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    Default Your first lap dance?

    I've only worked one day so far in a club, and it was only 3 hours. I was so nervous so I ended up leaving early
    I only danced on stage once, and I didn't do any lap dances or anything else.

    I was just wondering what everyone elses first experience was like

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    I don't really remember it.

    I think my first sale was a 15 minute VIP actually, not a one song lap dance. Anyway, I was more focused on the money than anything else. I do vaguely remember the guy though, he looked like someone from the movie Hangover.
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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    I don't remember darling. It was a long time ago, and like Laurisa I was so focused on the money I didn't think about my nerves.

    My best advice if you're worried about it; just act like you know what you're doing. Men know that LapDances come in many forms and they won't notice a 'slip up' unless you tell them.

    Fake confidence and act sensual. Don't give too much to soon, don't let anyone take advantage of you. And relax.



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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    My first lapdance was supposed to be nude, but no one told me that so I stayed in my bikini and awkwardly danced in front of the guy for the whole song. I didn't even get near him, pretty much just stood there and bent over occassionally. Poor guy couldn't speak english, so he wasn't able to let me know!

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    It was ungainly, to say the least. I wasn't prepared for the chairs to have arms/sides and I nearly crushed a soon-to-be-married Asian man who was a foot or more shorter than me, given my heels. He asked me beforehand what a dance bought, and I said a dance bought a dance. When we finished, he said, "That's all?" I got confused and kind of offended. Then I found out that the club I was working at is basically a brothel and his friend who had plucked me off the floor assured him beforehand that I would blow him for the price of a dance, no questions asked.

    Unfortunately, that club takes your keys when you begin a shift, so I had to stay there for four more hours, and the night only got worse. Whoops.

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    Like neliana, my first dance basically consisted of awkward dancing while standing up and sometimes bending over. By some miracle, my customer wanted to get a second dance! I recall being quite nervous and he was very sweet, commenting that he didn't want to touch me if it would make me uncomfortable - and this was in a very high contact area where air dances just do not happen!

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    Mine was awful lol. I was too scared to try to sell a dance, so I waited til eventually the guy asked for it, and we went in the dance room. And I didn't really know what to do, so I was trying to sneak looks at the other girls, and I saw some of them standing on the couches shaking it in front of the guys. So I was like psht I can do that.... I didn't know they'd taken their shoes off first. So basically it was like trying to walk on a mattress or somethin in stripper heels - I couldn't keep my balance and I knee'd my guy in the face and hurt his nose. I didn't know whether to dance or stop so I kept going, and at the end he gave me $40 and I could NOT believe he still paid me. It was all better from there hahaha


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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    Mine was awkward. I used to do stage only, but had a customer offer $100 for a $20 dance, so was talked into it. I imagine I was pretty crap haha
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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    thanks for the advice about the couch and shoes, i probably would do the same thing. My first night when I was on stage, guys were near the tip bar so i tried to get down and dance near them and i ended up knocking over a guys beer. I was so embarassed

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    ^I always take my shoes off for dances, I just find it much easier to move around. Of course, I also always wear high socks, so my bare feet don't touch the dirty floor!

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    Don't worry, I've knocked over a few beers in my time dancing!! Both accidentally and not, lol


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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    Mine was terrible. Thankfully the guy gave me some advice afterward and it's stuck with me 6 years later as good advice: SLOW DOWN....words to live by lol

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    Honestly, I've had more people ask me if I was new after I'd be dancing for a year or more...I still get asked if I'm new every now and again. When you watch me on stage and see me wearing 7'' heels you'd think it would be obvious I'm not, but I think it's because as a seasoned dancer I have firm boundaries and I don't take bullshit. My witty remarks, firm boundaries, and ability to control the situation throws men off so they ask if I'm "new". That's their bullshit response when I say then can't play with my pussy. If you can play up the new girl card, do it. I never did, I always lied and said I'd been dancing longer than I had because I wanted to seem seasoned and I didn't want people to try and take advantage of me (something I learned about quickly..on my first and second day working). If you don't want people to know then lie and say you worked at another club out of state or far away, no one will question you. Stick to your story. Most girls will recommend playing up the new girl card, and even I do to an extent.
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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    It was for this Indian guy who couldn't really understand me, which is probably for the better. I had been playing up the "new girl" thing on stage all day, and said some line to the guy about him being my first lapdance. He misunderstood and thought I was saying that I was his first lapdance of the night, and he got all apologetic and said "No, I got a dance from someone else earlier, but I wish I had saved all my money for you." I just figured wth, maybe it's better to be considered veteran when giving an actual dance. I too did the shoes on the couch thing and the bouncer came over to tell me I had to take them off if I was gonna stand on the couch. I think I was completely awkward, but the guy didn't seem to notice. I sold 2 dances to him and thought that was "good" lol He sat back down where he had bought me a drink and I just left to talk to someone else. The rest of the shift he was staring at me like he wanted me to come back (and I should have since the rule is that if you have a drink with a guy, you can't leave until it's finished unless he sends you away with your drink), but I was too naive to realize I probably could've sold more to him. So I ignored him, and went home. Was warned about the drink thing by a waitress a few shifts later.
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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    Mine was in a V.I.P for a arrogant city banker, he enjoyed telling me he could tell I was new!, I just downed a glass of champagne and asked his friend if he wanted a new girl which he did!, his friend was much nicer and had a few dances, I never worried after that!
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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    My first dance was a lap dance with a really smelly, half- toothed, overly tan guy that was helping our handyman move a couch. It was his first time in a club and my boss told me he'd pay me to do a dance for him. I was really nervous and forgot to take my top off at first, but he was nice and he didn't touch me anywhere but the boobs lol. I pretty much just straddled his lap and moved around. I think I turned around once. Afterward I felt much better about the whole thing and wasn't as nervous about the rest of the night.

    It's good to remember that it doesn't really matter what you do at first. Customers know you're new and that's a sort of novelty for them. Keep telling people you're new until you develop a lap dance routine. If I'm in a 15 minute VIP, I take the first 3 minutes taking my shoes off, outfit off, guys belt off (so you don't hurt yourself), putting lap cloth down, and then standing on the couch in front of him. If you're in a 3 minute dance, take the first 20 seconds or so to get your shoes off (if you can) and get situated. The time goes by faster than you'd think. Most men don't care if you just sit on their lap. My regular always told me 'I can get girls to have sex with me but I can't get them to sit on my lap and tease me for 15 minutes.' lol That's all you're doing, teasing. If it would make you feel better, watch a tutorial on youtube. most of them suck but this one's ok.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NEuuSfp2Xi8

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    I barely remember it, but I am positive it was god-awful, and it's probably a blessing I can't really remember because I'm sure the details are cringe-worthy.

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    Mine was scarring in all honesty. I'm surprised I went back the second night. Just be ready for anything.
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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    First dance ever - I was chatting with a customer for a pretty long time about really boring non sexy things, and he was giving me advice about dancing and tips on what to do and not to do (ie, he said don't wear body makeup cuz it gets on customers' pants), then I randomly popped the question - do you wanna dance? And he said sure, and I was like really!? with a very surprised look on my face. I really didn't expect him to do a dance cuz he didn't look interested but was talking about these boring things with a straight face. Anyways this was a contact club and during the dance I felt like the guy was looking at me very creepily and everything and I felt very violated and disgusted. He went for a 6 dances too!

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    Mine was some 21 year old drunk kid who kept his eyes closed with his head back like he was sleeping the whole time. Pretty awsome! easiest LD ever!

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    Mine was ok! I'd read up lots of stuff from this site and watched a few youtube tutorials and practised beforehand lol. But it was with a fairly old pleasant guy, he knew it was my first dance so was very nice about it. Oh and it was a double with his friend and my friend so less scary going in the booth and could copy each other. Apparently i was shaking a bit though lol.

    I played up the corny line "it's my first day!" whenever anything silly happened

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    when i started the manager thought it would be a good idea for another girl to give me a tutorial, which really helped. so if you can kinda watch some without starring or if theres some really nice girls you work with just ask them to show you the basics.
    my first dance was with a old regular and was a total nide. i was so nervous and i remember sticking my boobs in his face felt SUPER awkward, but id had like mabey 3 ppl in my whole life at that point that id slept with and wasnt really comfortable with my body like i am now. just be relaxed, smile, take it slow. if you are having a nice time 99% chance the guy will also. its nervewracking at first but soon you'll be really comfortable with yourself.

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    I was alot like you, SashaRae, I was nervous and left early.
    I ended up doing one lap dance and avoided the stage like the plague cuz I had no idea what I was doing...lol
    The dude was nice though, very patient and polite.
    My second day will be tomorrow.....still have no idea what Im doing!

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    At first thought, I totally forgot what my first ld was like and who it was. Now I remember! It was a dude who reeked of cigarettes wearing a members only jacket. I played up the new girl thing and it was awkward as fuck. I had no idea what I was doing, it wasnt fluid, and it was mostly an air dance because I felt WEIRD touching a stranger! HAHA! After it was done, I remember getting the money and thinking to myself "There, now that wasnt so bad...OMG MONEEYYYY!"
    And it was pretty much like that on repeat for the next 6 hours of that night. I made myself stay for a full shift. My legs and knees were busted by the end of the night but my lap dances had improved a little bit. Now theyre awesome Practice makes perfect!

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    Default Re: Your first lap dance?

    I gave my first lap dance to my ex boyfriend at a dance in high school. I had seen someone else do it the year before. I got yelled at by a teacher. To be honest I didn't know I was doing anything wrong. I started dancing a few years later, but in a bikini bar. I made 180 dollars, which I thought was good money. I then moved to a club that had lap dances and I was nervous about getting naked, but after I did, I find that you don't even notice.

    My first strip club lap dance went pretty much like the one in high school. I asked about it and he said it was awesome. He came back a few more times and got a few more. So I guess it went ok.

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