Lately I've been coming across men who start putting their hands on me as soon as I walk up to them and introduce myself. I usually back away and guide their hands off me. It's becoming really irritating especially when they sneak a pat on my ass as I walk away. How do you handle men like this?
Last night was somewhat traumatic for me. I went to a club that I work at every now and then..about once every other month. I came up to this guy at the bar, chatted for a couple minutes, asked him for a dance which he declined. He tipped me two dollars which he slipped into my bra. His finger brushed against my nipple and he peeked into my bra when he felt my nipple ring. This asshole tapped me on the ass and I tried to let it go. A couple minutes later I asked him if he wanted a dance since he started being handsy but he just rolled his eyes at me. I took his ashtray with his cigar ashes in it and threw it at him and told him not to fucking touch me again. Right after, the fucker hit me in the back of my shoulder! I was frozen in shock that I didn't know what to do or say. He ended up walking out and the manager had a talk with him. What's worse, besides him hitting me of course, is that he is a regular at my home club!
I'm about to start carrying pepper spray in my bag. Who the fuck do these assholes think they are? How did you handle similar situations? I don't know if I should go back to the club he's a regular at.



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When I'm walking through the club, I cover my crotch with the handbag. Always be guarded and remember when a guy says 'trust me' at the club - it means be extra vigilant!

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