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    Ok this is my first time working SM and damn I feel like an epic fail LOL! I have one private and made less than $5 b/c the guy logged off fast. Please tell me that sticking with this pays off b/c I'm ready to throw in the towel. I am actually laughing at this b/c I was on for about 3 hours on and off and made chump change. I'm gonna try to get back on tonight but wow it was so slow for me so far. I'm hoping things pick up. I will admit though that I had alot of fun talking to the guys and they were all respectful so far....didn't hear any fat remarks or anything mean so I am happy about that. I respect and admire you ladies SO much b/c trying to entertain and make money camming is SO hard and draining!
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    It'll be slow until your placement gets better. If you're using geo blocks that will negatively affect placement. Also there are slow days and there are so-so days and there are good days just like any other site. Just stick with it and also things will pick up once you get some regular custies there and they start to learn your schedule.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thatgirl2011 View Post
    Ok this is my first time working SM and damn I feel like an epic fail LOL! I have one private and made less than $5 b/c the guy logged off fast. Please tell me that sticking with this pays off b/c I'm ready to throw in the towel. I am actually laughing at this b/c I was on for about 3 hours on and off and made chump change. I'm gonna try to get back on tonight but wow it was so slow for me so far. I'm hoping things pick up. I will admit though that I had alot of fun talking to the guys and they were all respectful so far....didn't hear any fat just or anything mean so I am happy about that. I respect and admire you ladies SO much b/c trying to entertain and make money camming is SO hard and draining!
    I agree completely with Tsani but I've got to pick you up with the highlighted comment. If you were logging in and out several times for those three hours it wouldn't have helped, I know it can be boring sitting with an empty room for 10 minutes or more and can be so temting to say 'bugger I'll have a cup of coffee then come back', but this won't help pull the guys in or your placement. Most of the ladies will tell you they work in shifts, I do, I cam for upto 8 hours a day but break it down into 3 shifts with 1 or 2 hour breaks. Yes it is a lot but I cam full time, the prinicaples the same though, you need to be logged in to make the money. Make a schedule and stick to it, you'll soon see improvements
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    give it at least 3 hours at a time, you'll see $$$ !

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    I find that short privates are common on SM - there are those guys that will sit in an exclusive for 15, 30, 40 minutes at a time, but a lot of privates are really short.

    I find that that doesn't matter, because I'll end up doing these little privates back to back, and it ends up earning me good money. So I wouldn't worry about the length of a private, as long as the customer seems happy.

    As for not getting much traffic, or many privates - you just need to work at it, and be consistent. Sometimes you will sit for an hour and not really make anything, and sometimes you will be earning back-to-back for an entire hour, and come out with loads of money! I agree with the other girls - "on and off for three hours" isn't a great formula for making money. Sit on for at least 2 hours at a time (obviously if you need to pee, you can pause for five minutes, but I am never away from cam for more than a few minutes to pee, grab a new cup of coffee etc).

    Stick with it, and you should be fine.
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    Dont worry....for me today SM also had been terrible. I only made $10 bucks in 3 hours, so I log off and will login more late tonight. But tomorrow is saturday, and on weekends at least for me SM turns very good and usually I make the double or more than an usually make, so dont worry, you know how camming is...slow days, dead days, days so so and good days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    I find that short privates are common on SM - there are those guys that will sit in an exclusive for 15, 30, 40 minutes at a time, but a lot of privates are really short.

    I find that that doesn't matter, because I'll end up doing these little privates back to back, and it ends up earning me good money. So I wouldn't worry about the length of a private, as long as the customer seems happy.

    As for not getting much traffic, or many privates - you just need to work at it, and be consistent. Sometimes you will sit for an hour and not really make anything, and sometimes you will be earning back-to-back for an entire hour, and come out with loads of money! I agree with the other girls - "on and off for three hours" isn't a great formula for making money. Sit on for at least 2 hours at a time (obviously if you need to pee, you can pause for five minutes, but I am never away from cam for more than a few minutes to pee, grab a new cup of coffee etc).

    Stick with it, and you should be fine.
    Word to this. You're new, you don't have regulars, the only way to make money is get on cam and stay on cam. I can an hour without getting anything and then suddenly I'll have a 45 minute private from nowhere. The most important thing a camgirl needs is dedication.



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    Also - try other sites?

    Camming Connection has been SM central over the past 6months (before that it was MFC and AW... before that, indie and NF...). Since youre new put your eggs in several baskets as well so youre not trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.





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    Remember SM isn't the only cam game in town. It's best to have a few sites in your pocket. You're new give it a chance I know it's easy to become impatient but if you put in the time it's worth it.
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    Thanks for all the suggestions ladies. I'm gonna make a schedule and cam for at least 3 hours at a time and also look into other sites. I'm trying to put in major hours these next couple of weeks.

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    Make sure your connection is ok. I do worse on days my connection sucks ass. Of course they rarely tell you anything's wrong, they just don't get a show.

    Also learn to stall.

    *guy comes in*
    You: Hi baby! How are you?
    Him: ... .... "I'm good"
    You dance around and wiggle a little bit, "great! Me too! I like your [whatever]"
    Him: Thanks!
    You: So! What can I do for you tonight?
    Him: I want to see you cum
    You: Oooooh, I'd LOVE to do that for you baby! Let me just take this clothing off first!

    Slowly strip out of your outfit, dance around while taking it off. Describe what you're doing, ask him questions. He'll probably stop talking much. This is to be expected. If your question is fairly legit, wait for him to answer before you do anything else. Once you're naked, go through some poses, spread 'em, close ups of tits, ass, pussy. You're still showing him stuff he wants to see, you're just building the excitement slowly. Once you've exhausted this (or suspect he may be getting antsy) start playing with your pussy. I like to just use my fingers as long as I can because that's how I do it on my own. Usually at some point in this he'll ask you to use a toy. If he doesn't, you can always ask him what he wants. Keep doing it your way until he tells you otherwise.

    Adjust your timing if he starts urging you on but I find that, given the option, most men like the tease, slow reveal and slow build up. Some seem to know that it's easier for us to actually have an orgasm if we do it this way so they just let us "do our thing".


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    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren View Post
    Make sure your connection is ok. I do worse on days my connection sucks ass. Of course they rarely tell you anything's wrong, they just don't get a show.

    Also learn to stall.

    *guy comes in*
    You: Hi baby! How are you?
    Him: ... .... "I'm good"
    You dance around and wiggle a little bit, "great! Me too! I like your [whatever]"
    Him: Thanks!
    You: So! What can I do for you tonight?
    Him: I want to see you cum
    You: Oooooh, I'd LOVE to do that for you baby! Let me just take this clothing off first!

    Slowly strip out of your outfit, dance around while taking it off. Describe what you're doing, ask him questions. He'll probably stop talking much. This is to be expected. If your question is fairly legit, wait for him to answer before you do anything else. Once you're naked, go through some poses, spread 'em, close ups of tits, ass, pussy. You're still showing him stuff he wants to see, you're just building the excitement slowly. Once you've exhausted this (or suspect he may be getting antsy) start playing with your pussy. I like to just use my fingers as long as I can because that's how I do it on my own. Usually at some point in this he'll ask you to use a toy. If he doesn't, you can always ask him what he wants. Keep doing it your way until he tells you otherwise.

    Adjust your timing if he starts urging you on but I find that, given the option, most men like the tease, slow reveal and slow build up. Some seem to know that it's easier for us to actually have an orgasm if we do it this way so they just let us "do our thing".
    OMG I love you for writing this! TY =) I do couples mainly but I need to work on my mojo with doing my solo girls accounts. I used to jump right in it. Stick the toy right in and start pounding. lol This advise is SPOT ON. I know this because after doing couples iwth my hubby for 6 months...when we would get in pvt sometimes the guy wouldnt even say anything. My hubby would wisper "lets do anal" or something..just to change up. And we would. (I'd listen..lol) and they would leave. lol So finally I started telling him. "If they dont TELL us to change what were doing...keep doing what we are doing!" And they really started STAYING longer! Really!! I feel unless they ASK for us to do something in perticular or to change up..if they are staying..keep on doing what ever the hell your doing! Great advice Isobel =)






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    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren View Post
    *words*
    Echoing BabyLove's thank you! This is amazing stuff! I've been trying to figure out how I can stall for more time and there's a couple of things in here I hadn't thought about. Now I just gotta figure out how to adapt that to being stuck on my bed.



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    IsobelWren have you been watching me ??? huh ??? lol ;P

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    Ok, if you are not doing well, this is what I suggest you try, in order of how you should try it:

    1.) check your cam and sound quality and make it the best you possibly can. Cam quality is SO important, imo.

    2.) make a schedule and stick to it, be on for at least a couple hours a day

    3.) try to be pleasant and upbeat and flirty in free chat. Don't be one of those girls that looks sulky and bitches about nobody spending. You don't have to exhaust yourself, but try to get to know the guys a little bit. Don't let them boss you around for freebies, let them know they can either take you private or you can show them boobs for __ gold, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyLove1981 View Post
    OMG I love you for writing this! TY =) I do couples mainly but I need to work on my mojo with doing my solo girls accounts. I used to jump right in it. Stick the toy right in and start pounding. lol This advise is SPOT ON. I know this because after doing couples iwth my hubby for 6 months...when we would get in pvt sometimes the guy wouldnt even say anything. My hubby would wisper "lets do anal" or something..just to change up. And we would. (I'd listen..lol) and they would leave. lol So finally I started telling him. "If they dont TELL us to change what were doing...keep doing what we are doing!" And they really started STAYING longer! Really!! I feel unless they ASK for us to do something in perticular or to change up..if they are staying..keep on doing what ever the hell your doing! Great advice Isobel =)
    I'm thinking about doing couple show's do u and ur husband use a laptop? If so how do you keep the customer's happy with angle's and such? I know some of them want close ups like porn shots lol. I currently only have a lap top. Thanx in advance 4 ur help

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    You are not the only one so don't feel bad! We all have those days no matter how long you've been camming. I made nothing last night but the afternoon was decent. Thank God for some of my lovely regulars.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigsoftandwet1 View Post
    I'm thinking about doing couple show's do u and ur husband use a laptop? If so how do you keep the customer's happy with angle's and such? I know some of them want close ups like porn shots lol. I currently only have a lap top. Thanx in advance 4 ur help
    We use our desk top computer becuase our stream wasn't as good using our lap top, but ours was pretty old. Sometimes we both just sit at our desk so the cam is pretty close anyway so they all the zooms they could ask for. lol I've pretty mastered zoom doggy by hiking left leg up and pooching my rear out slightly. He is 6'1 so its perfect for us. They see EVERYTHING. REALLy close. lol ANAL, all of it. =) As far as bed angles, he made a make shift roll around cam holder. Out of something like this: http://www.homedepot.com/Electrical-...&storeId=10051 But without the lights on top. We already had one but with wheels since he owns his own construction biz. =P He attached a peice of long wood molding to the top where I cam attaches perfectly. We can roll it around all over the bed from the sides, to the top of the bed. We then just keep our cam settings open so we can zoom and all with our wireless mouse. It's still harder to get the "insertion" zooms, but practice makes perfect! We do alot of riding ass to cam or reverse cowgirl so it works. Hope this helps!






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    You have to work longer when you start out. I have to work about 5 hours a day. My placement isn't very good even with geo-block off. Just gotta deal with long hours.

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    Emoting- emote sexuality, sexy,bitchy, cute, sensual or whatever your thing is. This does take energy, when I emote how hot & horny, how dare they resist me. I bank. It is a look, an emotion, you dont even have to say a word. I refuse to talk dirty in public.

    This is something you have to learn to develop.

    Take your time, lots of my customers love the tease. It brings them back time & time again. I dont tolerate customers who are like hurry up & fuck yourself with the biggest toy, cause I am not the girl for them. Sometimes you have train your customers. This makes them better customers for all the girls.

    Remember ladies it is your show to run.

    Newbies need to remember there is a learning curve of what works for each individual gal. Everyday is a new day to perfect your hustle or game.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Emoting- emote sexuality, sexy,bitchy, cute, sensual or whatever your thing is. This does take energy, when I emote how hot & horny, how dare they resist me. I bank. It is a look, an emotion, you dont even have to say a word. I refuse to talk dirty in public.

    This is something you have to learn to develop.

    Take your time, lots of my customers love the tease. It brings them back time & time again. I dont tolerate customers who are like hurry up & fuck yourself with the biggest toy, cause I am not the girl for them. Sometimes you have train your customers. This makes them better customers for all the girls.

    Remember ladies it is your show to run.

    Newbies need to remember there is a learning curve of what works for each individual gal. Everyday is a new day to perfect your hustle or game.

    Good Luck,
    Sam
    YES - esepcially to the emoting! It does take a lot out of you, but it works so well - I work so hard to keep my energy "up", and it really does make a difference. It can be hard to keep it up when you are new and not making a lot, so try to find ways to help keep you feeling energetic, and not just sitting around looking disappointed and dull - I use coffee (or green tea - loves me caffeine!), change up the music till I find something that gives me a buzz, wear an outfit that I am excited about showing off, and think sexy thoughts. Any time that there is no one in my room, I am flipping through the mental wank-bank to get myself all turned on!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyLove1981 View Post
    We use our desk top computer becuase our stream wasn't as good using our lap top, but ours was pretty old. Sometimes we both just sit at our desk so the cam is pretty close anyway so they all the zooms they could ask for. lol I've pretty mastered zoom doggy by hiking left leg up and pooching my rear out slightly. He is 6'1 so its perfect for us. They see EVERYTHING. REALLy close. lol ANAL, all of it. =) As far as bed angles, he made a make shift roll around cam holder. Out of something like this: http://www.homedepot.com/Electrical-...&storeId=10051 But without the lights on top. We already had one but with wheels since he owns his own construction biz. =P He attached a peice of long wood molding to the top where I cam attaches perfectly. We can roll it around all over the bed from the sides, to the top of the bed. We then just keep our cam settings open so we can zoom and all with our wireless mouse. It's still harder to get the "insertion" zooms, but practice makes perfect! We do alot of riding ass to cam or reverse cowgirl so it works. Hope this helps!
    wow... i say again damn all i got is a laptop lol... but thank u so much, seems like u got it 2gether 4 real

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    also, just to add, we are going through a dry spell right now. it will pick up again end of march.

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    I used to think I had to jump right into it. But remember, on SM at least, guys aren't even PAYING for the first 30 seconds. So take some time to tease them, ask them what they like, etc.

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