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    So I ran across a thread in customer conversation about transexuals.
    Are guys really that adverse to it, even if they don't know about it? Anyone here worked with a transexual dancer? Pre-op, post op? Did they bank?
    I've never worked with one but I think it could be interesting!
    Especially since I've seen quite a few who look a lot better than real females!! LOL

    What are your thoughts on this?

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    There's a handful working at SR in LV, I knew one for sure. Funny thing is the guys couldn't ever tell, but you know they'd be pissed about it if they knew beforehand... which I think is stupid.

    There was one pre-op that auditioned at a club here last summer... I wasn't there but from what my husband says they were only skeptical until she did a trick where they could see her crotch... then it was pretty obvious.

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    Guys are freaked the fuck out by it. I don't get it either. But maybe that's because sexuality and everthing that goes along with it in any capacity doesn't bother me. You are who you are. Honestly, the few I've seen post-op, if I hadn't known, I would never have been able to tell. I don't even understand why it would matter if they're post op anyway. They're not male anymore, regardless how they started out. Anyway, the one I worked with, banked, but whether or not customers knew I can't say.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post

    There was one pre-op that auditioned at a club here last summer... I wasn't there but from what my husband says they were only skeptical until she did a trick where they could see her crotch... then it was pretty obvious.
    Wouldn't they get a boner or something if they got aroused during a lap dance??
    Was she fired on the spot??
    Last edited by _Avery_; 02-26-2012 at 06:30 PM. Reason: the wording sounded mean, didn't mean for it to come out that way

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Guys are freaked the fuck out by it. I don't get it either. But maybe that's because sexuality and everthing that goes along with it in any capacity doesn't bother me. You are who you are. Honestly, the few I've seen post-op, if I hadn't known, I would never have been able to tell. I don't even understand why it would matter if they're post op anyway. They're not male anymore, regardless how they started out. Anyway, the one I worked with, banked, but whether or not customers knew I can't say.
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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    Wouldn't they get a boner or something if they got aroused during a lap dance??
    Was she fired on the spot??
    I'm not completely sure on this, but I think many pre-op transsexuals take female hormones which make getting an erection more difficult. Plus, I'm pretty sure they'd have that shit tucked in and strapped down, so there isn't a bulge showing through the skimpy costumes.


    Plus, how often do dancers really get that aroused during lap dances? I mean, I guess it happens sometimes, but if I had a dick I know I wouldn't be getting a boner every time I danced for some schmuck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Natalllia View Post
    I'm not completely sure on this, but I think many pre-op transsexuals take female hormones which make getting an erection more difficult. Plus, I'm pretty sure they'd have that shit tucked in and strapped down, so there isn't a bulge showing through the skimpy costumes.


    Plus, how often do dancers really get that aroused during lap dances? I mean, I guess it happens sometimes, but if I had a dick I know I wouldn't be getting a boner every time I danced for some schmuck.
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    Plus, it makes it sound like them all of them are gay, which is far from the truth.
    The couple I know are still attracted to females and in no way would get turned on from a dance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    Wouldn't they get a boner or something if they got aroused during a lap dance??
    Was she fired on the spot??
    It was just an audition, and she didn't adequately tuck under her thong. They did turn her down, nicely though.

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    I've read only one post where someone said they were post op and had always passed but were having some trouble at their current club passing.... otherwise I kinda don't even care. I can honestly say I've never even wondered if someone might have been born a male. I just don't care/think about that and it wouldn't matter to me anyway.

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    I have had customers ask me if other dancers used to be male, I also had people spread rumors that I was. Made me wonder if it is nationwide (USA), backstabbing other girls this way?

    I think most guys are pretty insecure and feel threatened by the idea of someone who used to be male.

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    I don't think I've ever worked with a tranny but who knows.

    I've worked with girls I thought looked a little tranny-ish, and not in a chic and fun, good way, but more like, the lashes 2 inches long, lipliner drawn all AROUND the lips (????), fake acrylic ponytail 'aswinging....
    but I'm pretty sure they were actual women who had just taken all their makeup and hair style cues from SC land, gotten lost.

    I love RuPaul's Drag Race. I think Carmen Carrera would prob bank at a SC.

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    I have many post and pre op Trans friends.
    1 is active (has a 'working' penis) the others are further along their transitional journey, and some are post op. One was the highest earner at my old club, until she retired at 50! She was my mentor and Im so grateful I was able to learn about the industry and not be taken advantage of by the industry.
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    Quote Originally Posted by missykrissy View Post
    I don't think I've ever worked with a tranny but who knows.

    I've worked with girls I thought looked a little tranny-ish, and not in a chic and fun, good way, but more like, the lashes 2 inches long, lipliner drawn all AROUND the lips (????), fake acrylic ponytail 'aswinging....
    but I'm pretty sure they were actual women who had just taken all their makeup and hair style cues from SC land, gotten lost.

    I love RuPaul's Drag Race. I think Carmen Carrera would prob bank at a SC.
    'Tranny' is a derogatory term.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Addison View Post
    'Tranny' is a derogatory term.
    I had no idea. I've only ever heard it used in a lighthearted manner. I certainly meant nothing by it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by missykrissy View Post
    I had no idea. I've only ever heard it used in a lighthearted manner. I certainly meant nothing by it.
    I know you weren't using it maliciously, doll.. which is why I didn't go all psycho. Not everyone finds it offensive, but I just wanted to let you know that a lot of people are hurt by it.

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    i worked with a post-op woman who banked. i think customers knew and either liked it or didn't care. the harassment, from intolerant dancers and customers, got really absurd at one point and she's relocated since.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    So I ran across a thread in customer conversation about transexuals.
    Are guys really that adverse to it, even if they don't know about it? Anyone here worked with a transexual dancer? Pre-op, post op? Did they bank?
    I've never worked with one but I think it could be interesting!
    Especially since I've seen quite a few who look a lot better than real females!! LOL

    What are your thoughts on this?

    I do know that it is insulting to imply that trans women and trans men are not "real" women or "real" men. It is my understanding that most of them experience life as real women and real men and that transition is how they fix their bodies to match who they are inside. Anyone who is trans feel free to correct me if I am wrong.

    Someone explained to me once that it is like waking up in the wrong body except it happens at birth (waking up in the wrong body). And trans people just know it is wrong, but being born that way some of them just assume feeling wrong is normal (because they only know their own experience) and they assume that everyone else feels wrong too. Just like we assume everyone is like us and feels okay. And as they get older it becomes less and less bearable for them, because they feel trapped and like their lives are on hold, so they transition just to be like everyone else, just to feel normal and to be happy.
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    I may have worked at one club with one but not sure if it as true or a rumor. The dancer in question was very tall, very thin with a deep voice so who knows or if it was a sterotype. This was a topless bar. I wasn't there but one club I worked did audition a transsexual and rejected her because of it. Strangely at one club another dancer started a rumor that I was transsexual because I have arms and legs but everyone knew it was a lie.

    I don't know if they are still here but I do know there were a few that posted here. I'd be curious to hear their experiences working in clubs.

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    I guess none of the other dancers had arms and legs?
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    i like transwomen the only thing i can add is some would have a real hard time passing at all and some you might never know . and if she tells you it's a trust you should not share with anyone her life could be at risk by someone without a thought that we all have issues .... gender is not always abought how we were born sometime is's abought how we are inside .. and those strong enough to chalange who that are to make the "outside" match the "inside" .


    for her safty i don't have a prob... with her danceing as long as she passass ..

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    I personally wouldn't want that in my club only because I fear that if someone was to find out it would give my club a. Ad name which would mess with my mOney. Otherwise I have no issue as people

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    Quote Originally Posted by lifetravelergirl View Post
    I guess none of the other dancers had arms and legs?
    I accidently forgot to write that they said because I have MUSCULAR arms and legs I must be a transsexual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I accidently forgot to write that they said because I have MUSCULAR arms and legs I must be a transsexual.
    WHEW! I was wondering what kind of club you were workin' in! lololol
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    I think the main reason men go into strip clubs is to see gorgeous, beautiful women. They all have some idea of what to expect and the last thing they would expect is to find out one of those super sexy women was a man before. Straight guys, most of the time, freak the f out when it comes to other penis'. Especially if all they can picture is that hot dancer with a penis, wether or not they still have one. That's why guys usually run away from that in my opinion.

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