You could also say you are a freelance painter and give phone numbers of some of your "clients" (again friends, especially friends with homes).

    I would apply somewhere else and preferably a place where bank statements are used to prove your worthiness as a tenant. In most places it is illegal for perspective landlords to contact your work place, but most landlords like to ignore this part of the law. Especially where I am from, most landlords like to ignore the entire "landlord and tenant act".

    What I do is get a vanilla job before having to find a new place. That way if the landlord asks I will be able to tell them I work at such and such office. However if and when they ask for contact information I tell them that "well according to the landlord and tenant act, contacting my employer is illegal. However I will gladly give you current bank statements and a references from all my past landlords. I have always paid my rent either on time or early and I am a clean tenant, and can confidently say that all my previous landlords and my bank statements will back me up as a responsible individual."
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    Thank you everyone for all the wonderful advice! I will think of something!! I apperciate it!

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    I like the Nanny idea!

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    In a way we are nannies lol. Looking after men, giving them all our attention.
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    just say you buy and sell on ebay or something like that, or if you really liked that place just tell them you are giiving it up and doing something else like the ebay selling thing, or the nanny thing. For the future i echo what some of the other girls have said, no matter what never tell anyone what you do for work, you never know when or how its going to bite you in the ass! xx good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by cbe313 View Post
    never tell anyone what you do for work, you never know when or how its going to bite you in the ass! xx good luck

    True! I had told this guy I used to work with (we messed around a lot) about my job, and time had passed, and then when I spoke to him sometime after that, he had suddenly become into Jesus, and he was running his mouth about me "finding the right path" and criticizing my work. LMFAO! Dude...aren't you the same guy who fucked me on your office desk? GO SIT DOWN SOMEWHERE with your holier-than-thou shit.....

    Also, the people who seem "cool" with what you do at first will later on throw it in your face when you get into your next argument with them. And they'll talk to you like you're some nasty-ass whore. *rolls eyes*
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    Thats true!! I am going to have to lie about what I do from now on!!...Thank you ladies! A lady called me the other day for the other apartments and said my name is at the top of the list, and we are wanting to know if you are still interested? I said yes! I am not telling her what I do either!....lol

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    yes never tell any of those kinds of people what you do for a living (especially anything adult related). i had a very bad experience when i lived in an apartment complex and the management knew about me being a stripper. the lady especially had it out for me and caused me a very bad experience. most people are prejudiced against sex workers so you just can't trust them to know what about what you really do. it's just a sad world unfortunately, as long your giving them money, that should all that matter. but it is just not the way it is.

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    I've always thought about making business cards, so that I can just pull one out and hand it to someone to shut them up about what I do. It would have partially true info on it (phone numbers, fax info), but nothing about my real job of course. It would say my name, with a phony business name and basically say that I do "consulting" or some other self-employable job.

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