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    Default RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    I know I'm thin. I know I have Courtney Love hair. THIS DOES NOT MEAN I'M A JUNKIE. Jesus.

    Does this happen to anyone else? What the fuck gives?

    I know I don't look like total crap, I make a lot of money at work and people often tell me I look healthy, ask what I do to be so glowy.
    I notice that mostly guys tell me this -- guys that I've rejected or don't have a chance with me anyway. Is this a way to deal with the rejection -- she doesn't want me THEREFORE SHE'S ON DRUGS.

    For the record I haven't done anything in almost a year but drink wine with meals.

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    You don't look like you're on drugs in the photo you posted. You look great!

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Muchas gracias ladies...I dunno, maybe its my mannerisms, I can be a space cadet. I think these dudes are just trying to get to me. :/

    Wait, there's review sites like beyond...yelp? Do guys review individual dancers?

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    ^They review whatever the fuck they want about the club; The chairs, the waitresses, the quailty of drinks, the quality of the handjobs.....

    "The cheap sofa's made my balls sweat"
    "Vanessa gave a lousey BBBJ, but for $40 I can't complain"
    "Strobe lights were distracting."
    "I liked their fish taco's."

    Some men name drop, others don't. Go check if out if you haven't before. It's pretty fucking funny to see the customers perspective on things, plus the lies that some of these guys come up with are hysterical! TUSCL is very popular....

    I've been asked if I'm on drugs before too. Actually, I think many strippers get asked this question; it's assumed we're all coked out anyway, so I suppose that makes it alright in the customers eyes? Asshats.



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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    I do know some girls who do the whole "crystal meth addict" look totally on purpose; they don't do drugs, but it kinda makes the customers "feel sorry for them".

    If you want, you can use that to your advantage...j/k!





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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Can you give a better example of how people are saying this to you? Is it jealous women too? Is it mostly the losers that hang out there all the time not spending money. Totally off topic but I cannot stand seeing the same guys in the club at least 3 days a week every week just sitting around not buying dances from anyone and hanging out all night long. Those type of guys bother the shit out of me.

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Because they cannot look as good as you, and want to tear you down.

    Humans are fucking awful.

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    They just want to tear you down. I have large natural breasts and wide hips and guys tell me I look like a man all the time.

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Quote Originally Posted by infectiousDelirium View Post
    They just want to tear you down. I have large natural breasts and wide hips and guys tell me I look like a man all the time.

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    From your photos, you're gorgeous babe! Fuck the haters. Most of the time they're just jealous anyways and just want to feel better about themselves by hating on others.
    Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Jealousy or insecurity. I find this is the main reason that girls are mean to other girls.

    Girls at my Middle School used to make fun of me, because I had fair skin and really long dark hair. They said I looked Samara from The Ring, which trust me, they meant as an insult, but now I realize how ugly (both inside and outside) those girls were and still are.

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    ^They review whatever the fuck they want about the club; The chairs, the waitresses, the quailty of drinks, the quality of the handjobs.....

    "The cheap sofa's made my balls sweat"

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    Some men name drop, others don't. Go check if out if you haven't before. It's pretty fucking funny to see the customers perspective on things, plus the lies that some of these guys come up with are hysterical! TUSCL is very popular....

    That site, & stripclublist (in Comments) are hysterical sometimes, worse than grade school guys!
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    I've been asked if I'm on drugs before too. Actually, I think many strippers get asked this question; it's assumed we're all coked out anyway, so I suppose that makes it alright in the customers eyes? Asshats.
    Yeah I super thin too, it's my thyroid, I deal w/it. People are jerks sometimes

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Yes, I've gotten that before. It was because I looked tired (maybe I was emotionally tired of my situation) or because I am a bit of a space-cadet. But once I started to "own it". You know... in my head "Yah, I'm a space-cadet and I LOVE IT", I haven't gotten than ever again.

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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Fuck all them bitches. I'm 30 years old. I am 5'5 and 115lbs. When I was 15 years old I was 5'5 and 117lbs. I'm actually 2lbs less than I was when I was 15. I've had 3 boys since I was 15 years old. I have ZERO stretch marks. My own family at Christmas would always ask "Do you eat sweetie?" I finally got older and fed up with the shit that my response was "Um, no, not really..I've went to the doc over 5 times this month & he doesnt understand why I'm still alive."

    =P Ummmm, helllo? Oh nah I dont eat...dumbass. Or I'm supposed to be on dope or something. FUCK, can't a girl be able to eat whatever the fuck she wants, have kids, have fair skin, be thin and NOT be on dope, anorexic or bulemic?






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    Default Re: RANT -- Why do people who don't even know me tell me I look like I'm on drugs?

    Haters are going to hate because they themselves are insecure. I get the "omg you need to eat" or "do you have an eating disorder??" just because someone is skinny with either a fast metabolism or hyperactive thyroid(which i have) doesn't mean anything. I used to get really hurt by it when i was younger but now I just simply laugh because i KNOW I'm perfectly healthy, but it does become very annoying..

    People are always going to pick at things about you because well people are just down right ugly on the inside.

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