How has your attitude changed toward men working as a cam girl? I think I've become more jaded and very guarded toward men. The attention I get from them in real life now becomes more of an annoyance. My sex drive drops tremendously, lol.





How has your attitude changed toward men working as a cam girl? I think I've become more jaded and very guarded toward men. The attention I get from them in real life now becomes more of an annoyance. My sex drive drops tremendously, lol.
not me.
I love men.
if anything .. I love them MORE... Im a bit of a sex freak...
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The effects have been positive mostly.
I feel I am way more understanding of my boyfriend's fantasies and I am way more uninhibited myself than I used to be. I enjoy sex way more because I feel freer about it.
I also take way less crap from men as a whole and most seem to respect me more. I used to feel intimidated around men in positions of authority such as cops, doctors, etc. but doing this work has made me realize they are just the same as anyone else.
The only way I have really changed toward men is that I used to really want their compliments and approval -- but now since my job is being 'a hot girl' for a living I don't need anyone to tell me I am sexy. I already know it. If I wasn't, I would of gone broke at this job months ago.![]()
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Last edited by HaydenBlue; 08-09-2012 at 01:13 AM.
No. I have met some of the most wonderful men on MFC! I also have an incredible husband, who is a reminder daily of how awesome guys can be. Personally, I think women are generally much worse. The gossip, jealousy, etc. I have better experiences with men over-all.
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Camming has recovered the sex drive i lost from stripping, taken my confidence around men on to an even higher level and taught me not to work so hard for men's approval/money. In short, it's made me even more awesome than I already was.
I have to agree with Marina Starr, same happen to me....the only man who is not a turn off for me and the only man who i love and love to look at naked is my husband...the rest of world is for me this way.....Don't look at me, don't even think about me and get the fuck away from me.....
I love em! The real ones that is who understands that my time is valuable and u must pay to have my full attention lol...all the beggars, and disrespectful freeloaders that enter my room I imagine are virgins or too ugly to get laid anyway right lol....I have actually met 2 custies offline that have become some of the greatest friends I could have, and they still tip! So for me, my attitude hasn't changed, it has actually made me more fond of themI love getting online and meeting guys with great personalities, who aren't afraid to throw the cash my way!!!....but yeah, I love guys, always have
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My attitude towards men hasn't changed much...I always knew they could be degrading to women and how they were led by their dumbstick...the only part of my attitude that changed is when I hear friends talking about getting naked on cam for guys they met on POF type sites or see people on adult "friend finder" sites doing the same and I think...."seriously? you're doing that for free" lol
I'm definitelly not a people person. If i didn't have my husband I would probably be a lesbian by now.
When I am going out with my friends, and a guy tries to hit on me, I turn evil and want to punch the living daylights out of him!
Everytime I see a guy in the grocery store, I wonder what his fetish is.
I grew a HUGE amount of respect for myself, because I saw how some men really are.
Other than that, it's all goood.I really just gained more respect for myself, and I have an amazing man in my life who treats me like a woman should be treated.
I don't think our relationship would be the way it is right now (or if I would even have met him), if I haven't developed the strength I have from THIS job. I used to be a freaking doormat party girl that read Cosmopotolian for tips. Lol.
Yes, it has. Since I've been into sex work I've been a lot more confident around men and less willing to put up with random bullshit.
Getting paid for being sexual is a huge boost to my ego.



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Last edited by Rosemary Rabbit; 07-10-2017 at 08:53 AM.
I wonder if that has anything to do with the demographic/style of sites where the majority of cammer/customer interactions occur in 'public'...I work a one-on-one style and a significant proportion of my guys have bi/gay fantasies as well...
Which ties into the thread questionIt took me a while to stop wondering if my guy secretly really REALLY wanted me to fuck him with a strap-on while he sucks a cock, but was just afraid too share it with me
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Yes it has. I've posted my reasons somewhere on a similar post before.
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...312-Hating-men
Don't Like Me? Have A Seat With The Rest Of The Bitches And Bastards Waiting For Me To Give A Flying Fuck.
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