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    i dont get it.. whenever i just get online straight outta bed wearing my bf's pj pants & a huge tshirt or while doing housework & look not so cute (sometimes i feel downright slobby looking lol) i do GRRRREEEEEAAAATTTT but everytime i actually spend time putting on makeup & doing my hair & dress up sexy & feel hot i end up feeling like shiit after abt an hr cus i earn just about NO MONEY.. sometimes i make myself stay on hours and earn $0!!!!!!! a few times i have gone & washed off my makeup, put my hair n a ponytail & then made great money after that!! 1st reasonable assumption would be that its my previous customers who dont like the change, but even new guys dont spend anything!! now that i am doing camming through NF i notice the calls dont last as long & sometimes i get hangups soon after i get on cam but when i look like shit i have calls that last a while..it's not even that i'm going overboard & putting on too much makeup & looking "Glamorous" its just that i'm spending time to make myself presentable & cute & still EVERY time my income suffers tremendously!! i have friends who are gorgeous, & they dont do near as good as i do when im in my pjs.. guys ask me "what are u wearing today" i say i'm in my pj's now but i can change if you like & 99% of the time they say no, its okay.. its bothering me because i am already a hermit & never go out but now i don't do anything more than showering & basic hygiene so i'm getting low self esteem & even when i'm going out with my bf i don't have the desire or energy to put on makeup & do my hair so then once i'm out i feel lazy & ugly :-( any of you notice you do better when you look "worse" or feel 2 down to even get cute?? i know most of you wont understand cus you get up & get pretty 4 the day but i dont know how to do that anymore without feeling bad for it..

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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    I've heard a lot of girls say that. Trend-wise, the natural look is in, the glamour look is out. But the glamour look will always sell regardless. Win-win situation either way.

    Play up the features & attributes guys complement you on. Look the part. Do you look 18? Play the role of the lolita. Do you have the glamour barbie look? Play it up and act like a hot demanding bitch. Do you look like the girl next door (on cam, most do I've noticed)? Act like it. Etc etc.

    You don't choose your niche. Its chosen for you. So I would suggest play up the girl next door role.

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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    I've noticed similar with stripping in a club. On days I wear barely any makeup (mascara and that's it!) I bank, but some days when I'm all done up I don't do as well. I would take it as a compliment that guys like you the way you look naturally. You must be gorgeous... maybe you could make two days makeup days and two days natural days? idk but it sounds like you should just keep doing what makes you money.

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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    Wish it was that easy for me! When I'm looking rough all I see all day is log on log off...when I put on makeup, sexy panties, etc I get hey you're hot..wanna go pvt? Or here's 2 gold for looking good lol
    Also if anyone wants to shorten makeup time try using a tinted moisturizer. You can apply it in 2 mins and still look great. I have good skin but the lighting can sometimes wash my face out so I use it just to brighten my face. I use that and blush and lipstick and I'm good to go!
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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    Men enjoy the idea that you're a "real" girl who's doing this work because you're bored/lonely (like they are). You're attainable that way. Glammed up translates as "high-maintenance" and/or "bitchy". I do better on my bummy days too.

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    I wish! I never did makeup or hair before I started my camgirl life and I just don't make any money unless I put an hour's worth of makeup and do my hair before I get on. I know this because I have already tried. I am so pale the camera just washes me out.
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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    Well, I dont use makeup, only lipgloss and sometimes eye shadow, but nothing else...I'm not a topmodel or bank or make huge money, but I do make private's and do get guys on the room sayin 'wow no makeup and you look stunning' or you look great, or you're so sexy and bla bla, some guys even tip just because i dont use makeup LOL. I dont have the barbie look, I'm even brunette latina with a gold skin colour. But =) like you, the few times I put on cam with my hair made, lipstick, mask, eyebrow, all that...guys like come in go out come in go out, but nothing more. So I have learned to put myself online barely without no makeup at all and my hair all wild with curly and stuff.

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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    I start hyperventilating a little when I think about exiting my bedroom without mascara or lipgloss on.... I only wear eyeshadow/foundation/etc. when I'm on cam but still, I can't imagine life without mascara or lipgloss.

    I fuckin wish I could get on cam without my "hot girl disguise" on. It would save SO MUCH TIME.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyx View Post
    Well, I dont use makeup, only lipgloss and sometimes eye shadow, but nothing else
    I'm the same. I have really strong features, and when I wear make-up I look like a drag queen- a kinda hot drag queen, but still, NOT the look I'm going for. I wear lip balm and use eye shadow as a faint eyeliner-anything more and I look like a parody.

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    thank you !!! same here, i really appreciate this post,

    i am not the only one who feels this way

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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    As long as you wash your feet and shower you'll make tons of money, bb!

    On a serious note, men are weird creatures. But if they like it - take it. Less work for you! Haha.







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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    I think perhaps men do like the natural look more than the over the top look or somewhere in between. I usually just shower, dry my hair, and apply foundation, a little blush, some eye shadow normally natural looking ones and eyeliner & mascara...now that I typed that it sounds like it is a lot lol but I've never really been one to go and put on neon eye shadow and spend 2 hours getting ready or anywhere near really lol. I find I have slow days and really busy days and that as long as I think I look cute so do they...I think the key is just being comfortable.

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    I love pj days!

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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    You don't choose your niche. Its chosen for you. So I would suggest play up the girl next door role.
    That's so deep lol. Its true though.
    BTW those titties are so distracting! lol. My bf loves seeing me post when they are on the page and sometimes we just get stuck watching them jiggle. Lol great gifs!

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    I am so the opposite. I need to be full "Bombshell" with stockings and super sexy lingerie and long extensions to make money. PJ's dont make me a dime sadly, I wish I could be more comfortable sometimes.
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    Hey, if that works for you, take advantage of it With everything camming related, different things seem to work for different people.

    I put on makeup but not anything over the top. Especially not blue eyeshadow, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosemary Rabbit View Post
    I'm a ginger and going makeupless means I look like I'm about to suck the souls of many....
    LOL totally know how you feel! Me too...
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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    my makeup process includes:

    -primer, foundation, bronzer, blush, highlighter, eyebrows, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara primer, mascara, lipstick, and lipgloss.

    I can be ready to be on cam in like, 20 minutes, and my makeup enhances how I look and makes me look flawless. I have noticed though that if I just put on some eyeliner, blush, and mascara I look almost the same on cam (irl I look much better, obviously) and I seem to do okay both ways. Even fully made up though, I still look pretty girl next door... just flawless lol.
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    Of course, it works for some, but I would never dare go in cam without plenty make up. I am fair and naturally it looks like I have no eyebrows. I also have freckles. Takes a lot to make me look normal! ;-)

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    I have a theory about this. I think the reason the girl next door look sells well on cam specifically is because guys feel more like they can relate to and interact with girls like this. I think guys like some flaws, or "averageness" because it's more authentic and less like a porn performance.

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    Well, guys definetely are a mistery, there's a girl model I know and she once told me, that she used to work at first at an studio, this girl have a very tight cute body and her boobs are naturally firm and round, no big but no little, medium I would said. And she said that in the studio the girl next to her have big hanging boobs like 2 grandma skin, and just because this girl with big hangin boobs almost in the floor told members if they want to see her hangin boobs bouncing she was banking there more than the other girls who have silicone perfect tits and even this girl with no silicone but with very firm round cute boobs...she was amazed, like who's gona think guys want to see 2 skin hangin boobs if they're soooo ugly, guys probably want cute, round firm big boobs....but there you go, the natural hangin big boobs that looks like grandma boobs was banking the others with cute perfect boobs have to work more their ass to make income.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyx View Post
    Well, guys definetely are a mistery, there's a girl model I know and she once told me, that she used to work at first at an studio, this girl have a very tight cute body and her boobs are naturally firm and round, no big but no little, medium I would said. And she said that in the studio the girl next to her have big hanging boobs like 2 grandma skin, and just because this girl with big hangin boobs almost in the floor told members if they want to see her hangin boobs bouncing she was banking there more than the other girls who have silicone perfect tits and even this girl with no silicone but with very firm round cute boobs...she was amazed, like who's gona think guys want to see 2 skin hangin boobs if they're soooo ugly, guys probably want cute, round firm big boobs....but there you go, the natural hangin big boobs that looks like grandma boobs was banking the others with cute perfect boobs have to work more their ass to make income.
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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    I agree with others that little to no makeup makes you seem more average and attainable. It also feels more naughty to see the "sweet, girl next door" getting sexual than it is to someone who looks like a porn star do it. It's like in strip clubs when guys always want dances from the waitress or throw more stage tips for the female customers who jump up on stage than for the actual strippers.... The typical "sex worker" look just doesn't excite most guys as much as the "average girl getting naughty" thing.

    Although I tried using this tactic once and failed miserably. I have to glam up a little bit to make any money. But if you can hop on cam at a moment's notice and bank, why complain about it!? Work that shit and be happy that you can use the extra hour making money instead of prepping.
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    Default Re: When i spend time getting cute i do WAY worse than when in pj's, no makeup, ponyt

    Thankfully my custies know (or knew, if any of them actually follow me to my new account) that I'm not the kind to get all glammed up. I absolutely play up my natural shyness, so the little to no makeup thing totally works for me. Most of my boys also seem pretty shy, so getting good conversation with them is a huge relief.

    I second the "less makeup seeming more approachable" thing, though. I know I sure as hell have trouble talking to pretty, done-up ladies. Even being pretty myself, I always get that feeling of "I shouldn't be talking to you, you're too pretty to have a conversation with someone like me".

    Then again, I have trouble talking to MOST pretty girls. D: Unless it's through text.

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