Theres a part of me that kind of feels sorry for her at first but seriously she should know when to quit! I'm sure he's really not worth it.
http://soundcloud.com/vaughan-1-1/th...azy-looks-like

Theres a part of me that kind of feels sorry for her at first but seriously she should know when to quit! I'm sure he's really not worth it.
http://soundcloud.com/vaughan-1-1/th...azy-looks-like
I heard this today... I can see myself in there a little bit! But really... that girl has no dignity!





I was laughing because it is funny but then again I've been the clingy woman (and had clingy men)so I know this all too well. Without knowing the specifics of these people I'm going to guess that they went out once (this part was mentioned), probably had sex, guy was scum but woman thought he was into her when he was into sex. She got hurt while he avoided her. In later fantasies of this, the guy gets used by a woman and pays the price while the woman gets self respect. I suspect the woman is the victim but she needs to do better than this guy who's probably a player.
The woman is not a victim, she's freaking insane. If guys don't want to be around her it's for very good reason, nobody wants a woman like that.
"Well done. Here are the test results: You are a horrible person. I'm serious, that's what it says: 'A horrible person.' We weren't even testing for that."





Of course she's nuts, especially since it was one date, but we don't know the specifics. Maybe the guy lied to her about wanting a relationship when he didn't. However him posting this online doesn't exactly make him a good guy either. She did need to move on from him right away because clingy people are disturbing. No, I am far from clingy now and I avoid clingy men like the plague but then again I don't lead them on like this may have (once again no idea the true story).





A part of me thinks if he had just texted her back earlier on before she went into a frenzy, to say hes not interested, maybe it wouldnt have been so bad..but then again, it might have just fueled her on even more. Does show his character though that he made it public...
I did have a guy who was clingy and crazy...I would at least reply and tell him it wasnt going to work out, please stop texting/calling/emailing me. He kept on and on though, telling me he cant believe Im throwing our relationship away (we had 2 dates...no sex either...I didnt even kiss him) and that Im not as nice or sweet as he thought I was, then flipped and said he didnt mean it, that I was the nicest sweetest girl he knew and if I gave him another chance, we could have a future together. Lord.
I reached my limit when in one day, he sent me almost 20 texts (all went unanswered) called me about 5 times..leaving long voicemail each time begging me to call him back, and emails with links to videos on youtube with lovesongs, telling me how they all reminded him of our beautiful times together (2...freaking..dates.) I contacted him one last time to say I was blocking him, wished him well...blocked him and that was the end of that.
Hilarity though is...my ex was really messing with my emotions, so during the time this guy was at his peak of annoyance, I saved my ex's number under this guys name, so that I woudlnt be tempted to answer his calls or texts. That was over a year ago, and to this day, the name Jim still give me the heebeejeebees. I was telling kiddo the other day that I need to start going to the gym, and I got this creepy feeling....took me a couple days to realize why...when I told her she was like yeah, no more Jims/Gyms. Even she is creeped out LoL
Don't blink. Don't even blink. Blink and you're dead. Don't turn your back. Don't look away. And don't blink!





Man. This is making me wish I'd saved the text exchange w/a guy I met one time at a comic book convention. He was a nice enough guy, I'd just only met him once. He lived on the absolute opposite end of the country and he wanted a serious relationship. I was a honest and straightforward as I could be. I told him I'd like to hang out platonically while we were at the convention and perhaps do the same in future conventions but I was in a serious relationship and I wouldn't jeopardize that.
We made plans to meet up the next day. I told him I might be working at a booth, wasn't sure if I could make it so if something else came up just go with that.
He sent me a long, running stream of "thinking of you, miss you baby" texts all day (while my phone was off because I was working). I was exhausted and plain forgot about hanging out w/him. When I turned my phone on to contact another friend for dinner I saw those texts and the long series of, "omg where are you?" "Ok since I haven't heard from you I told my ride to go home without me." "I'm walking around the convention center looking for you" "Where are you?" "The convention center closed, my ride is gone. I'm waiting for you" "I don't know how I'm getting home" "I called my ride and told them to come get me. This is your last chance"
I felt bad that I'd blown him off and I'm possibly deranged so I wrote him back and told him I was sorry. I asked, "How can I make it up to you?" He replied exactly this, "Tell me you love me and you want to be with me forever?"
Um. No.
I told him no and I explained again why not. He sent a whole series of begging, "Just try! I know that we're soulmates! We're perfect for each other! I love you!" All this from an hour long, superficial conversation we had about comic books while we were bidding on a charity auction?
I told him I wasn't going to talk to him until he got a handle on himself. For the next three or four days I got between ten and twenty texts a day that ranged from sad and pathetic, "whyyyyyy!?" to angry to passive agressive to faux upbeat and chatty. I never responded.
For several months after that I got one or two every few days.
Eventually they trailed off. I got another few the next year when the convention came back around but of course didn't reply and never heard from him again.
It's really unfortunate. He seemed like a great guy when we were chatting. He was fun and witty and he was bisexual, I'm all about bisexual guys. If he hadn't been batshit insane we could have had a nice little friendship going. Who knows what that might have turned into over time. The then-boyfriend and I broke up about 7 months after that convention.
That reminds me of this:
http://www.lamebook.com/thats-determination/



Sweet Jebus! Restraining order!





I wouldn't be able to resist texting her the following: "Hey, I haven't heard from you much, so I guess you're not interested in me. Oh well. I'm looking for someone really in to me, so I don't think this is going to work."
But then I'd end up dead and/or trapped in her basement.
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