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    Am I the only one that usually does this on cam? See the thing is I dont do alot of little shows I do it least 20 minute shows with my customers and I want to make them happy. I only do a few a week but its enough to help me pay for my medicine.Sometimes I hear wow I never see that , or you cant fake that, like they act as if the other girls dont really get off. Am I missing something? I mean when I worked on stream mate I understand mostly they dont even want that and it was different, as they want a lot of other things. But like do you guys fake long shows? Or I mean how much do you stall them before giving them what they want? I just want to do top quality show as i want them to come back but Im wondering if Im running myself low on energy or giving too much away at first.

    The thing I wonder is this, I mean since I have serious health issues and only can do a few hours a week its ok, but when I start to work more do you suggest not always getting off? Like doesn't it get you frustrated to just pretend play, me I just assume follow through. I mean I just figure thats why they are paying me. I also dont stall them into the action as I want them to come back ( and they always do) .. Just It can be tiring on me especially lately I feel like Im more drained than ever with my condition.

    Im wondering maybe there are some indie sites where I could do more role play and fetish and other things to not wear me out so much........... I just signed up to AW so I am hopeful I will find some good clients on there. Any other indie sites where they want different things let me know as I am open to start on them..
    I feel like my life is falling apart and just need to find another site to work on to make the extra money, just questioning if Im going about this all right or not...

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    No I hear you. But I only have a few customers, but they always come back and they spend long time in shows and I guess they want that....
    If a guy gives me 5 minutes forget it.. Just wondering if you ever do them for your good customers?

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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    Honey, if we all had a real orgasm for every single demanding/inexperienced guy who comes in to see us we'd all be dead from exhaustion.
    Speak for yourself, I cum every time I get a private longer than 5 minutes. And then again and again and again. Being able to get off on pussy stimulation rocks



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    No I hear you. But I only have a few customers, but they always come back and they spend long time in shows and I guess they want that....
    If a guy gives me 5 minutes forget it.. Just wondering if you ever do them for your good customers?

    Well I mean with my good customers, its a give in that Ill get off and Ill have enough time, thats how we started the relaitonship, its about me getting off, so I know they will spend enough time in pvt with me for that, its pre arranged in a way, they make sure to get enough tokens for me to feel satisfied.

    If lets say it was on MFC I allready know they are gonna get off and leave with out caring about me ( well the shows i have gotten) So I just dont let it go there but it can make a build up of frustration if I dont control it well.

    See Im a squirter and if I start to squirt it doesnt mean Ive gotten off it just means were just begininng and so If I dont release fully it can be frustrating. A guy will think if I started to squirt that I got off fully but they have no idea... It actually hurts if I dont release fully.

    I guess I do fake for the small shows but youll know if you done a show with him prior, ask the guy if he wants to get you off or if hes gonna just leave, that way you can gage how excited you let yourself go... I just can never believe when Im faking it that they are turned on, and I forget how simple men actually are..

    Im starting to think it might be impossible in the long shows not to get off, unless my body is so sick it cant....I mean definitely don't use the Hitachi if you want to not get off. lol

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    Yes, if I have a long show with a nice guy, I can get off. But it's rare because what most guys think will make me cum will just turn me off. Some guys seem to understand, they are nice and patient, and those are the ones who will see me cum.

    I have one customer who stays in as long as it takes for me to cum. That's what he wants to see and seems to understand that I can't time it (if it's real). If the guy is being impatient and rude about it, I'll either fake it to get him to leave or I'll just tell him off and he leaves.

    If you're working more hours then I assume you'll have guys in your shows who aren't your regulars, and you'll encounter different kinds of guys. Then I guess you'll find out what your body can handle. Best of luck.

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    I always orgasm if I'm using a strong vibe. So yes, my orgasms are always real. Sometimes I come a little too quickly, actually

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    I can if the guy gives me enough time and I have my handy dandy hitachi going full speed

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlotteslut View Post
    Sometimes I come a little too quickly, actually
    Yeah, I have this problem too. I'll be close to cumming and I'll look at the time and be like 'wait, is that it?'. So I just keep going after and try for another



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    I manage to cum every once in awhile.

    Ive had some really sensuous people on SM, it was almost surprising.

    The hitatichi always helps as well.

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    I can like most of you girls get off if I have enough time and with my vibrating massager wand lol. If they let me do what feels good I can usually get off and give me enough time. If not then forget it, and I won't take it either, they will just have to realize I need more than 5 mins lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Holly_xoxo View Post
    I can if the guy gives me enough time and I have my handy dandy hitachi going full speed
    ^^Ditto this^^ BUT, as I mainly do couples, it's a bit harder for me unless I'm on top or were told to do missionary. (I'm a clitoral kinda gal). =P Whats harder in couples is when you go in pvt and they tell my man "cum now........ cum now, cum now CUM NOW!!" After 5 min. lol I feel it's much harder for him than me. lol






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    This is surprising to me. Some of you gals must have a ton of energy!
    I'd wear myself out if I did that with every show.

    I don't make much of a noise when I really cum though, since I'm concentrating and focusing on my own pleasure. They wouldn't like watching that because it wouldn't even look like much on cam.

    I've always thought of myself as an actress they are paying to make them cum, not to make myself cum.



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    I save my orgasms for My man , I'm not going to be wasting them on clients - and however highly sexed you are - you're not going to have quite that level of sex drive if you've been at it all day with guys around the globe ---- Also I think my fake orgasms , are much more visually appealing to the male race than my real ones :-) so from a business standpoint -- I'll fake it til I make it .

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    I never climax during work. EVER.

    I'm an actress when I'm working; a conjurer of fantasy.

    If I were to climax during work, I would either become more frustrated (at guys who leave before I cum, or perhaps even LEAVE whilst I'm cumming, and I'm left to regain myself in 30 seconds, holy shit), or very worn out very quickly. I would probably get both.

    I require a very certain type of clitoral stimulation to climax, and I can only actually climax whilst I'm lying down on my back. Even if a guy tells me outright that he wants to see my "real" orgasm, he will get a fake, because I have no idea how long it'll be after he says that, that then he wants me to either change position, spit on myself, or start fingering my asshole, for example - or whatever other shit I find personally completely off-putting, sexually.

    Oh boy, just writing this I feel angry at this alternative me who tries to climax during shows. Lol yeh - t'will never happen. ^_^

    To climax, or attempt to climax, for me, would be involving too much personal feeling into work. Wouldn't mix for me.




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    If it's a long private, and I am allowed to do things they way I want, then it may be real. Short privates, rude/demanding guys, group shows with people popping in and out? Won't happen.

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    I'm on the opposite vibe from ukmissy. I don't have a man and if I did I wouldn't be camming. So the guys on cam are MY MEN. They provide money for my food, clothing, and keep my roof nice and comfy over my head. So if a private is at least 10 mins I'll cum. If the guy is one of those short private types , fuck him I'm not going to fake it either. He should know better if he's been fucking women that 5 mins doesn't do shit. 10 -15 mins then sure. I do better when I have longer 30-60 min shows by coming over and over again. If I get a few hour shows in a day then I can log out. Add in the shows where the guy is cheap and a few guys watching the show at their per min rate , I'm set. No need to work anymore that day.

    I only fake it when a guy wants me to do something he's looking for and isn't interested in me enjoying myself. These customers rarely take me private because I show my annoyance all over my face. Yes I know you have $8 to spend but I look bored as fuck. lol I'm not kidding. If a guy rushes into a private and wants me to get off fast I actually ask him " ohh so you want me to fake it then"? yup. Then I proceed with this fucked up fake as can be orgasm that would probably make people laugh. This is the same guy that complains about girls faking orgasms but tries to spread his money around to take as many girls as he can private. He's also not attractive either so you kinda feel like ooh ok sure your day in the sun, go for it.

    The guys that are attractive seem to take me to longer privates. There are even older gentlemen that clearly enjoy seeing a woman orgasm. They typically let me do what makes me feel great and then I'll try different toys out with just them because I know I'll have the time for more enjoyment with them. It's a job yes but I want to enjoy it or I'll dread logging in. If the guy sees I'm having a great time then he's more so likely to private again just to see that "after sex glow" on my face. And do I glow!

    They say " love what you do". On that point I have no complaints. I really do love what I do. It's all of the other empty conversations, pick up lines, dumb questions,begging in free chat that wear me out.

    Some guys that are short private types I don't even touch myself. I just make the toy hover over the parts and set the cam up on that angle. Why get myself all worked up for nothing? That's what puts me in a fucked up mood. ( Vasoconstriction aka Pink Balls is not fun for me).Plus my disappointment is all over my face and I don't even hide it. Some of my regs can tell and say " ooh shit someone has fucked up and did a short private". So out of the kindness of their sweet hearts or cocks , they take me private so I can cum. They cum too of course but they can see my relief when the private screen pops up. I'm so grateful lol you have no Idea!

    The exception of course is fetish shows. Like foot or domination. Actually domination turns me on when I have a sub firmly in my grasp but other than that there will be some desires that I know are meant for the viewer and not my own pleasure. This is fine and I'm more than willing to accommodate certain requests. But someone coming in and asking me to cum in 3 mins? I usually ignore them and keep going like they don't even exist. Some of these dumb types will come back and ask " wow wasn't that great"? I'm like what?" Ohh I didn't cum so no it wasn't." Then I ask them how real sex is for them in 3 mins. They either come back and do it longer or they don't come back at all. I'm not upset with the latter.

    Even though this is fantasy I still leave a bit of realness to my shows as to educate those guys that are out there doing the 3 min doggie. In so many words I tell them if she came she was probably faking it. Learn to breathe through that shit or you'll be spending more money on these sites. BTW it's worked a few times. Some guys do return and take me private longer and I give them the ole pat on the back and tell them " now that's what I'm talking about!".

    I also understand money adds up but I'm interested in quality not quantity. " A few good men". That's the ticket.

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    Once you get married , real sex is often over in 3 minutes ;-)

    only half serious

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    I'm on the opposite vibe from ukmissy..
    Pun intended cherry blossom ;-)

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    lol ukmissy!!!!!! haaaaa!!!

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    I fake it, for me I'm getting paid to entertain and make them cum, not cum myself for an stranger guy worldwide, i moan, i move, i put that horny slut face most girls put on porn movie (I'm not a porn star) I even fake squirt, they seem to like it...they come again another day and went on pvt and ask for the same thing.

    Some guys, just ask for something (even if they know is fake) but they turn on from that and cum and leave the pvt plenty happy. Some guys come and ask hey pls moan for me in pvt, even with all my clothes on they just want to see me moaning and putting a face like I'm about to cum, others ask for other type of simple things, and they do cum and I?? sometimes don't even remove even the t-shirt, they leave happy and return another day for another 10 or 15 minutes pvt asking the same thing....

    But, everybody know how to deal with their own business if doing a real cum help you to make longer the pvt do it, if faking it help you to make the pvt long do it....just do what help you most to make money.

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    I will orgasm for real or for fake...makes me no difference. LOL This is for entertainment yes but I like to have my fun and make my job more fun as well. Plus I am kind of wired that way. High sex drive so I get turned on pretty quick and I can have a bunch throughout the day. Before I even got into sex work I played with myself constantly throughout the day..
    I mean if I am getting turned on and want to cum I will and if I am not turned and not about to cum I won't ( unless the guy insists then in enough time if I am not truly there I will fake it).. I mean really no biggie..lol I don't associate sex or lust with anything personal or love but that is just me. I am the woman who can easily have sex with a man without any emotions attached..Wham Bam Goodbye..lol
    Of course if it was too draining for me too have real orgasms I would not do it or if it felt too emotional I would not do it too but it's all good so I do it. Hell even if I tried not to orgasm and I got turned on which I do when I do not want to cum quick since the guy is still jacking off...I will try to hold out and sure enough if he does leave before I get there..I just politely get myself off still. I will just log off if no one is taking me private so I can cum for real..lol My pussy has a mind of her own..

    But hey it's no biggie if we do it for real or for fake....whatever makes you happy, right?lol
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