I was at a club last night being the hangout table for four or five girls who I have spent a lot of time with. One in particular is a new favorite and I really enjoy her company. I tip her well enough that she does not feel the need to work the room when I am there. This is a New Orleans club on Bourbon the night before Mardi Gras, so the level of drunk was very high. I had been sitting with her for three or four hours when another girl (drunk) approaches the table and sits down and starts talking to me. She proceeds to ask me "Why do I like that girl? She has a boyfriend? I'm a better dancer. If I took her in the back, she'd show me what a really good lap dance was, etc. etc. etc." I had no interest in her, but she wouldn't leave. So after 20 minutes of being polite, and trying to give her hints that I was not interested, I got a dance from her thinking that once she got the money, she would leave. No such luck. She plopped back down again. I have no idea how I finally got her to leave other than by ignoring her. I try very hard not to be rude, but is there some point where it is acceptable to flat out tell a dancer, "You aren't welcome to sit with us. Would you please leave." Would it be all right to get one of the other girls or a manager involved? I've never encountered a girl this pushy or rude before.


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