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    I hate it when guys cum in their pants during a lap dance! It makes me feel like i unintentionally did an extra. does it mean i was grinding too hard? sometimes i think it's probably just premature ejaculation or something or they just can't last at all. should i ask for more money? i usually ask for a tip, with the excuse that it must have been a really good dance cuz they came in their pants but they don't always tip. afterwards, i feel kinda like a prostitute. does anyone else experience this?

    I thought i'd throw this in there too lol
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    For starters, this is not your fault. Any guy who cums from a lap dance is just lame. It's happened to me a handful of times and I do medium contact at most. Just make sure not to go crazy on the grinding and it should reduce the frequency of this happening. Definitely shame them into giving you a tip. Most likely you just had the misfortune of dancing for a guy like this

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    I thought i'd throw this in there too lol
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    Hahahaha. How appropriate and sums up those customers who can't quite contain their excitement.

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    I've had guys orgasm during lap dances between five and ten times throughout my entire dancing career. Or at least, between five and ten guys ADMITTED to it. I've heard that more guys do this than let on, which I guess I can understand. I don't grind a whole lot during dances (if I grind at all), so this is a fairly rare occurrence for me. I have noticed that when it happens, it'll happen like three times in a week, then nothing for six months.

    I wouldn't feel weird about it, and you definitely shouldn't feel like you're a prostitute. Some guys just have a hair trigger, so to speak. Or maybe they're on MDMA or something and just brushing up against them will make them explode. In this job, it just happens sometimes.

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    I originally thought that that was the purpose of a lap dance. I mean a hot sexy woman that is semi nude is jumping on your lap, some are even doing hard grinding with two way contact. So a guy cumming is a bad thing? If that's the case why aren't these clubs just promoting air dances instead?

    I recall watching gstring divas and the girl got angry when the guy came and it went all down her ass and legs. She was so grossed out but I saw her topless ( gstring) lap dance and thought it was pretty hot. She practically had her breasts in the guys mouth.

    Do guys still sit on their hands?

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    Ha!! I watched that video!! lol

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    Ive had this a few times, always guys with a hairtrigger, and never during any contact.
    some guys get 'overexcited' at a pair of boob near their face
    Theres no sense crying over every mistake,
    you just keep on trying till you run out of cake

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    Default Re: When guys cum in their pants

    The times this had happen to me in the past, they all had the courtesy of "pushing me" to make sure there is no fluid contact. Also, I had gotten big bucks for doing that despite is purely incidental.





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    Ugh, I know what you mean. I work in a nude contact club, so sometimes I don't know it's coming (no pun intended) and some guy will cum and it'll leak through his pants onto my lap cloth. Ew ew ew!!! I hate it cause I used to only bring one and I obviously didn't want to keep using my nasty smelling cloth. I've since wised up and always bring two. I actually have a customer who comes in once a month when he's in the area for military training and he goes to the club just to cum. They're some of the easiest dances I ever give. I buy two 1$ handkerchiefs from Walmart each month around the time he visits and use them as my lap cloth . All I do is sit on his lap and rub his nipples over his shirt. That's it. And five minutes later my 15 minute VIP is up lol and we go back downstairs. I get a decent tip out of it too. It only bothers me if I get some moisture on me. Then I get annoyed. I know it may seem kinda gross but to me it's a compliment. I think it's hilarious that I can sometimes make a guy come fully clothed.

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    YOU didn't do anything. I'll have to find it, but I've read threads here down in blue that say some of the assholes will get themselves ready before a dance. Don't feel like a prostitute. Look at them as the losers they really are and make them pay heavily since now you need to go douse yourself in bleach.
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    Bleah^! Nice thread to read w/coffee-donut, lol.

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    Def not your fault girl. I've had it happen plenty of times over the year. Some guys will be honest and sorry about it and actually do what they can to make it less of an unfortunate situation as they can. While you'll find others whose main goal is to do that. But I've seen guys who just cream there pants after I've only been sitting on them for 30 seconds. You gotta realize alot of the guys getting lap dances haven't been laid in months or even years!

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    I agree you did nothing wrong. It will happen sooner or later in this business.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexyscarlet View Post
    Ugh, I know what you mean. I work in a nude contact club, so sometimes I don't know it's coming (no pun intended) and some guy will cum and it'll leak through his pants onto my lap cloth. Ew ew ew!!! I hate it cause I used to only bring one and I obviously didn't want to keep using my nasty smelling cloth. I've since wised up and always bring two. I actually have a customer who comes in once a month when he's in the area for military training and he goes to the club just to cum. They're some of the easiest dances I ever give. I buy two 1$ handkerchiefs from Walmart each month around the time he visits and use them as my lap cloth . All I do is sit on his lap and rub his nipples over his shirt. That's it. And five minutes later my 15 minute VIP is up lol and we go back downstairs. I get a decent tip out of it too. It only bothers me if I get some moisture on me. Then I get annoyed. I know it may seem kinda gross but to me it's a compliment. I think it's hilarious that I can sometimes make a guy come fully clothed.
    i worked in a nude lap dance club 2 summers ago when i was still pretty new at the biz. i didn't know to bring a towel or lap cloth. i really wish i had known that other dancers do this because i would have done it too. it was actually pretty rough having to grind (in LA they usually make you do some heavy grinding) on jeans and stuff. alot of guys would be extra creepy and wear sweats so they can feel it better. i was a little grossed out by that but at least it didn't hurt as much as jeans! the first time a guy came during a lap dance was at that nude lap dance club. i was shocked but at least it didn't leak through. there have been times at my current club in baltimore when it has leaked through and the guy doesn't even care. it was all over my leg and garter one time and i was so grossed out, i rushed to the bathroom right after. i was actually worried if i couldl get pregnant that way! lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    YOU didn't do anything. I'll have to find it, but I've read threads here down in blue that say some of the assholes will get themselves ready before a dance. Don't feel like a prostitute. Look at them as the losers they really are and make them pay heavily since now you need to go douse yourself in bleach.
    haha wow... i had no idea guys actually did that. some of them will ask to go to the bathroom before a lap dance or champagne room, but i thought it was just cuz they had to pee. now, i'm gonna be suspicious every time they do that. thanks for the heads up!
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    It happened to me once. I was so grossed out. We did one dance, he handed me a 100 and got up and left the club. I felt so nasty. I never knew about the lap cloth either back then.

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    Me too, but it happens almost every nite in Baby Dolls. Some of the guys at least wear a condom before they come in. How could anyone squirt from just grinds? Wierd.

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    Default Re: When guys cum in their pants

    We are non contact and my friend still had a guy jizz in his pants last week, i had a "twitcher" who im pretty sure then jizzed, its not your fault, even if you dont grind some guys just cant handle it. (they were sat right at the front of the stage so my next set i danced to Lonely island - jizz in my pants and looked straight at my custy, he went bright red lol)
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