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    This question is to dancers, do you rather have the customer be silent or speak while you are giving the dance?

    I still get nervous and when I get nervous I feel like silence makes it worst! No I am not giving "The biography of HHL" but I will comment on things that later on I'll be all

    I have gone to plenty of SC, while girls are on stage I just stare, tip and whatever but damn it as soon as I go get a dance I get all scared! lol Pathetic, I know.


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    I dunno. I like it when customers talk. Usually, they compliment me, tell me how sexy I am, say things like "Ooooh", "Wow", etc. I like getting a compliment, it makes me feel sexy and probably improves the quality of their dance. The little "oohs-and-ahhs" give me some feedback as to what moves they enjoy... I can ascertain whether they are into tits/ass, etc. and gear my moves to fulfill their fantasy.

    Clubs are noisy. There isn't much that needs to be said or heard.... unless it is an offer to take me to the VIP room.
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    Default Re: During lap dances...

    i like talking. utter silence gets uncomfortable on both ends and if i don't know you well, i will appreciate any pleasant feedback.

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    Default Re: During lap dances...

    I like feedback, happy noises, small talk...Uncomfortable silences make it hard to know if the guy's even enjoying it. Although I've had a few guys that just sit there with their eyes half closed and a smile on their faces, that's cute.

    Ultimately though, it's YOUR dance. You paid for it. Don't worry too much about trying to impress the dancer, just enjoy yourself!

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    I'll gladly accept a couple of compliments, but I don't like when guys carry on a full blown conversation during dances. It throws off my sexy. I'm moaning in your ear and you're asking me which toppings I like on my pizza? wtf? TBH I don't wanna hear you say anything except, "Let's do another one."

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    Oh no I'm not at all disrespectful. I tend to compliment body, dancing and stuff like that. Thing is when there are private rooms where there are more than one spot for dancer and customer I often see the men (I'm a girl) all quiet, then there is me "Oh you smell so pretty" lol


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    I stay silent. It's the only way I can avoid making that wanton-drooly sound that Homer Simpson makes when he's thinking about a tasty sandwich.
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    Quote Originally Posted by High-Heel-Lover View Post
    Oh no I'm not at all disrespectful. I tend to compliment body, dancing and stuff like that. Thing is when there are private rooms where there are more than one spot for dancer and customer I often see the men (I'm a girl) all quiet, then there is me "Oh you smell so pretty" lol
    Haha im like that to when ever iv been to s SC as a patron.

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    As a customer Ill talk unless you make me feel as if I shouldnt. So for me the more talk the better. If you dont wanna talk I wont talk to ya but you girls that just dont make an effort I assume you dont wanna convo.

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    I prefer conversation, only because I like my customers and they're usually cool guys. If the mood is right i'll dirty talk your damn ear off, too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by High-Heel-Lover View Post
    This question is to dancers, do you rather have the customer be silent or speak while you are giving the dance?

    I still get nervous and when I get nervous I feel like silence makes it worst! No I am not giving "The biography of HHL" but I will comment on things that later on I'll be all

    I have gone to plenty of SC, while girls are on stage I just stare, tip and whatever but damn it as soon as I go get a dance I get all scared! lol Pathetic, I know.
    You're paying the money, so grow a set and get amongst it son!

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    Default Re: During lap dances...

    I tend to let the dancer take the lead. If she wants convo, I will respond and chat a bit. But most of the time (all the time) I'm there to pay for LDs. We have to have good chemistry as well, at least for the chat to be non-dull.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oz420 View Post
    You're paying the money, so grow a set and get amongst it son!
    Unless my vagina decides to have a strike and go male, it ain't happening.


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    I prefer slience, with eyecontact
    Theres no sense crying over every mistake,
    you just keep on trying till you run out of cake

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