hey ladies, need relationship advice, a i'm right/he's wrong thing
been dancing for 3 years, smart funny pretty ect, knowi can make it on my own. have a pretty decint relationship or so i thought with live-in boyfriend, but regularly having fights about "my presence in public."
bf is constantly bitching at me for crude jokes and the way i cuss ect (usually when were at bars)...
sometimes he embarrases me but id on't say shit cuz i know that's just him and i'm ok with that.if he dosent like me for me too fucking bad, right?
let me clarify, i do cuss, but not in every sentense or at obviously the wrong time, when were out at bars for fuck's sake. THAT is when i embarass him.
i understand there are lots of worse relationship problems but this is a respect issue/hypocritical thing for me. i am big on respect in a relationship and i feel as if he is trying to censor me and change me for who i am, for how i talk with FRIENDS AT A BAR. and if this is starting now with something so little how much more crap am i going to have to change to amke him happy? i was never the proper pretty trophy gf when we meet and never want to be. if that's what he wants then why stay with me? that goes for every aspect of a realtionship and i feel that if this is how it's going to be then i'm not interested. like really, i am no different than i was when he met me and now he decides to have a problem with me?
*backround* met when he was bouncing in my club a few years ago, became good friends and live together for a year. family loves me ect. still dancing part time and haven't had a lot of fighting til recently, pretty much about this and about lack of sex (on his end not mine) know all his friends and they like me.... um yeah didn't ahve any issues til i started feeling like he wants me to change.
any thoughts? i feel like this isnt really ardcore bad i just feel decived/disrespected
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