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    My club is and has been run by a woman since it opened. We have never had a problem with extras like the other clubs in the area. So I was thinking maybe it makes a big difference when a woman runs things vs a man. I want to know does a man or woman run your club and how bad are the extras in your club?

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    My current club is actually pretty bad when the girls do private shows. It's run by a guy who, given enough money, he'll look the other way.
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    That's why I wonder if things are worse when a man runs it. He's more willing to look away while my boss would fire the nasty ho's for their behavior. (Unfortunately she will hire the back for a $300 fine)

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    Default Re: Does a man or woman run your club??

    The last club I worked for here was run by a woman, and it's probably the worst fucking job I've ever had in my life. The best club I ever worked for was run by a man. At the last club, the woman was very apt to look the other way, or just flat out not believe people. I don't think the sex of the person has anything to do with it.

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    Honestly, he does a great job otherwise. He's a no bullshit kinda guy. You fuck up (ie. don't show up, no call no show etc) you're gone. And since I don't dance anymore really, I don't honestly care. I'm starting to wonder if it's possible to make a decent living without the extras anyway. In my area, it has increasingly become the norm. I hate it.
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    I feel bad for you girls that have to put up with that extras bullshit. However, in exchange for such a clean club, we give up some of the fun aspects of being a stripper. There's alot of rules and sometimes they put a damper on things. I like having fun onstage. Taking money with my boobs or having to stay 3 feet away from customers at all times or when female customers come in they can't have a little innocent fun of sticking a dollar in my thongs or putting dollars in their boobs. Which in turn kinda ruins the party mood. Plus being such a clean club discourages alot of business. A banking night at my club would probably be $1500 or less.. BUT I'll take it if it means I don't have to compete with hookers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I feel bad for you girls that have to put up with that extras bullshit. However, in exchange for such a clean club, we give up some of the fun aspects of being a stripper. There's alot of rules and sometimes they put a damper on things. I like having fun onstage. Taking money with my boobs or having to stay 3 feet away from customers at all times or when female customers come in they can't have a little innocent fun of sticking a dollar in my thongs or putting dollars in their boobs. Which in turn kinda ruins the party mood. Plus being such a clean club discourages alot of business. A banking night at my club would probably be $1500 or less.. BUT I'll take it if it means I don't have to compete with hookers.
    $1500 total sales or $1500 for a girl? because $1500 take home for a dancer anywhere is "banking".

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    $1500 is very rare. (We're all pretty open about our earnings) I'm just saying that the most I've heard of a girl making in the last 5 years has been $1500. We're a small club in a little town in WI so big city money isn't really available.

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    My club was originally run by a woman, who retired in late 2008 and 'gave' the club to her son. She ran the club better in some aspects...though I'm obviously the minority when I say that I prefer her son as an owner over her.
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    Default Re: Does a man or woman run your club??

    My club is ran by a man. But things are pretty safe here, we're a strictly no touching club. Although when custies pay for VIP, you can get away with things like sitting on their laps naked etc..
    I'm pretty sure girls have let men touch, and suck and whatnot.... From what I hear from the men.

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    My club is run by men. They have manipulated the tip out system so that we all make them filthy rich. Like, I don't even want to think about how much money the owner makes a month off the club. Even the door man who sits there with his thumb up his ass all night making change for people goes home with way more than any dancer on an average night. They have never handled any problem I have had with a customer correctly. When I go to work, I pretty much go in with the understanding that I am on my own and have to take matters into my own hands if I have any issues.

    For example, last time I worked I was dancing for a young guy who bought 2 VIPS from me (10 dances). We're on our last few songs, and he points to a couple in the booth across from us and brings it to my attention that they are making out. I look over my shoulder and sure enough, this girl is full on making out with a customer and he has his hand in her underwear. Dude and I just sit there and stare for a minute before I excuse myself to notify the bouncer of what is going on. I come back, finish dancing, and of course now he doesn't want any more so he leaves. I go back to the bouncer and ask him if he saw anything and he goes "Oh, no. She wasn't doing anything when I checked." So I flip out and tell him to go check the cameras and he says "I would but the cameras aren't working right now so I'll just tell her I don't want to see her kissing any more customers.." WTF?! Totally did not care or do anything about it. I was appalled.

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    Default Re: Does a man or woman run your club??

    All the clubs but one I've worked it have been run by men. The only one run by a woman was Knockout's in Alubuquerque.

    I didn't notice any more or less extras in the clubs being related to gender of the manager/owner. Seems to vary from club to club based on clientele and types of girls working.
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    Man.

    I wouldn't have it any other way. I always find a male manager puts up with way less bullshit and bitchiness. I'm lucky too because my manager is strict with enforcing club rules and isn't a sleezebag, which can be a definite downside of having a guy for a boss.
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    Default Re: Does a man or woman run your club??

    Both: the club I'm currently working is run by an interracial couple (Italian dude, Korean woman) and their two sons (the good looking one manages the sister club next door, and the lesser looking one works the kitchen).





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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    Both: the club I'm currently working is run by an interracial couple (Italian dude, Korean woman) and their two sons (the good looking one manages the sister club next door, and the lesser looking one works the kitchen).
    Wow!! That's rad! First time I've heard of a family club business Looooll...!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Su Su View Post
    Wow!! That's rad! First time I've heard of a family club business Looooll...!
    The club I work at is a family business, too. The owner's sister runs the kitchen and the daughter works the door..

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    Run by men, two managers in each club (sister clubs, same company) one lady manager (ex dancer, knows most of the girls from dancing days) I have worked in a club run by a woman and found it to be ok, but safety was not high on the list of priorities (10 girls, one doorman, no back up, VIP on separate floor, panic buttons occasionally not sounding when pressed, over all, manager liked me cause i showed up, banked both nights i worked, didnt drink and didnt cause hassle) Club now is SO high security i LOVE it. I dont think extra's is even a word permitted in there, grinding now counts as an extra in my club!
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