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    Default Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    I hope this isn't a stupid question. I've tried to look around and haven't seen it answered anywhere.

    I have both vulvodynia and endometriosis. These are disorders with unknown causes that basically aren't curable. Because of these disorders, penetration is excruciatingly painful for me. I can't even use a tampon, let alone anything bigger.

    So my question is, is it possible at all for me to make money as a camgirl if I can't do penetration-based masturbation? I'm totally willing to masturbate on cam, but it would have to be external masturbation only.

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    Hi, nothing wrong with your question at all. I would say purchase a hitachi wand for shows. Guy will be so focused on the toy itself that they may not worry about the fact that you don't have to insert it. You can play outside or inside with attachments so yes get a hitachi and use that as your selling point.

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    Its plenty of girls that don't penetrate ......some won't even get Nude. And even Make Bank!!!!!
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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    Plus there are a couple of ways to make it look like your penetrating but not. You can still make lots of money girly =)

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    I have also dabbled in cam work and just like everyone else said you can for sure get away without doing penetration on cam. You can suck the dildo, use toys like the bullet or wand to rub yourself, and sometimes just dance around sexy while you are naked in private shows. Get creative with toys, props, and costumes. A lot of these guys have fetishes as well that do not include penetration... some guys like girls who smoke cigarettes, model feet, and even eat food on cam!! You can also think about doing phone sex too!!

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    I actually know a camgirl who has pretty bad endometriosis and she's able to be successful without doing vaginal penetration. She does anal and b/g shows with her boyfriend.

    I was diagnosed with vulvodynia when I was in college. It's not fun. A spent a year going to specialists looking for treatments. It was really terrible and frustrating. Fortunately for me, once I stopped taking my hormonal birth control pills everything pretty much cleared up. I found out later that some women have similar symptoms from side effects of hormonal birth control. A little bit of a threadjack there, I just haven't met very many women who have had a similar gone through that.

    But yeah, I definitely don't think doing non-penetrative masturbation would really hold you back in camming. You might have to put up with some guys expecting it, especially at first until you train the guys to know what's up. I find a lot of the guys I get just want to watch me do whatever feels good to me.
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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    It's easy to fake

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    I am not going to lie to you, you will get a lot of men who will be frustrated with you because you don't do penetration during masturbating shows and it will limit you and you will lose their business.

    But, by the same token I limit myself in my shows by refusing to do a lot of things that other girls do and had have men express frustration to me and I have lost their business -- but luckily sexuality is so unlimited in what turns people on that I never really feel the affect of their lost business.

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    I think you could do really well with non-nude or partial nude or tip-based camming. ESPECIALLY if you're young-looking. Seems like the girls who are popular in non-nude are all very young and cute and bubbly.

    Look into MFC and Stripville, doing a search on either of those will yield tons of results. Katie's how to search is a sticky at the top of the forum.

    You could also cultivate a fetish. Many fetishes have very little to do with nudity.


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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    I rarely ever do penetration! Sometimes once in a blue moon I will do it. My earnings never suffered.


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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    OMG, are you kidding me? Play up the "I'm a tight little virgin, and my hymen is still intact" angle, and you are laughing all the way to the bank. ;-)

    You have absolutely NOTHING to worry about. :-)

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    where in the contract does it say that we have to penetrate within the first 5-10-15 min?
    Got the money?
    Wait till I penetrate !!!

    same goes with the freeloading " show ass" thing...
    them" show ass"
    me : ok, I will
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    when?
    thats a different story LOL

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    Like said above, play the virgin card, play with the angle so you fake penetration or do fetish camming.
    Be creative and you can make money.

    goodluck and have fun!

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    I don't do penetration all the time. Heck I still don't even have any toys and guys are still willing to pay. Besides, there is always ways to fake penetration.

    Seriously though, if you look like you are thoroughly enjoying yourself most guys will be beyond thrilled. If your not *thoroughly* enjoying yourself, fake it. Fake it all the way to the bank.

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    You can absolutely cam!! You may just have to put in a little more work to developing your persona and figuring out how you are going to get around it.

    You can do all the "normal" shows but without penetration (hitachi, external masturbation, anal, oral, etc) - works well, and appeals to a broad range of customers. However, you will deal with the guys that are begging for penetration. Then again, even if you DO penetration, you will get guys begging for bigger toys, anal, dp, etc etc etc. So its nothing new or different!

    You can fake penetration. Less need to explain, but you'd have to put a little extra work into figuring out how you will do it - cut-off toys, camera angles, etc etc. And you'd have to figure out what to do if a guy explicitly demanded a penetration shot that cannot be faked. Depending on where you are camming, these guys talk - especially on MFC. You wouldn't want someone in the lounge giving your game away!

    You can do non-nude. This would be more work to start, as you are appealing to a smaller customer base, BUT that customer base is usually higher paying, so it balances out in the end. With all fetishes, you are working more for regulars and a built-up client base, so it may take a little time to get up to the earning level that you want (not that it is insta-money with any camming, of course). Depending on the fetish, it may also take some time to do your research and make sure that you really have a handle on the fetish so that you aren't just bumbling about on cam "um, uh, is this right? This is your fetish, right?".

    Bottom line - you can do it! Just figure out how, do a little research, and leap in! Good luck
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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    Well, right now I'm on non nude, but I also work on nude category on other places...I don't do pussy penetration never, I fake it (depends on the angle you put yourself from the cam and if the toy is very flexible) it does looks like I putting it deep inside my pussy, and all the time it has been out of pussy....just like lots of models fake anal penetration, but you can do anal if you wish and a lot of tease that's what I usually did. But like someone already told you, if you're very young (below 21), shy, innocent, and act like a cute shy virgin...you will bank, you said to guys I can't do penetration cause I'm virgin and I'm sooo affraid, but I like to be horny and play with myself can you help me in pvt?...some guys go crazy with this. Good luck on that one.

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    Thanks a lot for the advice, I'd never thought of just faking penetration, that's a good idea!

    I'm too old to pass for the young virgin girl. But I could do fetish stuff. I'm a domme in real life- I mean not professionally, just in my personal life because that's my actual fetish. I already know BDSM inside-out, so I wouldn't have to do any research or be stumbling around or anything.

    Though I'm not exactly sure how much I would appeal to customers on that front. Since I'm doing it in real life as my own fetish, I've always been focused on what I want, and what I like. For instance, I don't have a leather costume with high heels or anything like that...I mean, I'm the dominant one, why the hell should I have to dress up in uncomfortable clothes? If anyone should have to dress in uncomfortable clothes, it should be the sub! So I'm not sure how well that would go over with customers, since I'm not really used to accommodating what a sub wants, but I guess I could learn?

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    Default Re: Hi, I'm new, I have a question

    I have major issues with bleeding after penetration. I do use the wand a lot and it turns guys on. I also use a lot of smaller toys. My issue came up when I dated a Mandingo dick ...he was a great lover but the sex was always rough and in the long run I suffer. I enjoy sex but its hard to play with regular size toys and not bleed. I use the wand and a ton of mini vibes.

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