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    My long time gf is a lesbian stripper, of course the custies don't know it and she is a great actress, she is lesbian (not bi). She doesn't like to admit she is in a relationship at all when she is working, she feels it will hurt her money, I don't blame her. Her policy is, if it comes up (some guy asks her to hang out OTC or wants her number), she says she doesn't ever hang out with anyone OTC. If they persist, she tells them that she is in a committed and monogamous relationship. By then they usually give up but at times they still want a way to contact her "just incase things don't work out". These are the ones affectionately referred to as RFPDB (Really Fucking Pathetic Douche Bags).

    Anyway, I have two questions for the members here.

    1) Once a custie knows she is taken, does it matter if her SO is male or female? I mean, if a custie thinks she is smoking hot (which she is) and wants to do dances with her even if he is well aware there will never be any OTC meetings, would he think differently if he knew she was a real lesbian?

    2) If a "regular" who has spent ALOT of money on her (he knows she is taken, but thinks she just has a bf), finds out that she is a lesbian and was never attracted to him at all, what are the chances he will be really pissed? Even though he has not asked her for time OTC (yet), she feels this is where it is headed and he is one of those who feels that if he gives her enough money she will leave her bf and "let him sweep her away". It sounds like he is really falling for her and that, combined with the amount of money he has given to her, could be a volatile situation. We all know he is gonna be butt hurt when he figures out she has no interest in him, but I would like your opinions as to whether it could become more of a dangerous situation if he feels she lied to him the whole time and never even found him attractive. How would you guys on here feel about the situation? Have you ever experienced or have knowledge of a similar situation?

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    This is just my opinion & never been a Reg but my ex-wife still works in the club. I would just keep the hustle going, why give him more real info of her & you? There is nothing to gain from it?

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    Are we talking about a hypothetical situation here or does she really have a PL on the hook who may suspect that she is a lesbian?

    FWIW, there is a certain type of customer who spends large amounts of money partly based on a perceived "availability" of the dancer in question. Boyfriends don't scare these guys away as much as Husbands and kids do. If I had to guess I would say that finding out that the lady was a confirmed lesbian in a committed relationship would rank right up there with the wife and kids in regards to money being pulled. Of course, some guys will always think that they can "turn" her. As far as how volatile the situation may be that's hard to say. Your gf needs to use her stripper radar a bit here and try to figure this out for herself. I've had dancer friends who got stalked and harassed by creeps when it became evident that an OTC relationship was never going to happen but most of the time guys just pull their money and go find another dancer to put on a pedestal. None of the girls I know are lesbians so I don't really have a frame of reference where that aspect is concerned.

    Really hard to say but any dancer, regardless of sexual orientation, always needs to be wary when a regular gets too clingy, whiny or possessive.
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    your wording sounds like you want replies that lesbian dancers should not out themselves to customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    your wording sounds like you want replies that lesbian dancers should not out themselves to customers.
    ita & i'm not sure why this is what you're going for.
    If your gf has a custie she's afraid of she should move on, being gay has nothing to do with it, I think most of us are unavailable to most custies whether we're gay or straight.

    really though what yoda said is true. A custie needing something you can't give will suss out the situation, pull his money and walk.

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    I stay away from the scene so I'm a bit naive as to what goes through the head of a "regular", especially ones with a lot of money. At this point, he thinks she has a bf and won't see custies outside the club. The overall feeling is, is that he will eventually expect more in the form of OTC. Its no big deal if he stops spending, it will kinda suck for a bit for my gf but I think she would be a little relieved. I may be over cautious, probably due to not being around the scene much. I guess I'm worried about the psyche of a rich guy who thinks he can have anything and anyone he wants. Its one thing to be turned down and have to deal with rejection, its another thing to feel totally played and know that there was not one thing you ever did to turn a girl on, not even dropping a lot of money. Maybe I'm reading too much into it but I worry about weirdos like that and just want her to be safe.

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    Does she know you are asking about this situation on Stripper web?
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Does she know you are asking about this situation on Stripper web?
    No, I don't wanna talk about it with her in detail, don't want her to feel totally creeped out.

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    She is aware that I'm concerned but maybe I shouldn't be. I guess that's why I want other opinions.

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    Don't worry..she has it under control & who cares if your here asking? & like you said when his money runs out...there are always more...lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    Don't worry..she has it under control & who cares if your here asking? & like you said when his money runs out...there are always more...lol
    Thanks unbeleavable, I'm probably just over thinking it, we've been together for a long time and just want her to always be safe.

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    a customer is likely not going to get violent if she outs herself. most straight don't seem to be deterred by declarations of homosexuality anyway, so i wouldn't worry about it. the fact that she won't even give them a phone number sounds like she's got great boundaries.

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    Are you hoping by "Outing herself" your long time, lesbian girlfriend, will not be a Stripper any longer? Are you looking for a "yes" answer here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 7.62x39 View Post
    My long time gf is a lesbian stripper, of course the custies don't know it and she is a great actress, she is lesbian (not bi). She doesn't like to admit she is in a relationship at all when she is working, she feels it will hurt her money, I don't blame her. Her policy is, if it comes up (some guy asks her to hang out OTC or wants her number), she says she doesn't ever hang out with anyone OTC. If they persist, she tells them that she is in a committed and monogamous relationship. By then they usually give up but at times they still want a way to contact her "just incase things don't work out". These are the ones affectionately referred to as RFPDB (Really Fucking Pathetic Douche Bags).

    Anyway, I have two questions for the members here.

    1) Once a custie knows she is taken, does it matter if her SO is male or female? I mean, if a custie thinks she is smoking hot (which she is) and wants to do dances with her even if he is well aware there will never be any OTC meetings, would he think differently if he knew she was a real lesbian?

    2) If a "regular" who has spent ALOT of money on her (he knows she is taken, but thinks she just has a bf), finds out that she is a lesbian and was never attracted to him at all, what are the chances he will be really pissed? Even though he has not asked her for time OTC (yet), she feels this is where it is headed and he is one of those who feels that if he gives her enough money she will leave her bf and "let him sweep her away". It sounds like he is really falling for her and that, combined with the amount of money he has given to her, could be a volatile situation. We all know he is gonna be butt hurt when he figures out she has no interest in him, but I would like your opinions as to whether it could become more of a dangerous situation if he feels she lied to him the whole time and never even found him attractive. How would you guys on here feel about the situation? Have you ever experienced or have knowledge of a similar situation?
    The answer to both your questions is, possibly. It also depends on what lines she's feeding him. Frankly, taken is taken and there's no reason to go into further detail. Guys can be weird and have weird reactions to things. The less is known about her personally, the better. She should just keep making his money, when and if he wants OTC she should simply say no. If it becomes an issue, tell her to find a new reg. That should simplify everything. There's always more where that came from.
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    ^ This. My guess is the guy will get pissy, then leave, knowing he never had a shot in the first place. The fact that he's still around even though he thinks she has a bf may be an indication that he's hoping to woo her away with money, gifts, etc. If he knows she plays baseball and not football, well, he'll probably throw in the towel completely.

    Question, though - are there any behaviors, lines, patterns, etc that your girlfriend's customer have exhibited, specific things she's described to you about his conduct, that have made you uncomfortable?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kessler View Post
    ^ This. My guess is the guy will get pissy, then leave, knowing he never had a shot in the first place. The fact that he's still around even though he thinks she has a bf may be an indication that he's hoping to woo her away with money, gifts, etc. If he knows she plays baseball and not football, well, he'll probably throw in the towel completely.

    Question, though - are there any behaviors, lines, patterns, etc that your girlfriend's customer have exhibited, specific things she's described to you about his conduct, that have made you uncomfortable?
    He acts pretty possessive according to her, she is very honest with me and doesn't tend to over play things. He is a pretty big male chauvanist and I guess that's why I'm kinda concerned. He's a rich douche bag who will never deal with rejection. The majority of me says he will just start throwing his money at another girl to try and make her jealous but there are quite a few people up in vip that know she is lesbain and are totally cool with it. The problem lies in the fact of when he finds out and knows that everyone up in vip already knows (if he finds out), he may flip a lid. Not necessarily a probability but not out of the scope of possibilities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    Are you hoping by "Outing herself" your long time, lesbian girlfriend, will not be a Stripper any longer? Are you looking for a "yes" answer here?
    No, she amkes great money, its allowing her to open the business of her dreams so there's not much I can say. Of couse most SO wish their partner wouldn't be working in a strip club, its not a big issue. There are just times I think about her safety. I'm ok with her working there, I'm not ok with her well being threatened. Like I said before, I'm not around the scene that often and I just had some concerns and decided to ask about them on this forum.

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    Why should he ever find out? Who would tell him? If someone did tell him, she could just say that it was a lie to try to get his business away from her. (Maybe put it a bit more gently, though.)

    I myself don't care whether a girl is gay, straight, or bi, because I have zero interest in anything other than lap dances. Some dancers have told me they have a bf or gf, others don't want to share that info. My wife doesn't mind if I go to strip clubs, but I don't really like to talk about her with a sexy girl who is squirming all over my lap. My guess is that some dancers, maybe most dancers, feel the same way.

    So, if he asks is she in a relationship, she could either say, "Sorry that's off limits," or she could say "No I don't want to be in a relationship at this time."

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    I would like your opinions as to whether it could become more of a dangerous situation if he feels she lied to him the whole time and never even found him attractive. How would you guys on here feel about the situation? Have you ever experienced or have knowledge of a similar situation?
    With respect to your question in the quoteback above, it's very likely that she'll be fine.

    I'm having a little trouble understanding how a dancer who is 1) lying to a customer and 2) has never found him attractive is something to be concerned about. If it were, every working dancer would be in some kind of trouble every day.

    So I'm guessing that this may not be a club in the U.S. Is it possible that the club is in Russia, or perhaps it is a club in the U.S. where Russian customers go? In that situation I can believe that you might have an issue, if only because the gangster angle intersects with the douchebag angle quite often in these clubs, if you catch my drift.

    Please bear with me as I wander off into speculation, but while I understand that you are Russian, I'm scratching my head trying to figure out why you would be using AK-47 ordnance as your screen name. Is there ANY chance that you and your girlfriend served together in the IDF, because that would be an awesome story, just sort of on general principles.

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    No, I don't wanna talk about it with her in detail, don't want her to feel totally creeped out.
    Why would she feel creeped out? And why are you so concerned you're here asking in the first place? Has something already happened?
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    It's hard to say what other people would think or feel about a situation like this, but if her customer had a clue as to the reality of a club I would think there would be no issues. If your girlfriend truly believes, though, that this person will be a problem, maybe she should just stay away.

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    if he feels she lied to him the whole time and never even found him attractive. How would you guys on here feel about the situation? Have you ever experienced or have knowledge of a similar situation?

    Have I ever experienced this? Yes...everytime I walk through the door of a club.

    How would it make me feel? Like planning a return visit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by All Good Things View Post
    With respect to your question in the quoteback above, it's very likely that she'll be fine.

    I'm having a little trouble understanding how a dancer who is 1) lying to a customer and 2) has never found him attractive is something to be concerned about. If it were, every working dancer would be in some kind of trouble every day.

    So I'm guessing that this may not be a club in the U.S. Is it possible that the club is in Russia, or perhaps it is a club in the U.S. where Russian customers go? In that situation I can believe that you might have an issue, if only because the gangster angle intersects with the douchebag angle quite often in these clubs, if you catch my drift.

    Please bear with me as I wander off into speculation, but while I understand that you are Russian, I'm scratching my head trying to figure out why you would be using AK-47 ordnance as your screen name. Is there ANY chance that you and your girlfriend served together in the IDF, because that would be an awesome story, just sort of on general principles.
    I think the OP's question has been answered & we don't need to play the guessing game as to who & where. She's not a troll....

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    ^ I'm not entirely in the camp of "her" not being a troll -- I won't bore you with "the guessing game," as you put it, or what I found out, or what her writing clearly shows -- but the more relevant point I was trying to make is that location of the club -- what country it is in -- does in fact have a significant impact on the answers she is getting.

    In other words, the fact that she is Russian means that it's possible the club is in Russia, or that her girlfriend frequents U.S. clubs where rich Russian guys are the customers.

    Rich Russian men who hang around in SCs tend to be fundamentally different from most other rich SC customers in that many are straight up gangsters, who are known to knock the dancers around if they don't get what they want. The OP made several different comments about how she's worried the guy is likely to go off the wall, and she's worried for her girlfriend's safety.

    In most cases, I would not consider this a hazard. However, if they are rich Russian men who hang out in strip clubs a lot, my answer changes to, "yes, you may have reason to be concerned."

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    ^ Except that there's nothing to say she's in Russia, the post was written in perfect english, and apart from your "detective work" which has led you to a bullet round used all over the world at this point (I've used this round as I have an SKS I rebuilt myself) this entire thing is ridiculous and makes you come off as creepy. Please stop. It makes the rest of us leary to post at all.
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    ^ I've outed well over a dozen trolls over the time I've been on this forum, including some who turned out to be downright dangerous.

    She is not writing in "perfect English." It was the underlying Russian expressions that jumped out at me as I was reading the English. I can cite examples, but I'm not sure it's going to serve any purpose.

    If this makes you uneasy, I am sorry, as it certainly was not intended to be that way.

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