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    Default Whatsyourprice.com Gahhh, I'm a friggin wuss!

    Okay, so I signed up for WYP and SA. I'm not doing so well on SA, most likely bc I put in my profile that, in order to take a potential SD seriously, I require $250, upfront, for the first date.

    Anywho, I have had several responses on WYP. I've been communicating a lot w this one guy who says he'll pay me $200 for a date. I feel BAD, though, because he says that he's really looking for a connection, and he doesn't just want to pay someone to go out. My last email asked him why he's paying to go on a date. Ugh...why can't I just do it and not feel bad. I know dang well that I'm not attracted to this guy, and there's no way in hell that I ever would be...I'm solely hanging out with him for the money.

    Someone please bring me back to reality and tell me that he knows dang well that I'm just dating him for the money, even though he says that he wouldn't do that...which also totally contradicts his membership to the website...

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    Default Re: Whatsyourprice.com Gahhh, I'm a friggin wuss!

    Preface: I'm both male and ignorant on this whole Sugar Daddy topic. You've been pre-warned! "So why are you replying then lestat1?" Well, ya seem troubled and no one else has responded yet.

    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post
    Ugh...why can't I just do it and not feel bad.
    Sounds like you have a conscience, which can be quite the party pooper. I don't know your financial situation or how much that conscience is worth to you. Either listen to it or toss it out the window, but it's really for you alone to decide.

    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post
    Someone please bring me back to reality and tell me that he knows dang well that I'm just dating him for the money, even though he says that he wouldn't do that...which also totally contradicts his membership to the website...
    I've never heard of WYP before. I looked it up and I may be naive, but I could see non-SDs signing up thinking of it as a chance to meet women they'd not otherwise have a chance to date in the hopes something would develop. I could also see SDs signing up. This guy sounds like he belongs to the former group. Maybe that he's not really a SD is what is stopping you?

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    Default Re: Whatsyourprice.com Gahhh, I'm a friggin wuss!

    Ok I agree with lestat there but here's the issue.

    WYP is exactly that " What's your price for a first date with ME!

    Most of what happens when the guy accepts your price and agrees to a date is this:

    After unlocking the date ( about 5-10%) of the date price the guy pays he now wants to "just talk" to this hot woman he finds attractive. He is about 85% sure that he will never pay for the date so instead he attempts to talk the girl out of wanting the money. So he'll start by "working on her" making her feel bad about wanting to be paid when that's exactly what the site is advertising. He may at some point meet you but now he's getting a bunch of free conversation and emails , and a free date too.

    See how you got played?

    Now think about this...

    If the guy was attractive and close to your own age you would probably date him for free. For the unattractive +older man he's not getting this as an option so instead this site gives him that opportunity. Then of course you have the guys trying to use this site as a means to find an escort or to treat a woman like one and I"m not talking " social escorting either".

    Most of the email and phone exchange stuff is to LOCATE YOU. It's not because he needs to talk so much to feel a spark. That man was sparked looking at your picture a while back. I mean this guy is looking for a real relationship right? What's wrong with the women his own age? Ohh he's not attracted to them huh? Prefers someone just below his youngest child's age. Aww poor him. But how dare you be paid to go out on a date with your grandfather. Shame on you! lol

    Chances are you given him all the attention he needs and he's been doing the same "poor me" dance with other girls on the site. I spoke to a few myself and blocked their numbers. Aww you're 65 looking for love? Aww how sweet. Want my great grandmother's number? Ohh no really? Why not? Ohh because you want someone young, dumb and sympathetic and as soon as I turn my back you'll be popping that viagra hoping to go for a few rounds? Really? Aww. You don't like saggy skin and dentures but I'm supposed to think that's hot?

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    Default Re: Whatsyourprice.com Gahhh, I'm a friggin wuss!

    If he doesn't want to pay for a date then he shouldn't be on a pay to date site. It's simple.

    It's nothing different than a guy going to a cam site to find love or a gf and saying " ooh but you just want my money" why can't you just call me right here in free chat.

    There's a girl on that blog that got played by so many guys pulling this same stunt. Guys showing up on the date not paying a dime and then saying ooh I'll pay you if you have sex with me , this was of course after the girl spent 5 hours watching this guy eat for a family of 10. Or worse the guy says ooh I left the money in my car and the girl ends up physically fighting the guy to not pull her into his car. Seriously some of the guys on this site are dangerous. I read some other girl got in a car with a guy and instead of taking her home , he ignored her and took her to his house. She was physically assaulted by the guy.

    I even spoke with one guy by phone that I allowed another person to listen in on. The guy goes into telling me that he's morbidly obese ( covered in his own shit and piss throughout the day) until of course someone cleans him, he wanted me to come over to his house and play with his non fuctioning penis since supposedly some other girl did it for $150. He called me a few times until I blocked his number but I had someone listen to him the whole time and the guy was in shock. Like wtf is wrong with the men on that site. Now of course this isn't all the guys but some of the older men. 50-60+. Also this guy started getting angry talking about women were going to use him. Really? So an attractive women 1/6 of your weight is supposed to want to just hang out in a room that smells like shit and piss for fun? Because you're just that cool of a guy at 60? Right because I'm taking advantage of you. Wow shame on me.

    He then said he was looking for a friend. Right I guess you ask men to touch your genitals too on this site right?

    Some of these guys have a warped sense of reality and as you talk to them you realize how far they've let things go.

    Another guy lied about his age and pictures and was dumb enough to provide me with his real email address that he apparently uses for facebook. Fail! It linked back to his profile with his 53 years of age not 37 and his WIFE AND 2 KIDS. Man had that he was single with no kids on his profile sporting pictures that he took back in the 90s.

    Do you still feel sorry for the old guy that's supposedly looking for love and doesn't want to pay for a date after he agreed to do so?

    You're not a wuss , you're kind and I was too. I tried to talk to the obese man and tell him what he was doing wrong. He corrected his profile and didn't get the responses when he only put " intimate encounters" , his real current pictures , and changed the "a few pounds" to " obese or overweight". So he went back to lying that he was looking to be a Sugar Daddy/ REal realtioship and how he planned to treat a woman like a princess. It's all bullshit but how does a guy in that position get to lure some sweet young girl over to his home for sex by being honest? He may find a few escorts but most don't want to fuck around with the shit smelling guy.

    All I'm saying is to be careful. Cut the guy off that's talking to you. He has no intention of honoring the agreement. Because he paid to open communication he feels like he's done his part. So many feel entitled to turn it into a just a place to talk to women. If the offer was never accepted then he wouldn't have had the chance. Cut him off. He's a time waster.

    Try again with maybe a younger guy. Also be careful about accepting offers from out of state guys. These guys are looking to talk for a long ass time and by the time you meet them , they probably will not be paying. I try to keep things local because I'm looking to date someone in the next few weeks not sit and talk for 6 months until they get time off of work to fly out. By then they'll be looking for more than dinner and you don't even know what they guy will show up looking like once he gets there.

    I try to set up my dates on the site directly. When the guy pushes for email I know something is wrong. When the guy pushes for phone again this typically means they have something off to say.

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    Default Re: Whatsyourprice.com Gahhh, I'm a friggin wuss!

    ^^^I've never been to this site but it sounds like you have a pretty good handle on how guys are manipulating the system there - sounds like an awful lot of work though - your stories cracked me up - thanks for sharing

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    Default Re: Whatsyourprice.com Gahhh, I'm a friggin wuss!

    I have had three dates from WYP and my much younger girlfriend has had five (which I set up for her). We've had no problem with guys not paying, but we ask for the cash as soon as we arrive for the date. Do that for sure.

    There are a fair number of guys who make an agreement for a date at a particular amount and then never contact me at the email address I give them. I don't know why they would do that since it costs them a few bucks. I've had one send emails and not follow through. But overall we've had decent luck with it. I never talk on the phone except to confirm details the day of a meeting and I won't let them rope me into endless emails. I say "we can talk about anything in person."

    Of my three dates, one was a nice married guy who was happy to pay what I asked at the end of the date to go to my place. Basically he wanted to get laid and he was going this route instead of finding an escort in the typical way. I hope to see him again. One was a younger somewhat clueless guy who was curious to meet someone like me with "alternative lifestyle" experience. He was really shy, we talked over a couple of drinks. I was nice to him, gave him fair consideration, but no I would not date him for free. The third guy was weird. He was another older married guy but he spent the whole date talking about the young girls (presumably hotter than me) who he was banging and showing me photos on his phone. Said he wanted info on the swingers' parties I am involved with. I honestly don't know why this creep wanted to pay me $125 plus drinks to stroke his ego, but I got paid so who cares.

    All five of the guys my friend has met were hoping she would actually be interested in dating them. One was much older than her and Eastern European and paid $200 in the hope that a young woman might give him a chance. Three were not too much older than her but were overweight and geeky. The fifth was young and attractive and if she didn't already have a boyfriend she would have seriously considered dating him. Surprisingly, he was the only one who offered more for her to go home with him. He deleted his profile the next day, presumably disillusioned that she wasn't really interested.

    My feeling is that the bulk of the guys on WYP are actually hoping to find a girlfriend, believe it or not. They are taking seriously the site's premise that this is a way of getting an "interview" with a woman who otherwise wouldn't consider them. The ones who are making offers to girls half their age, not to mention the married ones, are of course deluding themselves if they think there is any possibility of anything other than a sugarbaby arrangement. They should be taken for every dime we can extract. I do feel sorry for the guys who are not fishing for women who are ridiculously young or otherwise completely out of their league. They will probably realize quickly that very few of the women on the site want anything other than their money. Whether you feel bad about going out with one of these guys knowing there is no way you will ever date him is up to your conscience.

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    Default Re: Whatsyourprice.com Gahhh, I'm a friggin wuss!

    They know they are paying for it they don't want it thrown in their face, so if you want a certain amount of money up front then stick with that rule. the men who can handle that won't question it or try and dance around it.
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    Default Re: Whatsyourprice.com Gahhh, I'm a friggin wuss!

    I've gone the sugarbaby route --- again! I will wait a few weeks/or months to report my experience. I wanted to know also if yall thought it was worth it to buy full membership on WYP?

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