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    i just started dancing 4 days ago. i'm also a burlesque performer, so it plays in my advantage that i'm used to being on stage. i incorporate alot of burlesque in my stage dance and it's really funny seeing the expressions on the peoples' faces but i just do my thang and i get very positve feed back, but anyway i had my first dance on my second night. it was this hispanic guy, and i speak spanish so that was awesome lol , he was super nice and i had been sitting with him for about 15 minutes and surprisingly he asked if i wanted to do a $30 dance. in the club i work at, a $30 dance is a topless dance. I was like HECK YEAH! So i got up and took his hand and made him follow me to the back. On my way to the back my manager stops me and starts explaining all the prices to me. The guy I was going to dance for was disappointed to hear that $30 was only topless, and then he said he would do the $50 nude dance! I was estatic lol. I thought I would have been more nervous but I felt really comfortable and in the zone. I spent half of the first song teasing, (gotta throw that burlesque in there ) then i started to just do whatever i thought would look awesome. I had my shoes on and he said, mamita, take your shoes off! haha, i had no clue you were supposed to do that. after the third song was finished, i started putting my clothes on. before i could even get anything on, he handed me another $50 and said he wanted another one! I was so happy haha. after I finished my next dance, i went and sat with him and his friends again. I came out with $150 on a slow night!!

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    AWKWARD. The guy was hot. I didn't have much space because the chairs were really narrow arm chairs. I kept worrying about running out of things to do and the customer being bored. However he kept grunting, which let me know that he wasn't bored at all lol. That's when I realized that most custies don't require very much.

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    My first was a VIP. I was so happy! I thought I was doing well but he looked all disappointed. I kept saying, "Tell me what you want me to do so I can make the dance better" but he just kept his mouth shut and then said he expected more without specifying what. Then he bought a LD off me on the main floor and halfway through he stopped me and said he just wanted to talk. Fine with me! He technically owed me two VIPs but didn't want to pay so when he told me he just wanted to talk I kept going until I got the money back for what he owed me. He tried getting out of it too but I wasn't having any of that.

    I'm hoping that when I go in again I'll be able to attract more people. I felt really intimidated by the night girls, going to go back in the day so I can practice more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pickled_alien View Post
    My first was a VIP. I was so happy! I thought I was doing well but he looked all disappointed. I kept saying, "Tell me what you want me to do so I can make the dance better" but he just kept his mouth shut and then said he expected more without specifying what. Then he bought a LD off me on the main floor and halfway through he stopped me and said he just wanted to talk. Fine with me! He technically owed me two VIPs but didn't want to pay so when he told me he just wanted to talk I kept going until I got the money back for what he owed me. He tried getting out of it too but I wasn't having any of that.

    I'm hoping that when I go in again I'll be able to attract more people. I felt really intimidated by the night girls, going to go back in the day so I can practice more.
    Does you club not keep track or something? Because if he did 2 VIPS that should be kept track of so he can't do something like rip you off.

    Don't listen to the customers during dances either. Know the rules at your bar and in your state so you don't find yourself in trouble. I mean unless it's something like he wants your hair in his face, that's no big deal, but you can find yourself being pushed by an undercover cop without even realizing it if you're not paying attention, and then you're the one getting busted.
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    I could have gotten the $20 he owed me but the likelihood that he'd get anything after I got management involved would have been slim to none so I picked my battle and it worked out to my favor (because I got more than he owed me for the VIP and didn't have to dance). If he had tried to get out of paying for my time again I would have turned him in for sure.

    About me asking what he wanted, I would have told him no if it was illegal or I just didn't want to do it. I was frustrated that he wouldn't even tell me. Like I'm supposed to read his mind or something? Haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pickled_alien View Post
    I could have gotten the $20 he owed me but the likelihood that he'd get anything after I got management involved would have been slim to none so I picked my battle and it worked out to my favor (because I got more than he owed me for the VIP and didn't have to dance). If he had tried to get out of paying for my time again I would have turned him in for sure.

    About me asking what he wanted, I would have told him no if it was illegal or I just didn't want to do it. I was frustrated that he wouldn't even tell me. Like I'm supposed to read his mind or something? Haha.
    He owed you only $20 for a VIP??

    And my point was asking leads to trouble. They could misinterpret it. But whatever.
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    Yeah I'm a little pissed with how cheap everything is here. VIPs are sold per song which also makes me angry but I know how I'm going to market it next time. This guy was a bit of a douche anyway, kept saying he didn't like the song and pulled the whole "I'm going to take you away from here and throw money at you" thing which is ridiculous because he complained non stop about how much everything was. Give me a break.

    I get your point now. I'll keep it in mind for next time c:

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    The guy pulled out his dick, and I told him to put it back in. I was kind of shocked (silly me). Than he asked me what bus he should take back home. I just left the room and went into the dressing room for a xanax and a smoke.

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    I think mine was pretty good. I think he bought about 4 dances. I'm a very sensual person when I try. I also read way too many posts on this site, so I knew what to do and expect. The guy didn't believe it was my first dance!

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    Fuck knows. Complete blank. Was definately drunk and cant recall any particulars. Bet it was shit tho. I remember dancing for a guy who passed out in the room and starting urinating in his jeans, kept dancing for him cause I didn't know whether I could stop or not, ha ha, danced on the other side of the room though- Classy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hottiecooteratti View Post
    i just started dancing 4 days ago. i'm also a burlesque performer, so it plays in my advantage that i'm used to being on stage. i incorporate alot of burlesque in my stage dance and it's really funny seeing the expressions on the peoples' faces but i just do my thang and i get very positve feed back, but anyway i had my first dance on my second night. it was this hispanic guy, and i speak spanish so that was awesome lol , he was super nice and i had been sitting with him for about 15 minutes and surprisingly he asked if i wanted to do a $30 dance. in the club i work at, a $30 dance is a topless dance. I was like HECK YEAH! So i got up and took his hand and made him follow me to the back. On my way to the back my manager stops me and starts explaining all the prices to me. The guy I was going to dance for was disappointed to hear that $30 was only topless, and then he said he would do the $50 nude dance! I was estatic lol. I thought I would have been more nervous but I felt really comfortable and in the zone. I spent half of the first song teasing, (gotta throw that burlesque in there ) then i started to just do whatever i thought would look awesome. I had my shoes on and he said, mamita, take your shoes off! haha, i had no clue you were supposed to do that. after the third song was finished, i started putting my clothes on. before i could even get anything on, he handed me another $50 and said he wanted another one! I was so happy haha. after I finished my next dance, i went and sat with him and his friends again. I came out with $150 on a slow night!!
    Just a tip, Always ask if they want to keep going, have morre dances etc. I never knew to do that at the begining. Fuck I'm drunk- my spelling is a treat!!
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    Hey ladies, this is my first post- been lurking on here awhile :-) Just started dancing last weekend. Woohoo.

    So my first lap dance was with a cute, late 20s guy who was with a group of bachelor party dudes who had come from canada. He seemed a little shy (as was i.. since he was def. "my type"), but when I saw him eyeing me; I knew right away that he'd be "the one", lol. The other girl was talking to the group, helped me a bit by pointing out the fact that I was new and needed to do my first lap dance. He quickly volunteered, of course; so I nervously led him down to one of the couches and took off my dress. I'm pretty sure he was more nervous than i was- he avoided eye contact and kept his hands to his sides in the beginning. I told him that he could touch me- said he wasn't sure what was allowed down here in NJ. Guided his hands (which i actually wanted on me.. damn he was hot! arrghh) and told him the rules that mutual touching of arms, legs, etc. is allowed. I tried my best to writhe around all sexy while half-standing, still in my shoes, and didn't really grind on him. Actually reminded me of dancing with a crush at a middle-school dance- thrilling, yet stiff and awkward! I think I was mostly worried about falling on him, or breaking some rule regarding contact. (silly me, ha.) I learned later that these rules are usually pushed with ass-grabbing, etc, and that heavy-grinding is pretty much norm.
    Unfortunately, since there's an all-nude byob club next door (we're bikini...ugh, this is gonna be an annoyance, stupid nj laws), his group left after getting their beer.. which is what a lot of the bachelor party groups ended up doing on both nights. Luckily I did get a few more dances with other guys that first night, and several the next night- when i wore shoes that I could more easily take off First guy I gave a lapdance to the second night, said he was a male stripper haha (didn't expect to get so many young hotties, damn..), also tipped me on stage, told me I was beautiful, smart, funny, etc.. I know it sounds kinda lame, and guys say that shit to everyone, but focusing on these compliments from him and other patrons gave me just the confidence boost I needed to to shed some nerves and make the best out of being new on a slow night. I think I'm gonna have a lot of fun with this job. Now I can't wait to go back!

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