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    Default Has Your Attitude Changed Toward Men?

    How has your attitude changed toward men working as a cam girl? I think I've become more jaded and very guarded toward men. The attention I get from them in real life now becomes more of an annoyance. My sex drive drops tremendously, lol.
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    Default Re: Has Your Attitude Changed Toward Men?

    not me.
    I love men.
    if anything .. I love them MORE... Im a bit of a sex freak...
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    Default Re: Has Your Attitude Changed Toward Men?

    The effects have been positive mostly.

    I feel I am way more understanding of my boyfriend's fantasies and I am way more uninhibited myself than I used to be. I enjoy sex way more because I feel freer about it.

    I also take way less crap from men as a whole and most seem to respect me more. I used to feel intimidated around men in positions of authority such as cops, doctors, etc. but doing this work has made me realize they are just the same as anyone else.


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    The only way I have really changed toward men is that I used to really want their compliments and approval -- but now since my job is being 'a hot girl' for a living I don't need anyone to tell me I am sexy. I already know it. If I wasn't, I would of gone broke at this job months ago.
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    Default Re: Has Your Attitude Changed Toward Men?

    Very well said! I cosign. I'm a bit surprised on B. Didn't know that percentage could be so high.

    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    The two main things I've noticed with men since I've started camming;

    a) How incredibly nasty, disrespectful and degrading they are towards women. (Though I guess you could water that down and argue that anyone can be that way hiding behind a keyboard)

    b) 80% of them are in the closet or have gay/bi-sexual fantasies.


    I think I'm a bit more guarded with men since I started, definitely. I'm more picky about men in my personal life. And I have mini moments of "I FUCKING HATE MENNNNNN" rage fits when anything with a penis pisses me off, lol. But I don't think this job has turned me into a man-hater or anything. If anything we can get inside there head a bit better - I'd rather be able to understand them better than to stay in the dark.

    But on the flip side, I stick up for myself now. Way, way better than I did before I started. This job really lets your ovaries drop.

    I can second-guess a lot of the games/smooth-talking that they try to pull on me. (My bullshit meter is ON POINT.)

    I have higher self-esteem 'i-don't-give-a-fuck-about-what-you-think' and men pick up on that.


    So, has it affected me? Yes, just like any job/situation you put yourself in would. Both positively and negatively. But the good outweighs the bad.
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    No. I have met some of the most wonderful men on MFC! I also have an incredible husband, who is a reminder daily of how awesome guys can be. Personally, I think women are generally much worse. The gossip, jealousy, etc. I have better experiences with men over-all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post

    b) 80% of them are in the closet or have gay/bi-sexual fantasies.

    I've been camming for 2 years and have only had one guy who said he was bi. Weird.
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    Camming has recovered the sex drive i lost from stripping, taken my confidence around men on to an even higher level and taught me not to work so hard for men's approval/money. In short, it's made me even more awesome than I already was.



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    I have to agree with Marina Starr, same happen to me....the only man who is not a turn off for me and the only man who i love and love to look at naked is my husband...the rest of world is for me this way.....Don't look at me, don't even think about me and get the fuck away from me.....

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    I guess we just don't like much people in general, lol! I can give the 'fuck you' attitude without conveying a single word, lol.
    I prefer cash over compliments these days.


    Quote Originally Posted by Browneyes View Post
    I have to agree with Marina Starr, same happen to me....the only man who is not a turn off for me and the only man who i love and love to look at naked is my husband...the rest of world is for me this way.....Don't look at me, don't even think about me and get the fuck away from me.....
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    I love em! The real ones that is who understands that my time is valuable and u must pay to have my full attention lol...all the beggars, and disrespectful freeloaders that enter my room I imagine are virgins or too ugly to get laid anyway right lol....I have actually met 2 custies offline that have become some of the greatest friends I could have, and they still tip! So for me, my attitude hasn't changed, it has actually made me more fond of them I love getting online and meeting guys with great personalities, who aren't afraid to throw the cash my way!!!....but yeah, I love guys, always have





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    My attitude towards men hasn't changed much...I always knew they could be degrading to women and how they were led by their dumbstick...the only part of my attitude that changed is when I hear friends talking about getting naked on cam for guys they met on POF type sites or see people on adult "friend finder" sites doing the same and I think...."seriously? you're doing that for free" lol

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    I'm definitelly not a people person. If i didn't have my husband I would probably be a lesbian by now.

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    When I am going out with my friends, and a guy tries to hit on me, I turn evil and want to punch the living daylights out of him!
    Everytime I see a guy in the grocery store, I wonder what his fetish is.
    I grew a HUGE amount of respect for myself, because I saw how some men really are.
    Other than that, it's all goood. I really just gained more respect for myself, and I have an amazing man in my life who treats me like a woman should be treated.
    I don't think our relationship would be the way it is right now (or if I would even have met him), if I haven't developed the strength I have from THIS job. I used to be a freaking doormat party girl that read Cosmopotolian for tips. Lol.

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    Yes, it has. Since I've been into sex work I've been a lot more confident around men and less willing to put up with random bullshit.

    Getting paid for being sexual is a huge boost to my ego.

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    Quote Originally Posted by playboymegan View Post
    I've been camming for 2 years and have only had one guy who said he was bi. Weird.
    I wonder if that has anything to do with the demographic/style of sites where the majority of cammer/customer interactions occur in 'public'...I work a one-on-one style and a significant proportion of my guys have bi/gay fantasies as well...
    Which ties into the thread question It took me a while to stop wondering if my guy secretly really REALLY wanted me to fuck him with a strap-on while he sucks a cock, but was just afraid too share it with me

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    Yes it has. I've posted my reasons somewhere on a similar post before.

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