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    So I came up with the courage to tell my boyfriend about this profession I asked him what he felt about it and I can beleive the response!! He said "well babe it doesnt matter what i feel about IT..what matters is what I feel about YOU and I love you" AWWWWWW! Im so happy and releived that he knows!! I have the best boyfriend in the world!!


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    The best boyfriend in the world would get on and make that money with you!!! see how he feels about couple shows! lool congrats though, i bet thats a massive weight of your mind! can be hard trying to find the kind of man that can live with this sort of job x

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    Quote Originally Posted by cbe313 View Post
    The best boyfriend in the world would get on and make that money with you!!! see how he feels about couple shows! lool congrats though, i bet thats a massive weight of your mind! can be hard trying to find the kind of man that can live with this sort of job x
    I think it's great that he's supportive of her, even if he isn't all-over thrilled about the job shes doing. I wouldn't push anything on him, haha.

    Yay! Marley I'm sooo happy for you.







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    Awww <3

    My boyfriend is supportive but wouldn't in a million years get on cam with me, but that's just how I like it. He can stick to being an expert in his job, I'll stick to being the expert in mine

    I'm so happy for you darling

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marleysade View Post
    So I came up with the courage to tell my boyfriend about this profession I asked him what he felt about it and I can beleive the response!! He said "well babe it doesnt matter what i feel about IT..what matters is what I feel about YOU and I love you" AWWWWWW! Im so happy and releived that he knows!! I have the best boyfriend in the world!!
    waw I am happy for you, your boyfriend really loves you !

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    I'm glad to hear he's supportive! I hope he stays that way.

    And yeah, I'm not sure I'd want a boyfriend on cam regularly with me either. I could see maybe doing an occasional video, and then offering it for sale. But being live on cam with a bf and having a bunch of bossy, picky guys telling him HOW to fuck me? Nah.
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    thats so great!
    happy for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by cbe313 View Post
    The best boyfriend in the world would get on and make that money with you!!! see how he feels about couple shows! lool congrats though, i bet thats a massive weight of your mind! can be hard trying to find the kind of man that can live with this sort of job x
    I have an amazing relationship and my partner is totally cool about me camming, but when we tried couples' camming then it actually affected our relationship badly. The boundaries between 'fake work sex' and our real sex got hazy and neither of us liked it.

    Also, slow times are much easier to bare when you're a woman. You can fake it and look horny. He had to stay hard all the friggin' time, lol, IN CASE someone would come and get a pvt.

    Sometimes it was slow for a long time and he was horny as heck from all the porn and really wanted sex but I was like 'no, not before anyone pays', so I tried to lure in custies as well as dealing with a horny bf begging for sex, not the best combo.

    Now he continues with his day job and I cam/make clips and we are much, much happier!
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    I am thrilled for you Marley, I know you was concerned about telling him, kudos for doing it anyway.

    Oh purr you been stealing my life hun? This is exactly what happened to us.

    Quote Originally Posted by Purrfect View Post
    I have an amazing relationship and my partner is totally cool about me camming, but when we tried couples' camming then it actually affected our relationship badly. The boundaries between 'fake work sex' and our real sex got hazy and neither of us liked it.

    Also, slow times are much easier to bare when you're a woman. You can fake it and look horny. He had to stay hard all the friggin' time, lol, IN CASE someone would come and get a pvt.

    Sometimes it was slow for a long time and he was horny as heck from all the porn and really wanted sex but I was like 'no, not before anyone pays', so I tried to lure in custies as well as dealing with a horny bf begging for sex, not the best combo.

    Now he continues with his day job and I cam/make clips and we are much, much happier!
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    Thats so awesome for him to be that supportive of you. Is it weird that my BF actually brought the webcamming idea to me?Lol. We do couple shows sometimes if someone requests it but for the most part he's awesome at blocking ppl for me(esp 30 sec pervs) and setting up my camera and cleaning toys and everything else I'm to lazy to do. Makes my job a lot easier
    Anyway sounds like you have a good guy..keep him!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missymissdemeanour View Post
    I am thrilled for you Marley, I know you was concerned about telling him, kudos for doing it anyway.

    Oh purr you been stealing my life hun? This is exactly what happened to us.
    Yup lol. Surprisingly, I was the one who decided to stop camming with him. For some reason, I got much more annoyed about us camming together and I also felt guilty when we wouldn't get privates, because I was on free chat by myself so I felt a double responsibility. It really started to stress me out.
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    Nice! you deserve it





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    Quote Originally Posted by GaPeach View Post
    Thats so awesome for him to be that supportive of you. Is it weird that my BF actually brought the webcamming idea to me?Lol. We do couple shows sometimes if someone requests it but for the most part he's awesome at blocking ppl for me(esp 30 sec pervs) and setting up my camera and cleaning toys and everything else I'm to lazy to do. Makes my job a lot easier
    Anyway sounds like you have a good guy..keep him!
    Wow he does all that 4 you !! damn you lucky
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    Quote Originally Posted by GaPeach View Post
    Thats so awesome for him to be that supportive of you. Is it weird that my BF actually brought the webcamming idea to me?Lol. We do couple shows sometimes if someone requests it but for the most part he's awesome at blocking ppl for me(esp 30 sec pervs) and setting up my camera and cleaning toys and everything else I'm to lazy to do. Makes my job a lot easier
    Anyway sounds like you have a good guy..keep him!
    That is awesome. I wish I had a boyfriend who would block those 30 second shitheads. Lucky!!

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    Thats great news :-)

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    That's awesome sweetie! Sounds like you've got a good one there!

    And GaPeach - my guy actually suggested camming to me too! I was getting bored with dancing, and he suggested it, and we researched sites together, figured stuff out...its great!

    There's always a little bit of a learning curve with how much you tell your other half - we're STILL figuring it out! He likes to hear about funny stories, or if I'm having a good money day, or new ideas and stuff, but we've learned that sometimes there are things that he would prefer not to hear (usually about regulars spending lots of money or buying lots of gifts, or really graphic stuff). Its always a balance, and its a good idea to remember that he may be discovering new boundaries too, and bear with him and TALK (a LOT) about what makes him comfortable or uncomfortable.
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    K that's the first step... now let's see how long it takes before you have him promoting you and filming your clips/ pics... and THEN going on cam with you

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    Its what every cam girl wants to hear from a new bf. Your so lucky. x
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    My guy kinda did the "its your choice but if you dont like it dont do it." thing. He knows about it but doesnt talk about it haha. He cant seem to get past the idea that 'masturbating' is work. Lol. So when im like ugh im worn out hes like why?? Lmao

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    Sounds like a keeper! See ladies - there are some good men out there


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    Quote Originally Posted by Marleysade View Post
    So I came up with the courage to tell my boyfriend about this profession I asked him what he felt about it and I can beleive the response!! He said "well babe it doesnt matter what i feel about IT..what matters is what I feel about YOU and I love you" AWWWWWW! Im so happy and releived that he knows!! I have the best boyfriend in the world!!
    I'm happy you did that, but no doubt it was fueled by the recent tax change on SM that you felt obligated to tell him. Am I wrong?
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    Oh not at all! I told him brcause hes been sweet and perfect to me and i planned on being with him for a while..I didnt think it was fair to lie to him when hes been nothing but good to me..But I was prepared for him not to like it and leave..with or without him ill be fine but I thought it was only fair to let him know

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    I was thinking about this recently and I'm glad I'm married and my husband is cool with me camming. I think it would be difficult to date as a camgirl, meeting new guys. I wouldn't want to tell them right away and have them not take me seriously and I wouldn't want to wait too long and have him feel like I'd been lying to him/her. Plus, sometimes camming starts to make me bitter and I start thinking that every man is a drooling idiot.

    Since "what do you do?" is like the 2nd question anyone ever asked, what did he think you did before you came clean, Marley?
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    It's nice to hear about things like this. My fiance won't come on cam with me, but since I have a hard time actually climaxing on-cam, tired out or not he enjoys the fact that I usually tackle him after a shift. If anything it gets rid of any worries that the "guys on the internet" are 'replacing him'. xD
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