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    Since I hear that strippers will never date a customer...I am going to tell a beautiful stripper that I would like to take out that I can no longer get dances from her since I don't want her to consider me a customer.

    Perhaps then we'll see if she'll go out with me or not.

    What do I have to lose?

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    Quote Originally Posted by pierremaller View Post
    Since I hear that strippers will never date a customer...
    Answered your own question. Unless you have the most dazzling personality and amazing good looks... I think you have your dignity to lose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pierremaller View Post
    Since I hear that strippers will never date a customer...I am going to tell a beautiful stripper that I would like to take out that I can no longer get dances from her since I don't want her to consider me a customer.

    Perhaps then we'll see if she'll go out with me or not.

    What do I have to lose?
    Lose? Nothing other than the dances you have been getting from her. You will actually save a lot of money by doing this. You won't be spending on her in the club anymore and you won't be taking her out either so it's a win/win from a cash perspective...

    Strippers will never date a customer? Sorry bro but this simply isn't true. Do you have a chance? I can't really say but I wouldn't get my hopes up especially if you are going to play head games with her. One thing I can tell you is that cutting off your money will simply put you on her ignore list. I've dated a few dancers over the last three years or so and I can tell you that I was a current and spending customer of all of them when we decided to see each other OTC. Strip clubs are not singles bars. The girls are there to work, not scope out dating opportunities. Some times sparks will fly and attractions will develop but that won't happen if you are the guy that she keeps walking past who isn't spending money on her. It may happen if you respect her enough to not waste her time and if you happen to be her cup of tea.
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    Default Re: Will this work?

    Well said, ^ but idk why guys don't get this!

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Well said, ^ but idk why guys don't get this!
    Well, to be fair, I didn't get it either fifteen or twenty years ago. I watched the circus and learned. I was a married customer for many years who never had any interest in "dating" dancers. I did make a lot of friends though and learned what works and what doesn't straight from the source.

    Most guys don't get it because they just can't understand that dancing, for dancers, is work, not speed dating...
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    Quote Originally Posted by pierremaller View Post
    Since I hear that strippers will never date a customer...I am going to tell a beautiful stripper that I would like to take out that I can no longer get dances from her since I don't want her to consider me a customer.

    Perhaps then we'll see if she'll go out with me or not.

    What do I have to lose?
    "Will this work?" ---- in a word, NO.
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    Don't forget to show her how confident and different from all of the other guys you are by throwing a couple "negs" her way. A few pseudo-compliments containing passive-aggressive insults ought to cover it. Wear sweatpants to show her you don't even need to "dress to impress." Remember that just because you're in there doesn't mean you have to condone what she does for a living. Show her you're an alpha male and offer to rescue her from her unfortunate lifestyle. Only suckers buy a lady a drink; make her pay for yours! Always remember that women are insecure creatures; an affectionate slap on the ass will go a long way towards boosting her confidence and making her appreciate you. Good luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    Don't forget to show her how confident and different from all of the other guys you are by throwing a couple "negs" her way. A few pseudo-compliments containing passive-aggressive insults ought to cover it. Wear sweatpants to show her you don't even need to "dress to impress." Remember that just because you're in there doesn't mean you have to condone what she does for a living. Show her you're an alpha male and offer to rescue her from her unfortunate lifestyle. Only suckers buy a lady a drink; make her pay for yours! Always remember that women are insecure creatures; an affectionate slap on the ass will go a long way towards boosting her confidence and making her appreciate you. Good luck!
    I see you met your SO at the club. I know it would work on me!

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    I'm going to try it and see what happens.....I have a lot of choices as far as dancers.

    I don't see this hurts anyone.....and it calls the girl out.

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    I'd have to say that 90-95% of the dancers-dating-customers relationships I've seen were based around the customer's money. And it was pretty obvious. Big spender, she starts dating him and IMMEDIATELY moves in with him, she gets all this new shit, then a couple months later when he starts spending less on her, she moves on to another big spender and moves in with HIM, etc. Some of the girls are probably a little less...obvious...than this, but then, keep in mind that the type of dancers you meet on this website are very different than the average stereotypical stripper.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pierremaller View Post
    I'm going to try it and see what happens.....I have a lot of choices as far as dancers.

    I don't see this hurts anyone.....and it calls the girl out.
    So what is it that you are looking for in the club? Is it a fun night or is it a girlfriend? When you stop spending and she stops paying any attention to you are you going to pull the same crap with the next girl?

    And "calling her out" for what? Has she delivered some sort of ultimatum to you? "Stop spending money on me and I will go out with you". Somehow I doubt it...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    "Stop spending money on me and I will go out with you".
    Dammit, you figured out my magical phrase that makes men fall gibbering at my feet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pierremaller View Post
    Since I hear that strippers will never date a customer...I am going to tell a beautiful stripper that I would like to take out that I can no longer get dances from her since I don't want her to consider me a customer.

    Perhaps then we'll see if she'll go out with me or not.

    What do I have to lose?

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    Dammit, you figured out my magical phrase that makes men fall gibbering at my feet.
    Your secret is safe with me...
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    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
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    Sophia_Starina is a sensible stripper...Naked all the way.....
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    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

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    Pierre - collectively, this source of knowledge known as SW is much greater and more accurate than that PUA handbook you just read. Everything you know from that book (or website) concerning "how to snag a stripper" is wrong. I can guarantee you that. In fact, you've probably learned "how to piss off and disrespect a stripper" instead. How many posters, both customers and dancers, have told you that pulling your $ will get you ignored? These people have no stake in teaching you a "method" - they have no money to make off you, no seminar they're pushing. They're doing it out of sheer kindness and the spirit of this site. You'd do well not to ignore them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pierremaller View Post
    I'm going to try it and see what happens.....I have a lot of choices as far as dancers.
    I don't see this hurts anyone.....and it calls the girl out.
    I'm going to call you out: You're delusional.
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I see it's that time of the week again where a delusional customer thinks if he doesn't spend money he will get a stripper. Sorry but it doesn't work that way. Yes it is possible to date a stripper but likely? nope. Every relationship I've seen come out of dancer/customer relationships were situations where the customer spent money. For some odd reason the majority of the guys I've known who pulled this were also ugly men who never had a chance to date anyway but dropped even that slim chance when they decided not to spend money.

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    "Call the girl out"? For what, doing her job? Your just putting yourself on the fast track to being awkwardly ignored next time you show up.

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    You'd have better luck if you tried the "I really like you - could I take you out to dinner sometime before a shift? We could come to the club together afterwards and I'd get some dances from you too! Think about it and let me know if you're interested. If not - no pressure." Then smile and and go about your usual routine. She'll let you know if she want to see you outside the club.

    I'm with BOTM - the only real relationships I've scene where customers end up dating the dancer is when the customer goes slowly, drops a shit ton of money, and acts politely all the way through. It's usually the dancer than approached the customer in this case.



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    That was my situation. He gradually became more and he spent money. I let him know I was interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    You'd have better luck if you tried the "I really like you - could I take you out to dinner sometime before a shift? We could come to the club together afterwards and I'd get some dances from you too! Think about it and let me know if you're interested. If not - no pressure." Then smile and and go about your usual routine. She'll let you know if she want to see you outside the club.

    I'm with BOTM - the only real relationships I've scene where customers end up dating the dancer is when the customer goes slowly, drops a shit ton of money, and acts politely all the way through. It's usually the dancer than approached the customer in this case.
    this.......if you really want to try it do it professionally. you have nothing to lose but, she will respect you even if she says no doing it this way. dont make it your way or no way. the way you say "beautiful stripper" just says your not going to get her in my eyes atleast. strippers are people too and need to be treated with respect just as anyone else. if she was interested she would of hinted someway, even if it was as little as getting your number and texting you "hey" with out asking you to come by the club.

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    man, I love threads like this. Their so up-lifting and assuring....

    Makes me hopeful that my pickup line will eventually work....

    'when your ready to try old and fat, give me a call'....


    hehe, I'm such a bastard..

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    Quote Originally Posted by pierremaller View Post
    Since I hear that strippers will never date a customer...I am going to tell a beautiful stripper that I would like to take out that I can no longer get dances from her since I don't want her to consider me a customer.

    Perhaps then we'll see if she'll go out with me or not.

    What do I have to lose?
    Dances from a beautiful dancer. She'll go where the money is like any smart business woman.

    Quote Originally Posted by simple(headed?)guy View Post
    man, I love threads like this. Their so up-lifting and assuring....

    Makes me hopeful that my pickup line will eventually work....

    'when your ready to try old and fat, give me a call'....


    hehe, I'm such a bastard..
    Nah, you're the same as everyone else. Even the OP. Same bull shit in a different wrapper.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Nah, you're the same as everyone else. Even the OP. Same bull shit in a different wrapper.

    Sorry, guess the sarcasm wasn't evident.

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