I tried using the cups, and they worked very well for me as long as I wasn't doing penetration, they would leak on me as soon as I touched them with a toy.

Maybe if you used a very small toy, I dunno. I've found what works best for me is using a regular tampon, push it in with the applicator and then with my fingers flip it sideways across my cervix. I don't cut the string off I just tuck it up there with the tampon, you may need this to help with removal lol. You will get your fingers 'dirty' when you go and try to get the tampon out. But i'm assuming that most of us are comfortable enough with out bodies that it really isn't that scary

I can use dildos and toys this way, I just don't go quite as deep and I make sure to use a LOT of lube because of the dryness from changing tampons every 2 or so hours doing it this way (I like to make sure nothing leaks).
I haven't had any problems as far as it causing me pain or discomfort as long as i'm lubed up good, and i'm passed the first day or so of initial cramps.
I've seen threads where the sea sponge is mentioned as being a very good and natural way to go, I haven't gotten around to trying them yet. I'll see if I can find you a link.
Hope this helps! Good luck

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