Yep. Oh yes he DID. I really don't know what to think right now. My husband gave me "permission" to do phone sex from home while he worked and slept. In all of this I wouldn't think he would actually post outside of my office and listen in on calls. He can't seem to separate reality from fantasy and says that when he hears me it breaks his heart. I'm not going to lie, several months ago he asked if I would stop because emotionally he couldn't take it. And upon doing this, I did say that if he wasn't comfortable with things, I would stop. Instead, I told him to go fuck himself and I was going to do it whether he liked it or not.Several times actually. Of course that backfired. I had been working dispatch and I have a few sites up that all ring to me at home. I've spent countless months, days and hours on promoting my websites and I used my dispatch company to help fund expenses for my sites as well as help with the bills. Not to mention hundreds of dollars for advertisement, backlinks, and web building. I would've kept going except it got to the point where he wanted to separate if I was going to continue. He tried kicking me out OUR house. Imagine that.
He says he's okay with me training and managing the business but doesn't want me to take anymore calls so eventually I will have to hire girls. The issue with that is starting a business is a lot harder when you have to manage others. This means I have to buy an LLC, a do business as name, work with tax forms, payroll, and above all TRAFFIC and much more. I had been using myself and a guinea pig and using a backup service to take calls for me while I slept. Thing is, I have at least 50 characters and no one to play them and not that much traffic so hiring girls is out of the question for at least another year. I hate companies who throw up sites and have NO clue how to pay their girls. It's more than just posting on a top site hoping clients will click and buy. I could forward all of my calls to the affiliate I use as back up but guys will be calling to talk to a specific girl and she won't be available for a very long time.
I know some people would suggest I divorce my husband but that's out of the question. That he's a control freak (which he can be at times) But, I can see his side of things, and he also works in very high extremes(government) so it would be less risk for me to do it. Apart of me wishes that I could be with someone who supported my work, just like I would support there's but sometimes the adult industry doesn't let that happen. We've only been married for 7 months and together almost 2 years so this isn't just a typical "well, he don't like what you do for a living, screw him" situation. I love my baby with all my heart, I just rather make money per minute than per hour. Also, because I've been working from home for so long, I wouldn't even know how to explain things in a vanilla job interview. It sickens me how much money I could be making while I sit on all these sites. They are direct dial, and the affiliate is mainly automatic dispatch. And my biggest fear is eventually hiring girls who just don't do it the way I can though I know I can train them. Any suggestions on what I should do? TIA!



Several times actually. Of course that backfired. I had been working dispatch and I have a few sites up that all ring to me at home. I've spent countless months, days and hours on promoting my websites and I used my dispatch company to help fund expenses for my sites as well as help with the bills. Not to mention hundreds of dollars for advertisement, backlinks, and web building. I would've kept going except it got to the point where he wanted to separate if I was going to continue. He tried kicking me out OUR house. Imagine that.
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