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    Default Freebie?? Seriously??

    This happened on more than one occasion, including last night- I would be talking to a guy, I'd say, c'mon let's dance- he goes OK, we walk to a chair before the song starts, I say- "You know this will be $20 right?" He goes "Why? I thought it was a freebie?" I have also witness guys agreeing to a dance and dancer ask for payment and they say- "You didn't tell me I had to pay."

    WHAT THE F*CK ARE YOU GUYS THINKING??????????????

    You think strip clubs are designed to entertain you for free?? Do you think we get dressed up, pull 8 hour shifts to walk around and give free dances??? Exactly, how the HELL do you think this works????

    Enlighten me please!

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    Default Re: Freebie?? Seriously??

    I have no answer, but I loled

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    Default Re: Freebie?? Seriously??

    Well, some guys are naive, others just plain stupid and then there are the scammers and time-wasters....

    Instead of "c'mon, let's dance" you may want to invest just a bit more time to try and figure out what you are dealing with.

    "Have you been here before"
    "Do you know how it works?"
    "Are you interested in buying any dances tonight?"

    This won't eliminate the scammers and time wasters but if you are getting customers that are truly so naive that they don't expect to pay it might be necessary to dumb-down your approach.
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    Default Re: Freebie?? Seriously??

    There are lots of guys who have never really thought through the mechanics of a strip club, and who assume that the strippers are paid an hourly wage by the club to entertain the customers.

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    This is getting on my nerves too, except usually its after ive gone through dance prices etc, gone away and then come back to the same customer, asked if they want a dance and they go "for free?" etc, i just look at them like theyre completely insane and go "uuuuh NO!"

    In my club they are told the rules and dance prices on the door, even if theyve never been into a SC before or are a SC regular (which i usually find out in the first two seconds of approaching) i will tell them how much it is for a dance etc, and some still seriously and genuinely expect a free dance!

    What makes me lol even more is when they say
    "tell you what babe, give me a free dance first and THEN ill spend some money on you!" hahahahahaaaa yeeeeeeaaaah cause THAT'S gonna happen!!
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    ^ I can just imagine this happening at a fast food joint - "Let me have a burger for free and then I'll buy a combo meal." Riiiiiiight. They'd laugh in his face! And customers wonder why the dancers giggle at them too...

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    ^^We get a lot of what im going to call "custom" from the local resteraunt workers, when i say "custom" i mean they come in, sit by the stage, dont get dances and try to haggle. Ive actually said to a few of them "So you work at such-and-such resteraunt? Tell you what, you give me a free meal, and then next time, ill buy something yeah? No??? But why not? cause those are the prices of meals yeah!? WELL THATS THE PRICE OF A DANCE, ITS NOT OPTIONAL TO PAY!!"
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    Quote Originally Posted by KeithDoxen View Post
    There are lots of guys who have never really thought through the mechanics of a strip club, and who assume that the strippers are paid an hourly wage by the club to entertain the customers.

    Even if dancers would get paid, it would be something like waitress/bartender's wage plus the tips and dances. Nothing huge.





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    Quote Originally Posted by GlitterBexie View Post
    What makes me lol even more is when they say
    "tell you what babe, give me a free dance first and THEN ill spend some money on you!" hahahahahaaaa yeeeeeeaaaah cause THAT'S gonna happen!!
    Hah! That sounds like a cam customer. "show me your tits now and I'll buy a show if I like them." "Flash your ass for me and I'll tip you after." "I'll tip you 100$ if you touch your pussy here for free. I'll do it after, I swear" "give me a preview and then I'll get a show" "show me how you fuck your pussy and then I'll get a show" etc etc etc


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    that really annoys me!
    I strip cos im just a horny bitch, really *rolleyes*
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    Quote Originally Posted by GlitterBexie View Post
    ^^"So you work at such-and-such resteraunt? Tell you what, you give me a free meal, and then next time, ill buy something yeah? No??? But why not? cause those are the prices of meals yeah!? WELL THATS THE PRICE OF A DANCE, ITS NOT OPTIONAL TO PAY!!"
    LOL - reading that in a UK accent made it even better.

    I should thank these types of customers, though... they make the rest of us look good by comparison!

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    I know a lot of men who like to brag about how THEY can go to a strip club and not tip one cent and get free attention all night long. Of course, 95% of the time these braggarts had no idea that I was a stripper. I always figured that either they thought this made them sound like really desirable studs so they totally lied about it, or they were targeting girls who were either really drunk, really high, really stupid, or really new and just sort of went along with whatever without demanding money.

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    Im northern aswell if that makes it any better, if you are from UK or are aware of UK accents...i sound like a female mixture of Peter Kaye and the cast of Shameless lol x
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    In other news, i had some fool arguineg blue murder that dancers got paid time and a half by the club when we opened earlier, he literally would not accept that WE paid a LOT of money to work there! He wanted a free dance because they had paid to get in the club, and wasnt that part of the deal....eeeeeeer NOPE...he was a moron, i made a swift (well, as swift as you can in 7 inch heels) exit!
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    Frustrating! This happens more so on the weekends, when the crowd is more "merry", in groups, younger and just more naive. Saturday seems to be the only day I constantly hear "witty" & "original comments like, "Why don't I dance for you and you pay me instead" . But, sadly some men just don't realise that we don't get a set wage & think that the club pays us to entertain, so they don't have to.

    I think it's great when DJ's or MC's advertise this fact, i.e. "Make sure you tip...because our girls don't work for free etc". There are always going to be time wasters & scammers lurking in the dark, but I agree that a bit of small talk when you introduce yourself can help weed them out to some degree.

    Aw, off topic-but the nerve of anyone wanting a freebie reminds me a young tight ass who tipped me $10 on stage last night...& then came up to me later & asked for it back...because he had run out of money to buy drinks with *face palm* lol!

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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    "Why don't I dance for you and you pay me instead" . !
    OMG yes! Id forgotten how much this irritated me! Winds me up cause they think its funny! *says loudly to customer* "hahahahaaa yeah cause thats the first time ive heard THAT!!"
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    i have freebees before. in one arrangement if i purchased five dances sixth was free. another time dancer agree to give me a free dance cause she liked the song. one other tme an ugly chick tried to give me free dance. i said no.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pierremaller View Post
    i have freebees before. in one arrangement if i purchased five dances sixth was free. another time dancer agree to give me a free dance cause she liked the song. one other tme an ugly chick tried to give me free dance. i said no.
    We do 2-for-1 dances at my club, when two for one is announced, you get one full song (about three minutes) to make the payment, then the DJ will play two songs both of which are cut to about a minute and 40 seconds, but cause dances are done on song time, you got two songs. Similarly with the "topless teaser" the customer doesnt get a free dance, he gets 10 seconds of boob at three feet away, no more than he would see if the dancer was on the pole, but then he has to spend the money to get an actual dance.

    But what the OP is trying to say pisses her off is when customers havent spent any money and assume that they can haggle a free dance out of a dancer for nothing. Not dancers seemingly "giving" away free dances cause they want too. Plus, if you had already spent $100 on one girl (especially if the dances were stacked) you didnt get anything for free
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    I used to get this line more when I worked at a club with more young guys, frat guys, & bachelor parties.
    I could tell by their clever delivery & adorable smirks that they knew dances weren't free, they were just trying to make me smile, how special!
    I don't miss that crowd.
    At my club now I hardly ever hear it, it comes with a certain demographic.

    In related news, my bf's eyes were bulging out of his head when I told him what I pay in house fees, tip outs, & merchandise. He almost choked. Hilarious. And I actually like my club, I wasn't complaining, just enlightening him.

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    I think that's just a certain type of man. I mean, working retail, guys thought they were cute making the "Oh, you mean this isn't free?" joke all the time when I gave them their total.

    I do wish people would think their scripted responses through before they give them in these situations. Maybe they don't have enough pride to know or care how much of an ass they look like making the same joke countless of other patrons have before them?

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    Default Re: Freebie?? Seriously??

    Some dancers give free samples. As if walking around half naked and busting our asses on stage is not enough...




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    Quote Originally Posted by missykrissy View Post
    I used to get this line more when I worked at a club with more young guys, frat guys, & bachelor parties.
    I could tell by their clever delivery & adorable smirks that they knew dances weren't free, they were just trying to make me smile, how special!
    I don't miss that crowd.
    At my club now I hardly ever hear it, it comes with a certain demographic.

    In related news, my bf's eyes were bulging out of his head when I told him what I pay in house fees, tip outs, & merchandise. He almost choked. Hilarious. And I actually like my club, I wasn't complaining, just enlightening him.
    My nightmare demographic. I hate when the club is filled with groups of these kinds of yahoos.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Natalllia View Post
    My nightmare demographic. I hate when the club is filled with groups of these kinds of yahoos.
    You would despise Austin, TX, as it is a college town with drunk, moronic frat boys...(I dislike them too, they make me look bad)

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    Wow, that's not right. You work hard to make a living wage. Would they like it if the situation were reversed? I'm sure if their boss told them to work overtime at no extra pay (supposing they were hourly of course), they'd throw a fit. Why should they expect you to work for free?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Event Horizon View Post
    Wow, that's not right. You work hard to make a living wage. Would they like it if the situation were reversed? I'm sure if their boss told them to work overtime at no extra pay (supposing they were hourly of course), they'd throw a fit. Why should they expect you to work for free?

    Edit to note: Wow, I've been here almost 6 years and this is my first post. I need to start posting a little more frequently.
    Edit to add: Oops! I thought this was in the all members thread. Sorry! /redface

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