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    Default New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    So my club only has about 10-12 girls total. We're all pretty good friends, and we're always hanging around each other in the club and sometimes outside of it. It was actually funny cause we'd get our period all within a few days of each other so all you'd hear in the dressing room is 'can you see my string?' Since I started there in July '11, my period has come regularly, even with the addition of a few new girls. Early this month, though, my boss hired about 5 new girls and my cycle is messed up. I am now 5 days late and grumpy as shit. (I am not pregnant, so no worries.) What the hell? I guess I didn't realize how much the addition of a few uterus' would mess me up. I'm just annoyed cause all the other girls are still on their regular cycle. Does this happen to any other girls? What's it like in larger clubs? Do all the girls get their period around the same time or is it spaced out?

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    Default Re: New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    No there is no such a thing... U have a kind of mindset i guess. Club has almost 70 girls . normal days 20-30 for paydays up to 30 girls work usually.My cycle is pretty regular.I have no problem.

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    Default Re: New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    It is a well known phenomenon women housed together will synchronize. You might google for research on what it takes to affect the synchronization.

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    Default Re: New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    Quote Originally Posted by missplayful View Post
    No there is no such a thing... U have a kind of mindset i guess.
    Nope, there're definitely plenty of studies/research supporting this. It's not a mindset lol.

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    Default Re: New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    Ehhhhhh.

    Yeah. It is a fact that ladies in close quarters manage to synchronize their cycles. It's called Menstrual Synchrony:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Menstrual_synchrony and http://health.msn.com/health-topics/...hronicity-real

    That being said, stress, changes in exercise, sleep, or eating habits, etc. play far greater role.

    sexyscarlet, your grumpiness is probably a sign of PMS. A five day shift is annoying but I wouldn't blame it on the new girls' hormones.... I would guess that it is more likely related to a 40%-50% increase in work competition and an influx of unfamiliar individuals (a.k.a. STRESS).
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    I'm grumpy lol because I want this thing to come already. No stress, really. No competition, all the new girls are okay, but I have regulars. I'm just curious what it's like at other clubs. Do a lot of the girls sync up or does is not effect most girls?

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    I've worked at clubs with 5 girls per shift... I've worked at clubs with 25 girls per shift and I've never synchronized with anyone. /shrug
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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    I've never synchronized with anyone. /shrug
    Same here.
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    Default Re: New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    i've never had this problem before and i think this is a really odd conclusion to reach. new dancers are the only reason your period could be late?

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    Default Re: New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    It definitely happens at my club. I was freaking out when I first started working there cause I was late, but now I just line up with the rest of the crew. I've always been like that though, if I'm living with girls it's the same way. Maybe some of us are just more sensitive to it than others.


    Weirdness.

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    Default Re: New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    On Monday, a few dancers at my club were discussing this possibility. Apparently a lot of us have been having early or extremely long periods, or late periods. One dancer said that we're syncing up to the most dominant woman in the club, so now we're trying to figure out whose natural period started this week... :-)

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    Default Re: New Girls are F*ing Up my Cycle!

    To be fair, it IS a mindset thing, just a very well documented one. I fall prey to it (some times thankfully) quite a bit when I live in close quarters or work with women, such as in the club.

    Periods typically regulate within a year or two after getting your first one. Before mine fully regulated, I got pregnant and miscarried for the first time, which can (and some times does) throw periods out of whack even for regulated women. Very shortly after my miscarriage, I moved out of my mother's home (and effectively away from the only two menstruating women I was close to). All the people I spent considerable time with were men and a couple of non-mensing women. As a teen, I would some times get two periods a month, some times I skipped a month or two. One time that scared me was not having a period for SIX MONTHS! Was not pregnant, no sign of miscarriage, no explicable reason for me to not have it. Gyno said "since there's no obvious explanation or related problems, your only real options are waiting until your body is ready to mense or go on the Pill." I chose to wait and got it a couple weeks after that visit.

    First time I noticed a period synch was when my sister and I got close again in our late teens/my early adulthood. Over the course of about a half year, my periods began regulating and we'd mense within days of each other. Even when she got preggers, I stuck to her cycle until she became visibly pregnant. Since then, I'll synch with girls I'm close to in the club or women that I live with. lol, Last week, one of my boyfriend's female family members and I actually started within hours of each other.

    But, yeah, it happened with new girls effing shit up too. Normally, one or two new girls didn't bother us, but when a handful would start working with us at once, shit went haywire. Some vets got their's early, some late, some missed.
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i've never had this problem before and i think this is a really odd conclusion to reach. new dancers are the only reason your period could be late?
    I have always always always been on a set schedule. When I first started there I had a 31 day cycle. Now it's 33 to match up with the original girls. I just got it today which means I'm actually 3 days later (I miscalculated when I thought I was 5 days late) than when I was supposed to get it. I guess it is just a sensitivity thing. I've always sync'ed up with my dorm mates, mom and sister, and now my coworkers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    I've worked at clubs with 5 girls per shift... I've worked at clubs with 25 girls per shift and I've never synchronized with anyone. /shrug
    Same here i worked with 10 girls a night or 30-40 my my period is always on time...

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