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    I have been watching a foolish trend.....Strange very focused posts.

    Let me start to debate about the Camming sections weird posts

    Fact is , Do you wonder why some have a problem with others points of views?

    Answers :
    1. Some of us know that too detailed of a post is counter-productive to earning
    2. For every person we help...we are helping 20 studios
    3. Its not intelligent to open your financial books to strangers or post it on a Billboard (SW)
    4. If its a worthwhile answer isn't it worth a lil small amount of work?
    5. Do you feel helping a "Fly by night" cammer is worth helping?
    Truth is ....these studios are under mining our earnings.....by providing people who don't care or take this industry seriously a foot hold to under sell us.... they don't have internet bills ,rent , morals .

    Even right now a 3rd U.S. Based studio has opened up on SM with I am sorry to say " Street walkers" filling their ranks.

    And trust me they are reading.

    Edited: Because I forgot this part///.....let me put this in you purse
    Someone asks 'in various ways' How much do you earn?
    Why would they ask that....? Some are just curious ...But fact is that they might want to know ....Just so they can Clone you...aka copy your style.
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    So very true MZ. I am glad someone said it. You know we have all been thinking it
    Isn't there a verified cam girl section where we could post in stead of being so transparent on things like what sites are doing the best ect..? You know all the studios are soaking this info up.

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    even Verified isn't safe from that ....they could pay a girl to take a pic and login in her account ....honestly.
    (not saying that happened)
    I think somethings are better kept to ones self , And I'm speaking from experience.
    I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"


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    This definitely needed to be said. Thanks!
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    I do not feel like my income/traffic/etc. has taken any sort of hit by the information I choose to post to help others. What I do agree with is that any type of influx that cam sites has seen lately has been girls who are going to quit in a few weeks anyway... or girls that I have absolutely zero reason to be threatened by.

    In the almost year now that I have been on Streamate and Stripperweb, I have seen several "new girls" come to SM that I thought... okay, maybe this girl is going to keep it up and I might have to compete with her... sure enough... they NEVER stick it out. I'm sorry but what on earth do any of the girls who actually do this full time, have to be threatened by "street walking" type studio girls??? They can TRY to copy any of our "styles" all day long, but if they don't have what it takes, they will not make it plain and simple.

    VERY FEW girls have what it takes to really "make it" in camming. I'm sorry, I realize that most people think that "anyone" can make money in this, but the truth is that it's not that easy and MOST of the girls that flock into this are not going to stick it out. They do not have what it takes. They are absolutely no threat to me. And they shouldn't be to anyone else either.

    If your income has taken a dive, take a look at yourself and what YOU are doing while you are working, rather than attribute it to helpful members of stripperweb. And this is directed at everyone, not anyone in particular.

    Might as well just shut down the entire section of camming connection if you honestly think we should just quit helping each other.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post

    If your income has taken a dive, take a look at yourself and what YOU are doing while you are working, rather than attribute it to helpful members of stripperweb. And this is directed at everyone, not anyone in particular.
    Funny ....how you use this never ending insult...lmao say it how you want....but we both know the truth.
    I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"


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    I dont understand this thread.... no hidden bitchin here but is this suggesting helping eachother out means we then have to compete against eachother??


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    I used to HATE when someone posted their earnings or how good their traffic is. However, I realized that it really doesn't matter. No one can clone you. There is only one you. Every month I continue to make more money than I did the previous month since I started camming no matter how dead it is or how many more girls sign up. If you put in the hours the money will come.


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    Quote Originally Posted by KateSwallows View Post
    I dont understand this thread.... no hidden bitchin here but is this suggesting helping eachother out means we then have to compete against eachother??
    Exactly, because we are competing with each other, now more than ever. Anyone who doesn't believe this will get a rude awakening. I did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MzStar View Post
    Funny ....how you use this never ending insult...lmao say it how you want....but we both know the truth.
    This isn't an insult. It is the truth. Even if someone does something exactly the same way as you do (either by learning it themselves or by copying you), if you do it better then you will not lose any income because of it. If they do it better... well then you deserve to lose the income.

    Everyone spends so much time worrying about other people "stealing their tricks" or whatever when if they just worked harder on making themselves stand out they would have no reason to worry. End of story! There's a reason why someone who does something that has never been done before makes money: because they are unique. If they continue to stay on trend, they will continue to be successful and not be a fluke. They DESERVE that success more than the person who was a fluke.

    Do your job better than anyone else and you will make the money regardless of anyone else. Spend your time focused not on the people who do as you do but on what will keep you unique and what will keep you ahead of everyone else.
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    Can I please remind everyone that Stripperweb is a COMMUNITY. That's what we do here, we help each other out. CC isn't just about drama even though that's what most of the threads turn out to be. Alot of you need to change your attitude and point of views. Otherwise I see no point in you being here.

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    Geez sometimes I feel like I'm on a site with a bunch of 16 year olds. If your business isn't taking a hit, why are you complaining. The webcam world is a HUGE one. We have the whole world at our feet. You are your only competitor. Take new pics, buy a wig, wear different color contacts, anything to change your look, work those hours that you're afraid to work - anything to stay ahead of the game and maintain a fresh appearance and you will be fine. Again it's all in your head - there is no competition. The time you took to create that OP - you could have been using it to make some money. Now -- you tell me - what's new?

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    I'm going to drop it straight then.....Someone is insulting other girls because she doesn't like what they say.

    What they say interferes with her agenda..

    Why would someone that's a "TOP" earner be worried or concerned with everyone elses earnings???

    I speculate its because they want to know who to copy. And really isnt a "top earner" str8 up!

    No one fights this hard for nothing.
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    ^^ So why be concerned with it at all? Just shake your head and move on.

    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Can I please remind everyone that Stripperweb is a COMMUNITY. That's what we do here, we help each other out. CC isn't just about drama even though that's what most of the threads turn out to be. Alot of you need to change your attitude and point of views. Otherwise I see no point in you being here.
    I agree with this 100%. If you're more worried about people learning your tricks and studios benefitting from what you post, just don't post. Or make a private community for just camgirls and post in there (like the "verified" section). If you're going to post in the verified section only, that's fine... just be aware that some people do consider this a community and do want to treat it like one. If you don't like that, stick to verified.
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    a passer byer wouldve thought this forum is male orientated with the amount of testosterone flying around right now lol

    so what if theres competition?! theres always a man prefering a different type of girl... as stated above, this is a community! whats wrong with helping eachother out?

    so what if members here like to brag about how well theyre doing, GOOD for them! anybody thinking thats wrong appears to everyone else as if theyre jealous...

    i'm new here and already i see how immature this place can be, majority of the posters are great, i think this is a lovely place to come and vent/discuss, but please girls.... PUT A LID ON IT

    when i can be bothered i earn £350 in 3 hours, im bloody proud of myself but all i did there was mention something i daren't talk about to my friends, but i'm sure i'll now get a post aimed at me sayin why would i put that?! some people like to discuss success, some can't... deal with it
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    Quote Originally Posted by luscious sadie View Post
    ^^ So why be concerned with it at all? Just shake your head and move on.
    because it hurts my heart to see people being taken advantage of
    I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"


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    Oooh, I dont know. I dont think of this as a competition. I mean, someone would have to have my exact same look, personality, and way of doing business for them to actually be competition. A blonde, a bbw, a petite girl, a rauncy girl, an alternative girl, a bdsm girl, a girl with a sexy accent lol, all of those....not competition because Im none of those things.

    Men love and want variety, so it doesnt hurt my business if they get shows from someone else...they'll come around to check me out again eventually when they are in the mood for what I have to offer. Ive been doing this for ...jeez, just did the math, 11 years now. I dont make a living out of it, not because Im not good at it, but cause I dont have the focus and dedication it takes to log in every day, or even every week. Or every month At this point, its part of my "charm" and the guys who like me just have gotten to know, when I do start logging in, get as many shows as you can cause I can and will disappear at any moment for months. It does work for me though, because when I do log in, I do really well... whether people complain its slow or booming or what have you.

    Personally, it makes me feel great when I see someone share their excitement for how well they are doing, or offer tips and advice. If I have something to contribute, I certainly will...besides, I think that helping others out, in some way contributes to creating a standard...whether its the whole dont offer too much/anything at all in free chat, discussing keeping rates within a certain range, etc...as a community, thats about the closest to a union we'll ever get, and it does help us as a whole, to try and lean towards molding these guys into what, and what not to expect from us.

    Now, I do agree though that the fly by night, one off posters, those who dont appreciate or even hear anyone out when they ask for advice just are not worth the time. Ive helped newbies out, but the way they present themselves and at least say thanks, even if they are dubious about the advice they get makes a difference. But those who pop in, ask a question that has been asked a million times before cause they are too lazy to search, who cares...I dont, and will skip over a thread like that. Im not obligated to help anyone if I dont wanna...but if I do wanna, I will.

    I anyway spend more time discussing cam than actually being on it..and I dont even discuss it all that much..so that tells you something right there But Ive been working it and seen it evolve over the past decade, so I know a little bit of something. And one thing I know for sure is, Im not in competition with or threatened by anyone elses success. The only enemy I have to my success is me, and what little I put into my business. Yeah, I can admit it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MzStar View Post
    Funny ....how you use this never ending insult...lmao say it how you want....but we both know the truth.
    What? Did I miss something here? How am I being insulting?

    I mean really... I don't get what I said wrong here... never ending insult? This is the exact same advice I give myself and the same thing I actually DO myself when things are slowing down for me. And it works. Every time. I am the only one responsible for MY income. Not you, not anyone else on here, not stripper web or studios. ME.
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    I'm gonna side step this one as I do with other threads asking for info on income. MzStar you have made some valid points.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MzStar View Post
    I'm going to drop it straight then.....Someone is insulting other girls because she doesn't like what they say.

    What they say interferes with her agenda..

    Why would someone that's a "TOP" earner be worried or concerned with everyone elses earnings???

    I speculate its because they want to know who to copy. And really isnt a "top earner" str8 up!

    No one fights this hard for nothing.
    Lets just "drop it straight" then.... who are you talking about? I only assume its ME because of the first reply you directed at ME above. And if that's the case... you are out of your damn mind.

    I have NEVER "insulted" anyone because I didn't like what they had to say. And I asked about earnings in verified because I was genuinely CURIOUS about how others are doing lately given the recent bombardment of "stremate sucks" posts. How does that equate to me not making money and wanting to COPY people??? I will post my damn streamate earnings page if you are talking about me....
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    I see this taking a turn for the worst. No more drama or I will close this thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I see this taking a turn for the worst. No more drama or I will close this thread.
    This entire thread was created to START DRAMA. Nothing new considering the source.

    I seriously cannot believe what stripperweb has turned into. Like. Wow. Get fucking pissed at the people doing better than you, blame your issues on the people who actually HELP and try to CONTRIBUTE to the COMMUNITY that stripperweb is INTENDED TO BE. Oh, and then say that anyone doing better than you is just making it up and lying. Sure, tell yourself whatever you need to in order to put the blame on someone else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MzStar View Post
    because it hurts my heart to see people being taken advantage of
    Even if this is true, your posts never really seem to reflect that - they just come off sounding... mean.

    I don't want to start drama. I'm not trying to. I'm just saying that if it does "hurt your heart" to see people getting taken advantage of, make a post similar to roast's about studios. Make a post about identifying them and their tactics. Make a post about ANY of that stuff but calling people stupid for sharing their income.... that doesn't exactly help anyone.
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